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EARTH . . . . . AIR . . . . . WATER . . . . . LIGHT. . . . . SPIRIT
CREATING
THE VALUE OF LIFE
By Fumihiko Iida
Associate Professor of Fukushima National University,
JAPAN
This book became best-seller in Japan
and achieved more than 400,000 copies in 1996.
Translated by
Muneo Yoshikawa, Ph.D.
Professor Emeritus, University of Hawaii
COPYRIGHT
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but please do not gain any profit !
Copyright (C) : Fumihiko Iida & Nuneo J. Yoshikawa
Fumihiko Iida
Faculty of Economics, Fukushima Univ.,
Matsukawa-cho, Fukushima City,
960–1296, Japan
Copy of The HTML file of Iida's HP by Yoshio Umeno.
—Why This Book is Being Sent Out From Japan to the World—
Muneo Yoshikawa, Ph.D.
Professor Emeritus, University of Hawaii
In the latter part of March, 1996, a trusted friend sent me a copy of Professor
Fumihiko Iida's article, "The Dawn of Meaning." I read it immediately
and was
amazed that a traditional academic journal at a major public university
in Japan had published a research article on life after death and rebirth,
especially since the topic is so remote from economics and management,
the journal's usual genre. I was full of emotion as I realized that the
new world-shaking paradigms (views of the world, of the universe, of nature,
of humanity and of the corporation) have at last started to make inroads
in Japan.
On the one hand, I was speechless with admiration for the bravery of Professor
Iida in submitting such theories to a journal of economics and management.
I have spent over thirty years in the academic environment of a public
University in the U.S., and I know very well that a scholar of management
must be prepared for the worst when he publishes theories such as Professor's
Iida's within the discipline of management science, where they appear out
of place, at least at first glance. I contacted Professor Iida immediately
because I was convinced that he had some compelling reason, a reason beyond
human knowledge, to act as he did. One week later I visited Professor Iida's
office at Fukushima University.
As I suspected, Professor Iida did have a reason beyond human knowledge
to write his article. I am unable to explain it simply, and Professor Iida
has requested that I refrain from trying. However, the overwhelming response
to his article made Professor Iida resolve to publish a greatly expanded
version of his article as a book. As I spoke to Professor Iida, I felt
very strongly that his theories were too important to be confined just
to Japan; I felt that Japan must send his ideas out to the whole world.
For that reason, I have been asked to write the introduction to this book,
a task which I, a non-Japanese, perform with great hesitation.
Transpersonal psychology and molecular physics, disciplines on the forefront
of global knowledge, are currently dealing with such concepts as the invisible
world, the realm of the unconscious and idea of life fields. In philosophy,
such concepts are termed the "celestial" realm and the realm
of "nothingness." The Japanese have words for these astral realms
in the world of art where the concepts are called yohaku (blankness, empty
space), yo'in (reverberation, lingering note) and yojo (suggestiveness,
lingering charm). These realms have meaning in a psychological and emotional
sense. Fellow Japanese very clearly understand and share this realm of
emotion.
In the world of business as well, Japanese have a shared understanding
in this astral plane of the "life-field" called the "workplace."
Just as in the world of art, this realm or life-field of work can also
be understood psychologically or emotionally. For that reason, the realm
of work has a nature that cannot ask "why" things happen.
As someone who is not Japanese, I think that Japan got so caught up with
the question of "how to" during the days of high economic growth
that the nation lost sight of the question "why." Corporations
fulfilled their destiny as entities with the shared understanding that
the goal is the pursuit of profits. When considered from a cultural perspective,
there was virtually no consciousness of purpose to generate the question
"what," nor was there any consciousness of vision to generate
the question "why." And then one day the hyper-inflated "bubble"
economy suddenly deflated, leaving Japan finally conscious of the emptiness
of a materialistic civilization. Now Japan is starting to search for real
wealth and seeking to find the meaning of life and the meaning of work.
Professor Iida grapples head on with these problems as a scholar of management. The conclusion he reaches is this: it is impossible to find the meaning of life or the meaning of work unless one changes one's human consciousness and set of values in the most fundamental and basic of ways.
This book proposes a "theory about the meaning of life," through
a comprehensive treatment of scientific research findings about "life
after death" and "rebirth," ideas that are found throughout
the world.
A course on "Death and Dying" has been part of the curriculum
at the state-owned University of Hawaii for the past twenty-five years.
Thinking about human life and death has become a respected academic discipline.
Japan is behind the rest of the world in this regard; however, Professor
Iida makes every effort in this book to elucidate the meaning of "life"
and "death" in as scholarly a fashion as possible by giving specific
examples, based upon the scientific research of scholars around the world.
What this book makes clear is that, "Human beings are creatures that
create meaning and that create value." Dr. Victor Frankel, a survivor
of the Nazi concentration camps, has stated that the people who survive
even the most horrible environments are those people who are able to find
value in their lives even in the midst of suffering. By publishing this
book, Dr. Iida also hopes to emphasize strongly the following: "People
who discover value in their own existence are strong people. Discovering
value in your own existence provides the most powerful reason for living."
It has been reported that the chief cause of death in the U.S. is "the
loss of a sense of meaning." Japan is no exception in this respect.
Japan presently has no vision (why) nor does it have clear goals (what).
Japan has lost its way and is buffeted about here and there by the immediate
situation. Professor Iida makes us aware of the world we cannot see (past
and future lifetimes) and, by thus raising our consciousness, draws our
attention to the one, unbroken chain of life that continues forever. This
book is essential required reading for most Japanese people because it
reveals the importance of attaching meaning anew to the "celestial"
realm and the realm of "nothingness."
As the author emphasizes, we are linked to all the objects, people and
living creatures that surround us. When we understand the meaning of our
existence, then for the first time, our ways of perceiving, of thinking,
of understanding and of interacting spring out of the boundaries of "humanity,"
spring out of the boundaries of "nationhood," and spring out
of the boundaries of the "world." Heightened in this fashion,
our very consciousness acquires a bright and shining hope in dealing with
problems which face all human beings such as racial issues and environmental
issues.
This book is required reading not only for Japanese but for each and every one of
the many people living on this earth. I myself plan to translate this book into English shortly, so that I can spread Professor Iida's "network of meaning" throughout the world.
I fervently pray that even one more person will read this book.
Contents
PROLOGUE – A Small Miracle 1
HOW THIS BOOK WAS WRITTEN; GRATITUDE TO ALL 2
FOREWORD 5
HOW IT BEGAN 6
1 MEMORIES OF PAST LIVES 9
1.1 HYPNOTIC REGRESSION . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10
1.2 THE PAST REBORN . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
(1) SWALLOWED BY THE FLOOD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
(2) ENVELOPED BY SMOKE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14
(3) A JAPANESE WHO LIVED AS A GERMAN . . . . . . . . . 16
(4) MEMOIRS OF A WOMAN SUBJECT . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18
1.3 PROOF OF PAST LIFE MEMORIES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20
(1) CONFORMITY TO HISTORICAL FACTS . . . . . . . . . . . 20
(2) CONSISTENCY IN DIFFERENT SUBJECTS'
MEMORIES OF PAST LIVES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21
(3) TERROR AT AUSCHWITZ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22
(4) CHILDREN TELL OF PAST LIVES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23
(5) ENCOUNTER WITH ONE'S OWN CORPSE . . . . . . . . . 24
2 HOW THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION WORKS 27
2.1 GOING HOME TO "THE OTHER WORLD" . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27
(1) CONSCIOUSNESS OF SELF AS "SPIRIT" . . . . . . . . . . 27
(2) A VIEW OF THE WORLD AFTER DEATH . . . . . . . . . . 28
VISIONS OF TUNNELS, RIVERS AND GATEWAYS . . 28
THE WORLD OF LIGHT AND UNDULATIONS . . . . . 30
(3) MEETINGS WITH THOSE WHO HAVE DIED . . . . . . . . 32
ONE HAPPY MOMENT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32
MESSAGES FROM THE DEAD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32
NO ONE DIES ALONE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33
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(4) THE EXISTENCE OF "GUARDIAN ANGELS" . . . . . . . . 34
2.2 MEMORIES AND RECOLLECTIONS OF LIFE . . . . . . . . . . . 35
(1) PANORAMIC VISION OF LIFE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35
(2) SELF-ASSESSMENT OF ONE'S LIFE . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37
HOW MUCH DID WE LOVE OTHERS? . . . . . . . . . 37
TEARS OF SHAME AND GRIEF . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38
A MESSAGE FROM THE BEINGS OF LIGHT . . . . . . 40
(3) KARMA IN HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS . . . . . . . . . . . . 41
2.3 ONE'S OWN PLAN FOR LIFE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42
(1) THE NEVER-ENDING QUEST FOR GROWTH . . . . . . . . 42
(2) HOW WE PLAN OUR LIVES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43
A FLOW CHART OF CHOICES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43
MOTIVE IS THE KEY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44
THE DEFEATED CAN ALWAYS TRY AGAIN . . . . . . 45
(3) SELF-CHOSEN TESTS AND TRIALS . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45
FACING THINGS HEAD ON . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45
HOW KARMIC JUSTICE WORKS . . . . . . . . . . . . 46
2.4 THE HUGE DRAMA OF KARMIC JUSTICE . . . . . . . . . . . . 48
(1) BIG EVENT ON BOARD SHIP . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48
(2) THE MAN HE KILLED BECAME HIS MOTHER . . . . . . . 49
(3) THE DETAILED WORKINGS OF HYPNOTIC REGRESSION 50
(4) CONVERSATION WITH HIS OWN KIDNEY . . . . . . . . . 54
2.5 THERE IS A TIME FOR EVERYTHING . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55
(1) DELIBERATELY CHOOSING A TOUGH ENVIRONMENT . 55
(2) WHY PEOPLE DIE YOUNG . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 56
2.6 REUNION WITH SOUL MATES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 57
(1) THE "TIES THAT BLIND" . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 57
(2) MYSTERIOUS FAMILY TIES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58
HATRED OF A SON . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58
RELATIONSHIP WITH A HUSBAND . . . . . . . . . . . 59
(3) SOULMATES FORTIFY AND HELP EACH OTHER . . . . . 61
A JOINT LIFE PLAN . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61
GRATEFUL TO SOULMATES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 62
(4) THE MYSTERY OF SYNCHRONISM . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63
(5) THE ART OF LOVING . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 64
2.7 REVISITING THE WORLD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 65
(1) OUR SOJOURN IN THE NEXT WORLD . . . . . . . . . . . 65
(2) MEMORIES HINDERING SELF-DEVELOPMENT ARE
SUPPRESSED . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 66
(3) BIRTH INTO THIS WORLD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 66
(4) WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYTHING . . . . . . . . 67
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3 COMMUNICATION WITH THE DEAD 69
3.1 REUNION WITH THE DEAD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 69
(1) EXPERIMENTS USING THE APPARITION BOOTH . . . . . 70
(2) CONVERSATIONS WITH DEAD RELATIVES . . . . . . . . 71
DAD ASKED WHAT SHE WANTED . . . . . . . . . . . 71
DR. MOODY'S EXPERIENCE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 72
ENCOURAGEMENT FROM A DECEASED
HUSBAND'S SPIRIT . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73
A VERY GOOD MARRIAGE PARTNER . . . . . . . . . 73
3.2 MESSAGES FROM THE DEAD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 74
(1) THE MIRACLE OF READINGS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 74
(2) CONVERSATION WITH A DEAD SON . . . . . . . . . . . . 75
(3) ENCOURAGEMENT FROM THE SPIRIT OF AN
ABORTED FETUS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 78
(4) I'll MARRY YOU EVERY SINGLE TIME I AM
REINCARNATED . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 79
(5) A DEAD WIFE APOLOGIZES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 79
(6) THE IMPORTANCE OF PRAYER . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81
4 THINKING ABOUT "LIFE AFTER DEATH" 83
4.1 THE PERSUASIVENESS OF THE "LIFE AFTER DEATH"
HYPOTHESIS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 83
(1) BETWEEN SCIENCE AND RELIGION . . . . . . . . . . . . 83
(2) HISTORY REPEATS ITSELF . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 84
(3) THE HUMILITY OF A SCIENTIST . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 85
4.2 THE SUPERIORITY OF "THEORIES ABOUT LIFE AFTER DEATH" 86
(1) IT CAN NEVER BE PROVEN THAT "THERE IS NO LIFE
AFTER DEATH" . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 87
(2) A DENIER WILL REALIZE HIS ERROR IF THERE IS
CONSCIOUSNESS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 87
5 THE THEORY OF THE MEANING OF LIFE 89
5.1 THE VALUE OF BELIEF . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 89
(1) THE RATIONALITY OF CHOOSING THE
"NON-SCIENTIFIC" . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 89
(2) WHAT WE MEAN BY "A FEELING THAT LIFE IS
MEANINGFUL" . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90
(3) SCIENTIFIC KNOWLEDGE AS "A SOURCE OF MEANING" 91
(4) FUNDAMENTAL CHANGES IN OUR SET OF VALUES . . . 93
5.2 A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" . . . . . . . . . 94
(1) FOR THOSE WHO HAVE LOST A CLOSE RELATIVE . . . . 94
LOVE FROM WIFE AND CHILDREN . . . . . . . . . . 94
THE COURAGE TO ACCEPT THE DEATH OF A FRIEND 95
THE STRENGTH TO OVERCOME A MOTHER'S DEATH 96
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ADVICE FROM A SON'S SPIRIT . . . . . . . . . . . . . 98
(2) TO THOSE WHO HAVE LOST A SWEETHEART . . . . . . . 98
(3) FOR THOSE STRICKEN WITH SERIOUS ILLNESS OR
HANDICAP . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 100
PHYSICAL PAIN IS A SIGN OF SPIRITUAL PROGRESS 100
MESSAGES FROM COLLEAGUES . . . . . . . . . . . . 100
THE SIGNIFICANCE OF VOLUNTEER WORK . . . . . 103
(4) FOR THOSE WHO ARE SOON TO DIE . . . . . . . . . . . . 103
RETURNING HOME . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 103
CHEERFUL INTIMACY WITH "DEATH" . . . . . . . . 105
(5) FOR THOSE TROUBLED BY HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS . . 105
WHY WE WERE BORN IN THIS WORLD. . . . . . . . . 105
LOVE AND FORGIVENESS . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 106
GRATITUDE TO SOULMATES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 108
WHY WE CHOOSE OUR PARENTS . . . . . . . . . . . 110
(6) FOR THOSE WHO HAVE LOST CONFIDENCE IN
THEMSELVES . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 112
WHY YOUR WORK IS WONDERFUL . . . . . . . . . . 112
THE "BREAKTHROUGH" CREATED BY
CHANGING OUR SET OF VALUES . . . . . . 115
VALUE IS BORN WHEN "KNOWLEDGE" IS PUT INTO
PRACTICE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119
"POSITIVE THINKING" IS A SOURCE OF ENERGY . . 121
5.3 THE GOD OF "MEANINGFUL LIFE" . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123
(1) FREE TO BELIEVE; FREE NOT TO BELIEVE . . . . . . . . 123
(2) GRATITUDE FOR "A GOD IN ONE'S OWN IMAGE" . . . . 125
(3) IT'S NOT "PAINFUL HARD WORK," BUT "JOYOUS
SELF-CULTIVATION
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 127
FINDING OUT WHO YOU ARE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 127
IT IS STILL NOT TOO LATE TO CHANGE . . . . . . . 128
WE ARE ALL BRAVE TRAVELERS . . . . . . . . . . . 129
POSTSCRIPT 131
EPILOGUE - The World Will Be as One 133
Won't You Join the "Network of Life's Meaning?" 134
BIBLIOGRAPHY 134
1.
PROLOGUE – A Small Miracle
It happened one day in Autumn when their oldest son Hiro was four.
There is a family in Tokyo, composed of a cheerful husband who works for
a large manufacturer, his practical wife, who is a full-time housewife,
and their son. The couple are trustworthy and well-educated and not the
sort who would tell a facile lie nor deceive others.
One morning, their son Hiro was absorbed, as he was every morning, in watching an 8:30 program on NHK Educational Television titled "Let's Play in English." His parents were eating their breakfast nearby.
Hiro was very quick at English. Without any formal instruction, he was
able to easily remember and accurately repeat, not just words, but entire
sentences of the English dialog spoken by the lady in the program.
Hiro was speaking fluently in English that morning too, and his mother
casually remarked, "Hiro, you speak English so well!"
Hiro answered in a perfectly offhand manner. "Oh, that's because I used to live in the United States."
Of course, Hiro had never lived in the U.S. He had been born in Tokyo and
had spent his entire four years of life in the same condominium.
His mother thought to herself, "I wonder how this child learned about
the U.S. when we've never taught him anything about it. Could he have found
out through T.V. or some child's magazine?" She said encouragingly,
"Oh, really. And so that's why your English is so good." Hiro's
parents had promised each other to always listen carefully to their child
and to never make fun of what their child said.
Hiro then calmly concluded, "Yes, I used to be very happy when I was living in the U.S. That's why I decided to be reborn once more."
His mother was at a loss for words. His father, who had been eating breakfast
and listening to the interchange, turned to look over in shock.
Hiro's parents were agnostics, and had never spoken of the concept of "reincarnation."
In fact, they were totally uninterested in reincarnation, and knew scarcely
anything about it. It seemed bizarre to them to hear their small four-year
old easily using such a difficult expression as "reborn" when
this was totally unlike Hiro's usual way of speaking. "How could this
child, who probably doesn't even know the meaning of the word 'life' as
yet, be speaking so fluently about "being reborn once more,"
his mother thought to herself, as she muttered non-committally to Hiro,
at a complete loss for words.
Several months later, Hiro's mother was suddenly motivated to ask Hiro
again about what he had said. She thought that if he answered her question
the same way as before, even after several months had passed, it would
prove that he had not just been speaking random nonsense before. She casually
asked him, "Hiro, dear, where did you live in the past?" Hiro
gave exactly the same answer as several months ago. But this time he made
a surprising addition. "I used to live in the United States. I lived
in the U.S. and I was very happy, so I decided to be reborn. Then someone
told me to go to Japan, and so I flew here."
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His mother hid her agitation, and asked, "Who was it who told you
to go to Japan?"
"Um... I don't know. But I was told to go to Japan, and that's why I flew here. Then I was inside mommy's tummy."
Just before he had turned three, Hiro had started to show her "the
way I held my body when I was in your tummy." Naturally, his parents
had never taught him anything about this, and it was impossible for a two-year
old to have such knowledge.
His mother asked him once more in a serious tone, "Hiro, dear, do
you remember being in mommy's tummy?" Hiro answered, "Sure, I
remember. I could hear daddy's voice. And I could hear mommy's voice too."
As he was speaking, Hiro pulled his legs up and rolled into a ball. "This is the way I held my body. When I was awake, I stretched out my hands." He kicked his legs and stretched out his hands.
"Do you remember when you were born."
"Yes, I remember. I was upside down, and my body was turning around
and my head came out first."
Hiro's mother could no longer deny what she had seen and heard with her own eyes and ears. She had never once taught Hiro any of the kinds of things he was telling her. While it is certainly true that a baby's body rotates in his mother's birth canal as it is being born, there was no way that Hiro could have learned that. She and her husband, who was standing nearby, were convinced that this was a true "memory" of what Hiro had actually experienced. Hiro spoke calmly, but his speechless parents were overcome by emotion.
"When I came out of mommy's tummy, it was so very very bright and
cold." Several months later, at the end of my interview with her,
Hiro's mother said in conclusion, "My husband and I feel that we have
learned the meaning of life from our four year old son. Our son's words
taught us that we should live happily, enjoying all the things that happen
in our daily lives.
Hiro's words– "I was so very happy that I wanted to be reborn again."–
will remain forever in his parents' hearts.
HOW THIS BOOK WAS WRITTEN; GRATITUDE TO ALL
In September of 1995, I published some of my research in Shogaku Ronshu,
the university academic journal. My article was titled "The Dawn of
'Meaning' – Regarding the Influence of Scientific Research on Reincarnation
On Our Outlook on Life". [1] When I published it, I was terrified
that the other professors would reproach me, that other people would laugh
at me and that I would lose my precious friends.
However, the things I feared have not materialized, even though over six
months have passed. On the contrary, requests have soared for copies of
my article in response a comment that I had written at the end of my article,
"Free copies will be sent to those who request them." I was eventually
sending out over one hundred copies of my article every day. There were
times when letters and faxes totaled over 170 per day. As a result, I ran
out of the copies that I had prepared, and repeatedly had to make new copies
at my own expense. Braced by warm support from all of you, I sent out over
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7,000 articles, including copies, in six months. Many people copied their
own articles to send to friends, so there must be thousands and thousands
of people in Japan who have seen my article.
Naturally there were heartless materialists who made unpleasant and gloomy
comments; and there were some people who began to keep their distance from
me.
However, there were hundreds more strangers from all over the country who
sent me warm and appreciative letters and faxes expressing their support
and opinions. This gave me great strength.
At this point, I would like to introduce some representative letters selected
from the hundreds that I have received. I have been greatly strengthened
by the heartfelt emotion which permeates these letters
Words cannot express my gratitude for this manuscript. I am terribly excited
about it. I received the report on February 15. Just by thumbing through
it, I knew instantly that what I had received was extraordinary. I felt
as if the manuscript had grabbed that shining vital part of my heart, and
shook it violently from side to side.
Before I had finished reading it all, I faxed seven or eight key people
in my life, telling them about this report. I rejoice that your report
had been published. I now feel that I have been reborn. As I read your
report, I found myself sometimes nodding in deep agreement, sometimes breaking
into tears, and sometimes smiling quietly. When I read on the train, those
around me would vacate their seats, leaving me pleased that I could read
in peace! I can feel the dawn of a new age
This is my first letter to you.
I lost a person I loved in an automobile accident on (date deleted). He
and I had built up a very strong relationship together. I respected him
very much. I wanted to learn more about him. Now it is all gone. I was
unable to put my mind to anything the first four or five days after his
death, and I agonized over what would become of me.
After about a week had passed, a friend gave me a report and asked me to
read it. It was Professor Iida's article, "The Dawn of 'Meaning.'"
I read it through the first time in about an hour. Then I slowly read it
over again and again and again. I am still unable to express my feelings
very well in words. The best I can do is to say, "Professor Iida saved
me."
I had been secretly thinking about killing myself. But then I found Professor
Iida, and learned the meaning of living. I began to think seriously about
"reliving" my life. "The Dawn of 'Meaning'" is my bible.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I'm sure there will be many days when I feel miserable; however, I will be able to move forward optimistically because I have "The Dawn of Meaning." I will never forget the past as I move forward with my life,
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and I will sometimes stop and look back at the road I have taken. But I
will be able to choose my path and calmly accept all that happens around
me.
I will go on living so that I may become a truly, truly good person. With
your help, Professor Iida, I now want to go on living. Please forgive me
for getting carried away and writing so exclusively about myself in such
messy handwriting. I am so happy that I read your work. From now on, I
will put my heart into living. I will put all my energies into living on.
I offer you my deepest gratitude for giving me my life back.
I've just finished rereading your article. Words cannot express the overwhelming
gratitude that I feel as I wonder how to incorporate into my everyday life
the strong impressions that were engraved on my heart by each phrase of
"The Dawn of 'Meaning.'" I am ___ years old and operate a small
store. I also have some young people working for me and managing the store
cheerfully and happily. Still, some people leave me each year because of
their inability to share the same dreams and hopes. This fills me with
sadness, even though my own powerlessness
and lack of education may be the cause.
However, after being exposed to Professor Iida's ideas, I have sensed my
innermost feelings slowly becoming brighter. We have been placed on earth
in order to perfect ourselves through discipline. His ideas have allowed
me to resolve one by one many of the strange and naive doubts that I had.
I see now that there is a reason for the unexpected words of others. And
I now understand with painful clarity that nothing can be resolved or settled
through grief and anger alone. Most important of all, I believe that I
have started to understand the meaning of my own life.
I want to start now to change my own way of living. I want to spend each
day consciously aware of my gratitude not only to my wife and family but
also to my parents, my friends, my employees, my business connections,
and most of all, my customers.
I see now that there was a reason for everything that happened. Each event
was a big link to the meaning of my life.
I do not want to selfishly hoard my blessed peace of mind; I have decided
to make every effort to impart this lesson to those around me.
I am a Director of a trading company. Thank you for sending me your article.
I read it right away. As the world becomes more and more virtual, there
are fewer and fewer things that truly make a strong impression. For the
first time in ages, I felt emotions that seemed to well up from deep inside
me. Since reading "The Dawn of 'Meaning'" I have become aware
of my reason for being alive in "this world," and I want to share
your article with those around me in my network. Please continue your research
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and lectures, secure in the knowledge that you have many supporters like
me.
Along with letters like this one, many strangers wrote to say, "I
want my loved ones to read your article, but the bookstores don't carry
academic works. In any event, your style and wording are too difficult
and scholarly. Please create a more readable book, and have the bookstores
carry it." I was grateful for their chastisements and entreaties.
To tell you the truth, their reprimands were completely unexpected, but
welcome.
That is how this book was born.
The true parents of this book are those many letter-writers with their
words of encouragement.
Thank you all very much.
FOREWORD
This book is a simplified, readable presentation of the results of scientific
research on reincarnation and the afterlife. It is a book about the "meaning
of life," written from a new perspective, which shows how wonderful
our everyday lives will become and how our views of human nature will change
when we apply the knowledge gained from this research. This book does not
aim to prove the existence of "reincarnation" and the "afterlife."
No one could possibly provide sufficient proof and no method would suffice
to convince. [100]
To give an example, suppose a dead soul came back to this world as a ghost
and gave a press conference on television for all the people of the world
to see. Those who do not wish to believe could use circuitous logic to
deny the phenomena that they saw before their very eyes. They could refuse
to believe to the very end, explaining away what they see as a collective
hallucination or as an illusion caused by some mental mischief or as a
trick played by the television station or as something that is impossible
by the laws of physics. They are perfectly free to deny what they see,
and, in fact, it is their right to do so if they wish.
For that reason, when I am asked whether "reincarnation" and
"the afterlife" are "real" or not, all I can answer
is, "Well, you'll find out for sure after you die." However,
regardless of what is true, as a researcher into "the meaning of life,"
I find it tremendously worthwhile that the results of my research on various
phenomena have greatly strengthened and revitalized many people.
Consequently, my interests lie not in "truth," but rather in
those "phenomena" that heighten the feeling that life is worthwhile.
This is because I am not a psychologist nor am I a philosopher nor am I
a physicist; I am instead a results-oriented teacher of management, whose
role is much like that of a physician, in the sense that I "heal the
heart." For this reason especially, this book is not about the unusual
themes of "reincarnation" and "rebirth," but really
about "the meaning of life."
There is a big difference between "believing" and "confirming." To "believe," one
does not need any evidence or basis for belief, but only the will to believe.
Until now, this has been the province of "religion." In order
to "confirm" something, however, one
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must have sufficient evidence to be convinced, and one must investigate,
thus entering into the realm of science.
In that sense, this book first will explain in easily understandable terms
the results of scientific research on "reincarnation" and "the
afterlife." Whether or not these scientific results will be enough
to elevate a "desire to believe" to the level of "a confirmation"
will be at the discretion of each reader. I am sure that there some who
will deny it, saying that there is insufficient proof, but there are others
who will say in astonishment, "There's so much evidence, that I'm
convinced."
At this point, what I want each of you to ask yourself, based on the research
results presented in this book, is the following, "How would my life
change if I started to believe in reincarnation and an afterlife?"
I am not stubbornly insisting that you recognize these as truths. This
book is not intended to convince the disbelievers. Instead, it is intended
to encourage those who are in doubt about what to believe, and to provide
scientific information to those who already "believe," in order
to encourage and support them in their lives.
Furthermore, this book never quotes without very good reason writings by
psychics or religious figures, nor private therapists nor journalists,
nor those who term themselves social commentators and entertainers. Of
course, I do not deny that their numerous publications include several
excellent works; however, in order to maintain a scholarly and objective
viewpoint, the quotations used in this book are chiefly from the research
of renowned university professors, of researchers who hold Ph.D. degrees
and of clinical physicians.
In addition, my family and I do not belong to any religious group, but instead
follow the typical Japanese religious hodgepodge, visiting Shinto shrines
during the big Shinto New Year's festivals, visiting Buddhist temples during
the Buddhist festival of the dead, and putting up a Christmas tree at Christmas.
It is true that once I had a paranormal experience that convinced me concretely
of the existence of "spirits;" it is also true that I was aided
in writing this book by the strong encouragement of the "spirits."
However, I wish to stress strongly once again that neither the contents
of this book nor I have any connection with any religious group.
If you are a person who "will never accept" the existence of
"reincarnation" or of "the afterlife," please go ahead
and enjoy this book as an ornate and colorful fantasy.
If you are a person who "is in doubt" about acceptance, please
open up this book with excitement.
If you are a person who is already a fervent believer, please nod your
head deeply in agreement as you read, as you confirm what you already know.
Let us begin the narrative.
HOW IT BEGAN
I am a professor of management. For my research in "human resource
management," I constantly think about the questions of "what
makes work fulfilling," of "what makes life worthwhile,"
and of "what brings feelings of happiness."
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These days in particular, I have been getting an increasing number of requests
from all over for speeches on the theme of "Managing the Meaning of
Life," and I have become more and more keenly aware of the importance
of this theme.
Originally, I did research in what is called, in technical parlance, "organizational
culture," or "communal group values." I pursued my theories
within the rubric of traditional "management science," from the
viewpoint of "increasing work fulfillment by changing value systems."
In other words, managers and superiors were to reform the organization,
using the rallying call "human values" as a means to attain a
type of "desirable mind control."[2]
However, I have recently noticed that managers and supervisory personnel
share an awareness of a common problem. What worries them is this: "We
tried various methods to increase employee motivation; however, these were
no more than superficial fixes. At best we were temporarily able to trick
the employees into thinking that they liked work." Therefore, these
managers and supervisory personnel want to know how to affect their employees'
value systems at the deepest of levels, in order to make profound changes
in the employees' ways of thinking, so that "increased work motivation"
will no longer be a superficial and temporary phenomena.
I was inspired to try to relate the special information that I gained through
a personal paranormal experience. When I did so, those people who learned
of the information listened with great intensity, widening their eyes in
astonishment, and sometimes breaking into tears.
One manager nodded in agreement, saying, "That is exactly what I have been
seeking. I was mistaken. I have remembered what is really at issue here:
the issue is not what I can make my employees do for me, but what I can
do for my employees." Another administrator said with great enthusiasm,
"I want my families and friends to learn about this, not just my employees."
One student was full of joy, "Now I am no longer afraid of anything.
From now on when I go home to my single room, I will not be lonely at all."
This special information mentioned above, the topic of this book, is a
discussion of the results of recent scientific research on "reincarnation"
and "the afterlife." I was astonished at the tremendous results
that occurred when I conveyed this information to others. Eliminating the
listener's preconceptions and imparting this information accurately created
an impact that went far beyond producing greater motivation in the workplace
– it made people start asking fundamental questions about the "meaning
of life" and about what comprises "happiness."
I could not help but feel the immense power working whenever I saw the
same people who had adamantly resisted change no matter what the inducement,
start casting off and discarding the hard shells of their ego. This made
me realize that the world is full of people who are searching in their
hearts for this information. I finally understood that people who are undergoing
an ordeal, those who have been visited by a sudden tragedy, and those who
have had a major setback find a great spiritual comfort in the ideas of
"reincarnation" and "the afterlife."
As a university professor I frequently counsel people. However, as an individual
I can only suggest a very limited number of alternatives to help, for example,
the
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woman whose boyfriend has thrown her over, the student who has failed to
get into the college of his choice and the senior who was not offered a
job by his dream company. How then can my very limited strength possibly
encourage and hearten a handicapped individual or his parents, a young
person maimed by an accident, a grieving young widow or a patient suffering
from an incurable disease?
Of course, it is easy to say encouragingly, "Cheer up and do your
best!" However, so many people who have lost meaning in their lives
have lost the very "source of strength to live." They are in
the same situation as a piece of equipment with dead batteries. Nothing
will move even if you press the on switch. You can shout all you want,
"Don't leave the switch off; turn it on," but you cannot hope
for any results.
So many people surround us who have lost "the source of strength to
live."We can find them in our companies, among students, among our
families and relatives. And the friend who is full of hopes today could
very well lose everything and sink under misfortune tomorrow.
If misfortune occurs, how can we possibly recreate "the source of
meaning" for the victims of misfortune?
If we assume temporarily that "reincarnation" and "the afterlife"
are true, then all of our small daily discontents will cease to matter,
and our misfortunes and setbacks which had seemed so meaningless, could
instead take on a very significant meaning.
Such knowledge might work better as a powerful "source of life's meaning"
than all the words of encouragement in the world.
That is precisely the reason why I developed an interest in research on
"reincarnation" and "the afterlife" while I was still
a young management researcher, just starting out. It is because both "reincarnation"
and "the afterlife" are components of "theories of the meaning
of life" essential to basic humanity.
By so doing, I broke out of the traditional boundary of "management
science" and recklessly ran into the broad research jungle of "human
studies.
Chapter 1
MEMORIES OF PAST LIVES
The evidence for reincarnation, although mostly circumstantial, is now so compelling that intellectual assent is natural... The reader....I hope, will arrive at the same conclusion as I have: that we've lived before in past lives and will likely live again in future. Our current life is but a small link in a long unbroken chain.[3]
The above quotation is from Dr. Joel L. Whitton, who is Chair of the Psychology
Department of the Medical School of the University of Toronto.
Dr. Robert Almeder, a professor at Georgia University, analyzed various
recent stories and examples of life after death, and objectively researched
the claims of both supporters and deniers and came to the following conclusion
in 1992:[4-A]
For the first time in human history we have a body of factual evidence strongly
supporting belief in some form of life after death... The results of this
examination are philosophically striking and constitute, I believe, strong
evidence for belief in some form of personal survival after death...So,
not only is belief in personal survival verifiable by appeal to public
evidence, it has been verified by evidence that is public and repeatable.
[4-B]
We can broadly divide scientific research into human life after death into two types.
The first type conducts research under the following premise: "Even
after we lose our physical bodies, we continue to exist as a consciousness
(or, in other words, as a spirit)."
The second type starts with the premise, "We exist as a consciousness
(a spirit) after death, and take on physical form again when we are reborn."
The first type is research on "life after death," and the second
type is research on "rebirth," or borrowing Buddhist ideas, research
on what is called "the transmigration of souls."
Research of this nature was carried out prior to the nineteenth century
under the form of the study of "Apparitions" or "communications
with the deceased." While some writings are persuasive, in general
they are inspired by religious impulses or popular interests.[5]
From what I have seen, pure academic theorizing and research using the
scientific method of collecting and analyzing data began in the field of
clinical medicine. We can trace its beginnings to the end of the nineteenth
century; however, it has only been
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in the last ten or twenty years that interest in the topic has spread to
many researchers, and that corroboration of results has increased.
The majority of the people interested in this theme are serious researchers
who are highly regarded in various other disciplines. Generally, they report
that initially they disbelieved in an "afterlife" and in "reincarnation,"
and, in fact, had never felt any interest in these topics. Furthermore,
many of these researchers refuse to believe in "reincarnation"
even now. Since they are believers in Christianity, a religion that does
not deal with "reincarnation" they have to be very courageous
to publish the results of their research because those results do not square
with the beliefs that they have learned since childhood. The issue is not
whether Christ Himself was correct or mistaken. There were ancient Christian
sects that recognized "reincarnation."6 At one time, many Christian
sects, in the process of explaining "the world of the afterlife"
in plain language, stressed the difference between the glory of Heaven
and the horrors of Hell, and decided, as religious bodies, not to recognize
"reincarnation."
Currently researchers of these themes are no longer interested in proving
the existence of an "afterlife" and of "reincarnation."
Instead their interest has shifted to studying the actual way these concepts
operate and in methods of communicating with disembodied spirits.
Most of these researchers are actual physicians or clinical doctors. Consequently,
they do not consider that their mission is to convince old-type physicists
or materialists who are hopelessly locked into their old value systems.
Instead, these researchers put their emphasis on unlocking practical knowledge
that they can use in counseling the suffering, and in comforting those
who are trembling with fear at imminent death.
This book aims at organizing and synthesizing "practical knowledge
for living" discovered by these researchers, and in exploring it from
the perspective of "meaningful life theories." Well then, let
us begin by looking at various research results about memories of previous
lives.
1.1 HYPNOTIC REGRESSION
The reason that we know that we humans have lived "past lives"
on this earth, and that we have the potential to be reborn any number of
times is because of the introduction of the psychological therapy known
as hypnotic regression about twenty years ago. (In this book, I will use
the term "past lives" to refer to all the lives we have lived
until now; I will use the term "previous life" to refer to our
immediately prior life.)
People frequently fail to understand that "hypnotism" is not
a spell or magic, but is merely the focusing of consciousness on one specific
point. Induced by a trained physician, the body of the test subject (the
person agreeing to be experimented upon) or of the subject being hypnotized
relaxes completely, and forgotten memories surface with prompting or suggestion.
The act of remembering enables floating anxieties to be alleviated and
phobias to be eliminated.[7]
For example, a subject who is terrified of "water" may remember
under hypnotic regression that he nearly drowned as a child while playing
in the water. Another subject
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who has an abnormal phobia about the dark may recover a childhood memory
of being attacked in the dark.
In this connection, Dr. David Chamberlain, Vice Chairman of the Pre-Birth
and Neonatal Psychology Association, has regressed many of his subjects
back to memories of their birth or to their time in the uterus. He has
discovered that a fetus can distinguish his mother's voice, and a newborn
baby can understand the emotions of his parents.[8]
He relates that infants read their parents' emotions very perceptively.
For example, he says that if a new parent says, "Oh, what a disappointment.
I wanted a boy," the infant can be deeply wounded, and this pain can
take form later as a mental or physical ailment, as, for example, a male
complex. (Readers, please be careful what you say around your pregnant
wives and infants!)
Someone under hypnosis is not sleeping, and is fully conscious of all his
experiences. In response to the doctor's words, he may express his views,
make criticisms or investigate his own memories. Hypnotism does not force
someone to speak of his hidden secrets, nor does it create memories against
one's will.[9]
I have learned that when one remembers past lives, sometimes one observes
them as if watching a movie, and sometimes one responds emotionally as
if thrust once again into the past. There are times when one can actually
hear sounds and smell odors.
Unless the doctor indicates that the memories induced under hypnosis must
be forgotten, the subject will remember all that he experienced under hypnosis
after awakening. If the subject wishes to stop, he can emerge from the
hypnotic state at any time through his own volition.
Consequently, the subject is able to respond to the doctor's question,
to speak in his usual fashion and to know where and when the events happened
that he is remembering, even while he is remembering past events under
a deep hypnotic trance. As a result, a subject who discovers that he was
a farmer fighting a war during the Middle Ages in Europe may sometimes
recognize a contemporary friend appearing also in his past life (they were
acquaintances in a past life), may compare the primitive weapons he was
using in his past life to modern weapons, or may tell what the date was
in the part of his past life he is remembering. In other words, the subject
in a hypnotic regression, "is the movie's observer and its critic
and usually its star at the same time."[10]
Hypnotic regression began in the 1890s with the work of Albert de Rochas,
whose research involved using hypnosis to make his subjects remember past
lives. The subjects gave what seemed to be convincing evidence of past
lives, such as telling where they had lived and what their family name
had been; however, there was no way to prove whether such a person had
actually existed. De Rochas was groping blindly in the dark, as one always
is when confronted with a the birth of a new science. The psychologists
and psychiatrists of de Rochas' day dismissed the results of his startling
experimental research, saying that his subjects' memories of past lives
were due to mental derangement.[11]
However, Dr. Alexander Cannon began scientific experiments on reincarnation
once again around the middle of the twentieth century. Dr. Cannon was successful
in
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regressing his over 1,300 subjects back to memories of events that had
occurred even thousands of years before the birth of Christ.
For years the theory of reincarnation was a nightmare to me and I did my
best to disprove it and even argued with my trance subjects to the effect
that they were talking nonsense. Yet as the years went by one subject after
another told me the same story in spite of different and various beliefs.
Now well over a thousand cases have been so investigated and I have to
admit that there is such a thing as reincarnation.[12] Dr. Cannon treated
thousands of subjects with phobias in the 1970s and 1980s. His methods
became known as "regression therapy." Dr. Edith Fiore, a clinical
psychologist, supported the reincarnation hypothesis, stating:
If someone's phobia is eliminated instantly and permanently by the remembrance
of an event from the past, it seems to make logical sense that that event
must have happened.[13]
Other researchers also gradually began to recognize the authenticity of reincarnation.
All human minds have a subconscious area, which is beyond conscious access.
When a person endures some mental trauma, this trauma can be suppressed
and stored in their subconscious, with the trauma appearing on the surface
disguised as a neurotic symptom. Psychological analysis, using free association
and dream analysis, has been a useful treatment in unlocking long-repressed
childhood memories in the unconscious mind; however, regression therapy
carries this one step further, using hypnosis to find reasons going back
to past lives.
A very high level of skill at hypnosis is necessary to regress subjects
to their past lives. Not all subjects are able to enter a trance deep enough
to recall memories of their past lives. Therefore, regression therapy is
not yet for general use since it cannot be used easily on everyone everywhere.
There are popular practitioners using hypnotism therapy in the United States;
however, some are charlatans who are out to make money and cannot be trusted.
Just using the words "past lives" in Japan can frequently lead
to misunderstandings. Japan is still at the stage where only a very small
numbers of practicing doctors are researching this topic, and there are
only a few therapists who are experimenting with it.
1.2 THE PAST REBORN
In what form exactly do the subjects of regression hypnosis remember the
past? I will discuss several simple examples.
(1) SWALLOWED BY THE FLOOD
In 1982, Dr. Brian L. Weiss, Chairman of Psychiatry at the Mount Sinai
Medical Center in Miami, used regression therapy on a subject named Catherine.
Dr. Weiss was a serious researcher who had published copious research in
the traditional scientific areas. At the time, he totally disbelieved in
reincarnation and in the afterlife, and
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he had absolutely no interest in those topics. Catherine, who was a Christian,
also appeared not to believe in the principles of reincarnation.
Dr. Weiss had not been able to discover the reason for Catherine's terror
of water, even after he regressed her to her childhood memories, so he
gave her a deliberately vague suggestion, "Go back to the time from
which your symptoms came." Dr. Weiss describes what happened then
as follows.
"Go back to the time from which your symptoms arise." I was totally
unprepared for what came next.
"I see white steps leading up to a building, a big white building
with pillars, open in front. There are no doorways. I'm wearing a long
dress...a sack made of rough material. My hair is braided, long blond hair."
I was confused. I wasn't sure what was happening. I asked her what the
year was, what her name was. "Aronda...I am eighteen. I see a marketplace
in front of the building. There are baskets... You carry the baskets on
your shoulders. We live in a valley....There is no water. The year is 1863
B.C. The area is barren, hot and sandy. There is a well, no rivers. Water
comes into the valley from the mountains...
...I'm wearing...sandals. I am twenty-five. I have a girl child whose name
is Cleastra... She's Rachel. (Rachel is presently her niece; they have
always had an extremely close relationship.)
I was startled. My stomach knotted, and the room felt cold. Her visualization
and recall seemed so definite. She was not at all tentative. Names, dates,
clothes, trees – all seen vividly! What was going on here? How could the
child she had then be her niece now? I was even more confused. I had examined
thousands of psychiatric patients, many under hypnosis, and I had never
come across fantasies like this before – not even in dreams. I instructed
her to go forward to the time of her death. I wasn't sure how to interview
someone in the middle of such an explicit fantasy (or memory?), but I was
on the lookout for traumatic events that might underlie current fears or
symptoms...
..."There are big waves knocking down trees. There's no place to run.
It's cold; the water is cold. I have to save my baby, but I cannot...just
have to hold her tight. I drown; the water chokes me. I can't breathe,
can't swallow...salty water. My baby is torn out of my arms." Catherine
was gasping and having difficulty breathing. Suddenly her body relaxed
completely, and her breathing became deep and even.
"I see clouds...My baby is with me. And others from my village. I see my brother."
She was resting; this lifetime had ended. She was still in a deep trance.
I was stunned! Previous lifetimes? Reincarnation? My clinical mind told
me that she was not fantasizing this material, that she was not making
this up... The whole gamut of possible psychiatric diagnoses flashed through
my mind., but her psychiatric state and her character structure did not
explain these revelations...
...These were memories of some sort, but from where? My gut reaction was
that I had stumbled upon something I knew very little about – reincarnation
and past-life memories. It couldn't be, I told myself; my scientifically
trained mind resisted it. Yet here it was, happening right before my eyes.
I couldn't explain it, but I couldn't deny the reality of it either.
"Go on," I said, a little unnerved but fascinated by what was happening. "Do you
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remember anything else?" She remembered fragments of two other lifetimes.[14]
Dr. Weiss had experienced for the first time the moment when hypnotic regression
makes a subject recall "memories of past lives. As a scientist, Dr.
Weiss did not want to believe in reincarnation and life after death; however,
as the hypnotism therapy sessions continued, Catherine demonstrated repeatedly
when in a trance she was aware of many of Dr. Weiss' personal secrets,
secrets which no outsider could have known. What is more, as you will see
below, Catherine indicated that those secrets had been related to her by
her "master," as she termed the guiding spirit from beyond.
My arms were gooseflesh. Catherine could not possibly know this information. There was no place even to look it up. My father's Hebrew name, that I had a son who died in infancy from a one-in-ten million heart defect, my brooding about medicine, my father's death, and my daughter's naming – it was too much, too specific, too true. This unsophisticated laboratory technician was a conduit for transcendental knowledge. And if she could reveal these truths, what else was there? I needed to know more.
"Who," I sputtered, "who is there? Who tells you these things?"
"The Masters," she whispered, "the Master Spirits tell me.
They tell me I have lived eighty-six times in physical state.[15]
Thereafter, the "guiding spirits" from the world beyond would
directly answer Dr. Weiss' questions, using Catherine's voice. Some of
the interesting things that were relayed by the spirits will be introduced
in other parts of this book, together with the findings of other researchers.
Dr. Weiss took every possible approach to debunking this strange phenomena,
but, at last, he had no choice but to accept the truth of what he had seen
with his very own eyes. He experimented with many other subjects using
hypnotic regression, to have them remember past lives.
He discovered that about 60
The best therapist working within the classically accepted limits of the
single lifetime will not be able to effect a complete cure for the patient
whose symptoms were caused by a trauma that occurred in a previous lifetime...[16]
Dr. Weiss performed regressive therapy individually on hundreds of persons,
from all walks of life – medical doctors, company directors, lawyers, therapists,
housewives, factory workers, salesmen – with every type of socioeconomic,
religious and educational background. He also hypnotized many times that
number of subjects in group hypnotic regressive sessions, and almost all
of the subjects remembered past lives. Dr. Weiss reported that these subjects
were cured of myriad and sundry unexplained ailments, including fear complexes,
panic attacks, bad dreams, obesity, anthropophobia, physical pains and
so on.[17]
(2) ENVELOPED BY SMOKE
Doctors other than Dr. Weiss have also reported several examples of subjects
who were freed from serious disease by reliving memories of past lives.
For example, a physician from New Jersey, Dr. Robert Jarmon related an
example of hypnotic regression.
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The patient, Elizabeth, was a fifty-one year old executive who suffered
from respiratory disease. She came to Dr. Jarmon for hypnotic regression,
thinking that the real cause of her ailment lay in her past lives.
"Now I want you to go to an old scene," Dr. Jarmon instructed
Elizabeth. "I want you to go back to the first time you had that problem
where you couldn't breathe, the feeling you couldn't catch your breath.
As you see that scene, describe what you see." Elizabeth began to
tremble. She grimaced.
"There it is," Dr. Jarmon said. "I want you to look down
at your feet. What are you wearing on your feet?"
"Dark shoes," she reported, in a child's voice. "Old lady's shoes."
The doctor probed further. "Where are you? What are you doing?"
"Where are you? What are you doing?"
"Sewing. But I know what's going to happen. There's going to be a
fire." Elizabeth stammered and began coughing. Her breathing became
rapid and shallow. "Smoldering... the rags over there in the corner."
Elizabeth described herself as a sixteen-year-old girl named Nora who lived
in Sterling, Massachusetts, in 1879. Nora worked in a shirt factory. She
was deaf, could not speak, and wore braces on her legs. She had been working
in this factory since age twelve.
"Smoke...Flames!" she coughed. "They are trying to put it
out...they are hitting it. They're beating it. Someone threw water on it,
but there's not enough water," she
cried. Her breathing became very labored.
"Everyone's trying to get out," she sputtered.
"How about you? Are you trying to get out?" Dr. Jarmon asked.
"I can't. They won't help me."
"Why do you need help?"
"I can't walk...I have braces on my legs," Elizabeth cried, gasping for air.
"They don't even see me. I'm there. I can't breathe. I can't stand
it any more," she gulped.
Suddenly, she went limp. After several silent and tense minutes, Dr. Jarmon
asked her to describe the scene.
"Is the fire still raging?"
"Yes..but I am resting.... I'm dead...still sick...have to rest. Some
need more rest than others. But it's okay. Now it's peaceful."
Elizabeth's respiratory problems disappeared after she re-experienced her
death in the fire. She lost her lifelong fear of suffocating. Her values
and her life Changed dramatically.[18]
In the course of conducting hypnotic regression on literally thousands
of subjects, Dr. Weiss discovered a phenomena that spans many lifetimes.
Many of my patients have recalled different traumatic patterns under hypnosis
that repeat in various forms in lifetime after lifetime. These patterns
include abuse between father and daughter that has been recurring over
centuries only to surface once again in the current life. They also include
an abusive husband in a past life who has resurfaced in the present as
a violent father. Alcoholism is a condition that has ruined several
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lifetimes, and one warring couple discovered they had been homicidally
connected in four previous lives together. [19]
Later on in this book, I will explain in detail this karma or fate that
stretches across several lifetimes as I discuss other researchers' discoveries
of the same phenomena.
(3) A JAPANESE WHO LIVED AS A GERMAN
Now I will discuss the case of a Japanese male who underwent hypnotic regression
with a Japanese doctor who has kindly granted his permission for me to
discuss it. The doctor is a neurosurgeon who was trained at New York University
and is a member of the U.S. Hypnotherapists' Association (check name).
I have interviewed him, and can guarantee that he is a sincere, cool-headed,
trustworthy source.
This doctor uses hypnotherapy as just one treatment method, and does not
want his real name used for fear that he would be inundated with people
curious about their past lives, so we shall call him Dr. S. Since hypnotic
regression takes a long time for each patient, Dr. S. says he prefers to
use other therapies except when the patient can only be cured by the use
of hypnotic regression.
At a later point, I shall discuss several other cases, but let us start
for now with the case of a twenty-eight year old Japanese woman. Doctors
and their patients make progress by asking and answering single questions,
but in the interests of clarity, I have chosen here to combine and condense
their dialogue in a narrative fashion. [20]
After Dr. S. induced a hypnotic state, the Japanese woman remembered several
childhood scenes from her present life before she started remembering her
past lives.
The next instant, she saw before her eyes a broad plain.
Doctor: What is your name?
Woman: Father is calling me from far away. I hear him calling "Cathy."
Doctor: What do you see.
Woman: I am so happy. I am standing barefoot in a beautiful natural setting.
I can feel nature with my whole body.
There a chain of mountains in the distance. I am surrounded by a field
of flowers. My father is a farmer and we have one cow and one horse. We
are a family of three, my mother, my father and me. We used to have a dog,
but it died when I was five. My father and I are talking and laughing while
my mother is cooking.
The woman remembered several other previous lives. One time she mentioned
a place name.
Woman: I am eleven years old and I am at Bodensee Lake with my family.
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According to Dr. S., when he brought this woman out of her hypnotic trance
and asked her about "Bodensee Lake," she replied that she had
never heard of the lake and had no idea where it is. Bodensee Lake is close
to the border between Germany and Switzerland, and is a tributary of the
Rhine.
This Japanese women recalled places that had impressed her in the past life that she was recalling
Woman: My mother is calling my father, "Franz." We are on a train.
I am sitting next to the window on the left side, and looking outside.
I see a large train station come in view. It is Vienna.
Finally the woman related how her past life had become embroiled in war.
Woman: My father was killed fighting in the war when I was thirteen years
old. We never recovered his body. My father never wanted to go to war.
He went reluctantly with the German army to fight the Russians and he was
killed. Our days passed in grief and despair, and my mother gradually talked
less and less. When I was fourteen years old, some German troops broke
into our home. The German soldiers beat up my mother. My mother hated the
Germans. After that happened, my mother never again spoke of the war.
Finally the war ended. Her life became happy again, once she had overcome
the death of her father.
Woman: I am twenty years old now. My mother and I work in a bakery in Vienna.
We love our work. I do not know what the date is.
Thereafter, she was married and became a mother.
Woman: I can't remember my husband's name exactly. It was Roy or Rodieu
— something like that. We were married in the church. Eventually we had
a daughter, and I became a mother.
Unfortunately, her hard-won happiness was not to last. While still young,
she developed lung disease.
Woman: Now I am thirty years old. My chest hurts terribly sometimes.
There are many days when I can't even get out of bed. I think I am going
to die. What will become of my daughter after I am gone? It's getting so
hard to breathe.
Her memories of this past life stop here. She died, survived by her husband
and her only child. Hers was not an extraordinary life. Yes, her life had
its ups and downs, its tragedies and its triumphs, but millions of people
have lived similar lives.
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In addition to Dr. S., there are a number of other Japanese therapists
who have used hypnotic regression and meditation in past life therapy.
The "Live for Now Society," (Ima o Ikiru Kai), headed by Mr.
M., includes many Japanese who experienced "healing" by reliving
their past lives. One housewife, who had past life therapy from Mr. N and
also had hypnotic regression with Dr. S., related her experiences as follows.
The past life that I remember most clearly was when I was a Tibetan. In
that lifetime, I was male, and lived with my parents and many brothers
and sisters. We were very poor, so when I was just a small boy, my parents
sent me to the Temple to be trained as a monk so that there would be one
less mouth to feed. I relived my lifetime memories from when I was a one
year old infant until I died at fifty. I spent my whole life as a monk.
In my other lifetimes, I was a European knight clad in armor who was beheaded
in battle. I also lived as a Japanese in the Meiji Period (1868 - 1912);
I was born into a poor family. No one cared for me as I spent my last moments
of life alone, shivering with cold in a thin, old blanket.
Some mercenary individuals may abuse this book and take unscrupulous advantage
of human curiosity by claiming they can reveal the secrets of their customers'
past lives. In return for an exorbitant sum, they may manufacture some
fictitious tales of alleged past lives. I want to stress that, as the author,
I am fearful that publishing this book may have such as undesirable effect.
(4) MEMOIRS OF A WOMAN SUBJECT
I want to acquaint readers with the memoirs of a thirty-year old Japanese
woman who experienced hypnotic regression under the care of Dr. S. This
first-hand experience of a subject, written in her own words, will bring
the experience of hypnotic regression very close to the reader.[21]
I am following the directions of the therapist and returning to my past.
I am going back and back to my previous life. I see a yellow vision before
my eyes.
"What do you see? How old are you"
My consciousness was responding to the doctor's questions and showing these
things to me.
I see a weapon like a hatchet or a pick, and I know that it is a tool used
in field work.
I am a fifteen-year old boy, an only child, and my parents are out working
in the fields in this scene I remember. I am not really seeing it, but
speaking about what comes out of the world of sensation, and so it takes
me time to express it. I get confused about the vision I see and it takes
me time to reply.
"Where are you?"
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"Some foreign country."
"What's the name of the country?"
"Argentina."
My answers seem to arise spontaneously in response to the questions.
What a strange feeling!
"What's your name?"
..In my heart I wondered what he was talking about, and whether it was
all right to talk about such strange things, but I heard myself saying,
"Pedro," or some such difficult to pronounce name. In a few moments
I realized that my name in that life was "Peter."
The scenery around me was like one of Millet's paintings in atmosphere
and coloration.
I was lonely. I felt that my parents didn't love me very much. I remembered
that I had fallen from a cliff when I was fifteen, and that no one had
found me (for a long time). I remembered being caught on a tree, hovering
between life and death. I also saw myself at thirty-two when my eldest
daughter was born.
When the doctor suggested I go to the moment of death, I saw myself at
eighty-five, breathing my last surrounded by grand-children.
When the doctor asked me to move forward in time, I saw myself after my
death floating slowly towards a 'big, white light,' that was bright as
the sun, but not hot at all. I knew I would become one with the light.
After overcoming a few obstacles, I merged into the light in the next instant.
I felt a great sense of security and peace. Inside the light was a presence
like a mother, a friend who would always be on my side. I wanted to stay
there forever, but my fate was to be born unto the earth once more.
The doctor asked why I had to be reborn again.
I replied that there were things I had left undone.
What was it that I had left undone? That is the theme of my present life.
What is my destiny? What will happen to me when I finish doing this thing
left undone?
The doctor asked what I had left undone.
With that, I saw my ideal self unfold before my eyes.
Since I had not yet accomplished my mission, it was somewhat fuzzy, but
I saw myself shining with love and making other people shine with me, my
neighbors, their neighbors, everyone reflected that brightness and made
it brighter and bigger. That was the image I saw.
Once it had been decided that I would be reborn, I saw the earth coming
closer.
In my previous life, I had been from Argentina. I am embarrassed to say
that I don't know where Argentina is. I don't know why the name Argentina
came so readily to my lips, and I find it very mysterious. In the vision
I saw while hypnotized, the poor farmers were harvesting an abundant fields
of ripe grain.
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I felt the dreams of a young man wanting to go to the big city and do work
which would draw people's attention. According to Dr. O, who knows about
my present work as well as about the dreams I had in my past life, it is
all very convincing.
As you see, hypnotic regression allows us to relive our memories of past lives.
In the previous example, why did the subject answer, "Because there
are things left that I have to do," when she was asked "Why do
you get reborn again?" Her words contain a vital key to deciphering
the grand meaning of reincarnation.
1.3 PROOF OF PAST LIFE MEMORIES
Are these past life memories genuine memories of a lifetime that occurred
in the past? Or are they merely hallucinations or dreams concocted by the
brain of the subject?
To tell the truth, those who research hypnotic regression initially did
not give credence to "reincarnation" and used various methods
to accumulate evidence proving the validity of these memories.
(1) CONFORMITY TO HISTORICAL FACTS
Dr. Joel L. Whitton had a male patient named Harold who claimed to have
been a Viking in a past life. Dr. Whitton jotted down the 22 foreign words
that Harold remembered from his past life, although Harold claimed that
he did not understand their meaning in this life.
Seeking an expert opinion, Dr. Whitton consulted linguistics authorities
well versed in Icelandic and Norwegian. According to them, ten of Harold's
foreign words were of Old Norse, the language of the Vikings and the precursor
of modern Icelandic, and these words were actually used by the Vikings.
The other twelve words were all related to seafaring, and of Russian, Serbian
and Slav derivation, and it was confirmed that these words had also been
used by the Vikings.
These words were no longer spoken by anyone in the world, there was no
way that Harold, an average person, could have learned them in this lifetime.
This is exceedingly strong proof of the authenticity of remembered past
lives.
In addition, there are numerous subjects who begin speaking languages that
they could not know in this lifetime while reliving their past lives during
hypnotic regression. These languages originate from the far corners of
the globe, and apparently include ancient Chinese and dialects spoken in
the jungle. [22] Dr. Helen Wambach, a clinical psychologist, published
an epoch-making statistical proof of reincarnation. [23-A] Ignoring their
gender in their current lives, Dr. Wambach recorded the sexual gender reported
in many of their past lives by hundreds of subjects who had been regressed
back as far as 2000 B.C. Her results showed that 50.6
Moreover, Dr. Wambach's subjects were almost all middle class white Americans.
Nevertheless, their past life memories accurately reflect the true historical
distribution of races, social classes and population in the world. In addition,
the clothing, footwear
1.3. PROOF OF PAST LIFE MEMORIES page 21.
and utensils that the subjects reported using in their past lives were
all true to historical fact, no matter what the period was.
Dr. Wambach used the following analogy to show how her statistical research
objectively proved the theory of reincarnation.
If you are sitting in a tent on the side of the road and 1,000 people walk
past telling you they have crossed a bridge in Pennsylvania, you are convinced
of the existence of that bridge in Pennsylvania.[23-B]
(2) CONSISTENCY IN DIFFERENT SUBJECTS'
MEMORIES OF PAST LIVES
Dr. Brian L.Weiss reported an unexpected incident that he believes proves
the validity of past life memories.[24]
Once Dr. Weiss had a forty year old female subject named Diana from Philadelphia
who told Dr. Weiss that she was deeply troubled by the hostile relationship
that she had with her own daughter. Diana said that from the very instant
that the new-born infant was put in her arms, she had felt such violent
hatred for her daughter that she had not known what to do. Diana's daughter
Tamar was then eighteen years old, and the two were constantly at each
other's throats, like a pair of sworn enemies.
Through hypnotic regression, Diana was able to remember a past life where
she was in a bitter struggle with Tamar over a man. Furthermore, Diana
realized that the man, so coveted in her past life, was now her husband,
who had been reborn as Tamar's father. The violent feelings of rivalry
and struggle in her past life had carried over into her present life, poisoning
the relationship between mother and daughter.
Once Diana remembered this past life, and resolved to abandon her meaningless
fight, her feelings towards her daughter improved dramatically. Diana kept
the whole story a secret from Tamar, perhaps embarrassed to speak to her
daughter of her experience with hypnotic regression.
However, Tamar herself decided to be hypnotized and she was regressed by
a hypnotherapist other than Dr. Weiss. Amazingly, Tamar remembered a past
life with events identical to those of her mother's; in her past life,
Tamar was caught in a love triangle, bitterly vying with the spirit, now
reborn as her mother, over a man who is now her father. When Diana heard
this story from Tamar, she was stunned, and confessed, "I went to
a different doctor and remembered the exact same past!" After that,
their relationship chanced completely, and they are now very close, more
like friends than mother and daughter.
An example like this, where two people, each unaware of the other's actions,
go to different doctors for hypnotic regression and remember identical
past lives from different viewpoints, proves that past lives remembered
through hypnotic regression are not just delusions or fabrications.
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(3) TERROR AT AUSCHWITZ
Rabbi Yonassan Gershom, one of the leaders of the New Age Movement in the
U.S., reported that, as of 1990, he had met with almost three hundred people
who remembered living as Jews in past lives and being tortured to death
by the Nazis.
He reports that people with such memories are plagued with nameless terrors
whenever they hear tales of the Holocaust. Some widen their eyes and collapse
in tears the first time they hear the Jewish hymn "Ani Maamin ("I
Believe")" a song that many thousands of Jews hummed when they
were taken to the gas chambers.
Almost all those who remember being killed in the Nazi Holocaust were born
during the early "Baby Boom," between 1946 and 1953.
This, of course, is the "baby boom" generation, which later became
active in civil rights and gave birth to the peace movement of the Sixties.
Did those millions of souls come back as quickly as possible, to work for
peace on earth so that the horrors they had been through could never happen
again? Surprisingly, most of the people I have met with Holocaust past-life
memories are not Jewish.[25-A]
Most have not returned as Jews, neither ethnically nor by belief, in this
life, and none displayed any greater interest in Judaism than the average
person.
This research shows that those who had been persecuted because they were
Jews in previous lives avoided Jewish parents when they were reborn into
this life, possibly because being a Jew in a past life had been such a
very bitter experience. One might expect those killed in the Holocaust
in previous lives to berate the Nazis in this life, without knowing the
exact reason, or to become active in efforts to preserve historical records
of the Holocaust.
Some unusual statistical facts are reported by Rabbi Gershom. Two-thirds
of those who hold memories of being slaughtered as Jews in previous lives
have been reborn as people with blond hair and blue or hazel, and furthermore
state that they are the only ones in their families with this coloration.
Rabbi Gershom notes that the Nazis' ideal type was blond, blue-eyed Aryans,
while most Jews have darkish hair and eyes. Having been so brutally tormented
in their previous lives, one can assume that these spirits chose blond,
blue-eyed embryos to house their spirits to escape persecution again in
this life.
Most of those who remember being murdered in Nazi gas chambers have an
irrational terror of barbed wire, of police and of uniforms, and some suffer
from respiratory diseases such as asthma.
A typical case is that of Beverly, an employee at a social welfare organization,
who told Rabbi Gershom that she had repeatedly had the same bad dream during
her childhood. In the dream she was a boy of about eight years old. She
stood with her mother in a line of people.
They got to a table where a man told some people to go to the left, and
others to the right. He pointed and they went through a door. The scene
shifted, and they were in a horrible place which had a terrible smell.
Some men were throwing people into a fire alive, and then the little boy
was thrown in, too. He kept patting himself trying to put out the flames,
then died. Her dream continued with the little boy and his mother
1.3. PROOF OF PAST LIFE MEMORIES page 23.
again standing in a long line of people. Up ahead were beautiful gates,
and he knew it was Heaven... The boy grew tired of waiting and wandered
off, down to a lower level where he met a 'male angel' who said, 'Now that
you have come down this far, you will have to go back to earth again.'
He didn't want to go, and kept asking for his mother, but the angel said
they would find him another mother. The boy was then shown a beam of light
that he followed into the womb of a woman. And then 'he' became Beverly.[25-B]
Some who remember being Holocaust victims in a previous life have visited
their death places in this life.
According to Rabbi Gershom, Judy, an American exchange student in Germany,
went on a sightseeing trip to a concentration camp while living in Germany.
To a startling degree, Judy remembered everything at the camp and was able
to say where the buildings stood and what they were used for, before her
guide could get a word out of his mouth. Although the building where she
was murdered had long ago been demolished, she could accurately pinpoint
its location.
(4) CHILDREN TELL OF PAST LIVES
Dr. Ian Stevenson, Director of the Division of Parapsychology, Department
of Behavioral Medicine and Psychiatry, at the University of Virginia School
of Medicine, is doing research on people who remember past lives, as a
powerful means to prove the existence of past lives without using hypnotic
regression. Dr. Stevenson turned his attention to remarkable children who
speak foreign languages that they could not possibly know in their present
lives (responsive xenoglossy), and collected detailed data from all over
the world. He confirmed that there is ample scientific proof to confirm
at least three cases, and reported his results in 1984 as follows:
...authentic instances of speaking a language that has not been learned
normally (responsive xenoglossy) suggest that another personality (perhaps
one of a previous life) had learned the language. Cases of responsive xenoglossy
thus add to the evidence concerning the survival of human personality after
death.[26]
Dr. Stevenson also collected worldwide data on cases of small children
such as Hiro, described in our prologue, who spontaneously speak of past
life memories.
He claims that over two hundred children with birthmarks somewhere on their
bodies have memories of an immediately previous past life when they were
killed by a bullet, sword or other weapon which struck them where their
birthmarks are now.
When he visited the places where the children said they had spent their
past life, he discovered in seventeen of the cases, real individuals corresponding
to the persons they claimed to be in their past lives, real individuals
who had died just as the children had said they died, and he was able to
get the medical charts.[27]
After long years of research, Dr. Stevenson made the following definitive statement:
The evidence for reincarnation that we have suggests that living human
beings...have minds, or souls if you like, that animate them when they
are living and that survive after they die...I do not think scientists
in other disciplines need lose anything except
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some of their assumptions – such as that a person is nothing but a physical
body – if they examine open-mindedly the evidence we have of life after
death. Reincarnation, at least as I conceive it, does not nullify what
we know about evolution and genetics.[28]
Based upon this conclusion, Dr. Stevenson makes the following hypothesis
about how the process of reincarnation works.
...the universe has at least two realms: a physical one and a mental (or
psychical) one. These interact. During our familiar lives, association
with our physical bodies restricts the actions of our minds, although perhaps
also enabling us to have experiences that we cannot have without physical
bodies. After death, unencumbered by our physical bodies, we would at first
exist exclusively in the mental realm.
Later, some persons or perhaps everyone in that realm may become associated
with new physical bodies, and we would say that those who did this had
reincarnated.[29]
In addition, Dr. Satwant Pasricha, an Assistant Professor at India's National
Psychological Health Neurology Research Institute, has collected data and
subjected it to rigorous scientific analysis on 45 cases of subjects with
past life memories who specifically "remember their previous parents."
Most of the subjects gave sufficient details regarding the previous lives
they claimed to remember. In 38 cases (84)
Dr. Pasricha reports that almost all those remembering their previous lives
had unusual behavioral characteristics, such as "unusual likes or
dislikes toward food, clothes, persons, and themes of play; phobias of
bladed weapons, wells, and guns."[31]
Their unusual behavior was incomprehensible in terms of their present lives,
but conformed perfectly to what they declared about their previous lives
and, in the majority of cases, was related to the circumstances of their
deaths in their previous lives. For example, it was discovered that a person
with an abnormal fear of swords in this life had been killed with a sword
in his previous life.
Thus, Dr. Pasricha proved that reincarnation really occurs, by confirming
these authentic cases of rebirth, cases which can not be explained by the
many negative hypothesis which argue that reincarnation is imagination,
trickery, genetic memory, dormant memories, tricks of memory or fraud.
(5) ENCOUNTER WITH ONE'S OWN CORPSE
Dr. Stanislav Grof, the first chairperson of the International Trans-Personal
Academic Association (CHECK) succeeded in inducing a trance in his subjects
and having them remember their past lives through medication rather than
hypnotic regression. Referring to the content of those memories, Dr. Grof
pointed out the following:
There are observable facts about reincarnation. We know, for example, that
vivid past life experiences occur spontaneously in non-ordinary states
of consciousness. In many instances, these experiences contain accurate
information about periods before our own that can be objectively verified.
Therapeutic work has shown that many emotional disorders have their roots
in past life experiences rather than in the present life, and the symptoms
resulting from those disorders disappear or are alleviated after the person
is allowed to relive the past life experience that underlies it.[32]
1.3. PROOF OF PAST LIFE MEMORIES page 25.
Dr. Grof also maintained that he had confirmed the existence of his own
past lives.33
It happened when Dr. Grof was participating in a group tour visiting Moscow
and Kiev.
Although it was not on the itinerary, Dr. Grof felt strangely compelled
to visit the Monastery of Pechorskaya Lavra. Although he knew that it was
dangerous to go anywhere outside the itinerary, he initiated the action
by himself.
Although Dr. Grof did not know it then, one of his previous incarnations
had lived and died in that monastery several hundred years ago. Dr. Grof
was suddenly and inexplicably seized by the feeling that he knew the place
well. Just then he came upon a mummy with its arms placed in an odd way,
unlike the other mummies with their hands folded in prayer, and he felt
waves of feeling welling up in him from deep inside.
Several years later, when Dr. Grof was working at the Maryland Psychiatric
Research Center in Baltimore, he had the opportunity to view his past lives
through hypnotic regression, with a hypnotherapist named Joan Grant. Under
hypnotic regression, Dr. Grof remembered living a previous life as a young
Russian boy, and described what happened in that life as follows.
Then I saw myself in the dark, primitive workshop of a blacksmith. A giant,
muscular man, half-naked and covered with hair, stood in front of a glowing
furnace. He was pounding the anvil. all of a sudden I felt a sharp pain
in my eye. My entire face contorted in a painful spasm and tears poured
down my cheeks. With horror, I realized that I had been hit in the face
by a piece of red-hot iron and that I was badly burned...
I experienced the emotional pain of a ghastly disfigured adolescent, with
the agony of sexual longings that could not be satisfied and the sting
of repeated rejection as a result of my repugnant scars. In despair, I
made the decision to become a monk, ending up at Pechorskaya Lavra. Over
the years my hands became severely disfigured... My crippled hands could
not be clasped together in prayer...The last scene I remembered from this
session was my own death and somehow being aware that I was placed in a
coffin by the wall of the catacombs.[33]
In other words, the mummy with the remarkable outstretched hands that Dr.
Grof had felt compelled to approach was the body of his previous incarnation.
While thousands and thousands of subjects have remembered past lives, no
one has ever had the startling experience of seeing their own corpse with
their own eyes.
Dr. Grof asserts the following.
Over the years my observation of people who have had past life experiences
while in non-ordinary states of consciousness has convinced me of the validity
of this fascinating area of research. I would like to share with you some
examples that both convince us that past life phenomena are extremely relevant
and that our knowledge of them can help us resolve conflicts and live better
lives in the present.[34]
As shown above, the authenticity of past life memories is supported not
only by research on hypnotic regression, but also by the results of investigations
of children with past life memories, as well as by the results of experiments
performed using special medications.
Of course it is the right of every reader either to declare, "These cases are worth
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nothing as evidence," or to decide, "That wealth of evidence
is more than enough for me." However, every one must acknowledge that
we have left the age of no evidence, when the issue was whether or not
to believe. We are now in an age when there is sufficient objective proof
for everyone to make an informed decision.
Throughout this book, what I stress is "the great importance of deciding
by yourself what constitutes a meaningful value system for you." The
age has come when we have objective proof to use when selecting our essential
attitude towards life and death.
Chapter 2
HOW THE PROCESS OF
REINCARNATION WORKS
page 27.
How do we greet our deaths, and how do we come to be reborn? In this book,
we will compile and integrate the startling and heartening results of various
types of scientific research on the process of reincarnation.
2.1 GOING HOME TO "THE OTHER WORLD"
(1) CONSCIOUSNESS OF SELF AS "SPIRIT"
Dr. Joel L. Whitton unexpectedly happened upon the bardo, the intermediate
realm wherein dwell the spirit of entities between incarnations, when he
conducted a hypnotic regression on a forty-two year old woman named Paula
Considine. Paula, a woman of a stable disposition, was able to enter a
deep or somnambulistic trance. Her life style, interests and behavior was
extremely typical of a housewife in the northern part of the United States.
In total, she had many hundreds of hours of regressive hypnotism sessions
with Dr. Whitton, and gave a systematic account of her long reincarnation
history.
Paula was able to retrace her many past lives back to ancient Egypt where
she had lived as a slave girl. Paula had spent almost all her many lifetimes
as a woman.
For example, one of her lives was spent as Telma, the daughter of a Mongol
chief during the time of Genghis Khan, and she was killed in a battle at
age sixteen. In another life, she was Augusta Cecelia, a nun – age thirty-four
in 1241 – who spent most of her life working in an orphanage in Portugal,
close to the Spanish border. As Margaret Campbell – 17 years old in 1707–
she lived near Quebec City, Canada, and later married a fur trapper.
Paula also remembered spending a life as Martha Paine, born on a farm area
in Maryland in 1822, who died young from a fall down the farmhouse stairs.
Intending to direct her to "Go to the incarnation before you were
Martha," Dr. Whitton unintentionally directed her instead to "Go
to the life before you were Martha." Given by mistake the direction
to return to where she was before rebirth, Paula suddenly began
HOW THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION WORKS
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speaking as follows:
"I'm in the sky...I can see a farmhouse and a barn...It's early...early
morning. The sun...is low and making, making...making long shadows across
the burnt fields..stubby fields."
How could Paula be up in the sky? Dr. Whitton was overwhelmed with confusion,
and questioned her further.
"What are you doing up in the air?" asked the puzzled hypnotist.
"I'm...waiting...to...be...born. I'm watching...watching what my mother does.
"Where is your mother?
"She's...out at the pump and she's having great difficulty...difficulty
filling the bucket..."
"Why is she having great difficulty?"
"Because my body is weighing her down...I want...I want to tell her
to take care. For her sake and for mine..."
"What is your name?"
"I...have...no...name."[35]
Nowadays it is very common to encounter subjects holding similar memories
of floating above their bodies, as has been reported by many researchers.
For example, Dr. Melvin Morse, associate professor of pediatrics at the
University of Washington confirmed the following near-death experience
of a woman who had lost consciousness due to side effects of her medication.
I was able to look down at myself in my hospital bed. There were doctors
and nurses moving busily around me. I could see them roll a machine into
the room and put it near the foot of my bed. It had two handles sticking
out of a kind of box......A priest came in and began to give me last rites.
I moved down to the bottom of the bed and watched everything that was going
on. It was like being in the audience at a play.
Behind me in the bed was a clock. It was up on the wall. I could see both
myself in the bed and the clock, which read 11:11 A.M.
Then I went back into my body. I remember waking up and looking for myself
at the foot of the bed.[36]
In addition, Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, the holder of eighteen different
academic degrees, has confirmed the case of a subject, blind for over ten
years, who, during a near-death experience, "saw" and could describe
accurately the color of clothes and of jewelry, and the style and color
of sweaters and neckties worn by those who had visited while the patient
was close to death.[37]
These cases are strong proof of the existence of a consciousness, separate
from the body (what this book calls "spirits.")
(2) A VIEW OF THE WORLD AFTER DEATH
Visions of Tunnels, Rivers and Gateways
Dr. Whitton has reported that many of his subjects have memories of a "life
between life," the state that separates one incarnation from another.
When his subjects
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are induced into a hypnotic trance, he brings them back to one of their
previous incarnations, has them remember the final moments of that life,
and then asks them, "Where are you now?" and "What do you
see?"
His subjects, grimacing or scowling, faces twisted by pain as they remember
their deaths, suddenly shift their memories to "the life after death,"
and their expressions undergo startling changes. First they lose all expression,
then their faces become calm and tranquil, before filling with wondrous
surprise. The subjects do not know how to verbalize what they are experiencing
to Dr. Whitton because there is no sense of time's passage nor of three
dimensionality in the world that they are encountering. One subject said,
"In the interlife there's no part of me that I can see. I'm an observer
surrounded by images."[38-A]
Under hypnotic regression, a university professor described his death after
a life spent as an Indian in the American Southwest several hundred years
ago.
After being tortured, killed and mutilated by three other Indians I floated
out of my body feeling very angry. I thought that had I been better trained
and in better physical condition I might have been able to save my life."[38-B]
The shock of a bitter death is often a reason for the disembodied spirit
to remain on this earth perhaps out of confusion, fury or self-pity. Specifically,
these are the ghosts who linger in this world, unable to resign themselves
to death. While their numbers are small, researchers have confirmed that
these ghosts actually exist. Oddly enough, we can now say that there is
a scientific explanation for the existence of what are commonly called
"earthbound spirits."
People who have had near-death experiences have repeatedly described the
experience in similar terms.
After they leave their bodies, they "see" their bodies lying
beneath them, then have the sensation of being pulled quickly through a
cylindrical passageway that seems "just like a tunnel." They
then join a large group of strangers (spirits who have already left their
bodies), and are greeted by the spirits of deceased relatives and friends
or by the guides who have been watching over them during the last life
(commonly called guardian angels).[39]
Subjects describe the sight that meets their eyes differently; some describe
entering into a dome of light; others report seeing gorgeous colors, hearing
beautiful music or being greeted by a spirit carrying a torch to light
the way. Some say that Christ greets them with outstretched arms while
others see a garden or a palace. Of course, the interlife cannot be a place
or a material entity. This is merely a "vision" created by the
symbols that the person has of the world after death. [40]
The authority on near-death experiences, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, who had
her own near-death experience, describes the process as follows.
After we are met by those we have loved, after we are met by our own guides
and guardian angels, we are passing through a symbolic transition often
described as a tunnel. Some people experience it as a river, some as a
gate; each one will choose what is most symbolically appropriate. In my
won personal experience it was a mountain pass with wild flowers simply
because my concept of heaven includes mountains and wild flowers, the source
of much happiness in my childhood in Switzerland. This is
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culturally determined.[41]
In other words, what comes unbidden into the mind right after death is
the most appropriate vision to tell a person that he is dead and has returned
to the life after death. One sees the vision one wants to see in the intangible
and immaterial life right after death.
Immediately after their deaths many people haven't had time to remember
the nature of the next world. That is why the guiding spirits seem to consciously
design the visions necessary for the newly dead to become aware of their
deaths and to die peacefully. The newly dead are still immeshed in the
culture and religious beliefs of their most recent lives, and so the visions
necessary for them to die peacefully and to become aware of their deaths
naturally differ, so their visions of the next world (shown them by the
guiding spirits) are also different.
People who are ending a life as Christians see Christian images while those
who spent their most recent lives as Buddhists see Buddhist images in their
visions.
The World of Light and Undulations
Doctor S, a Japanese doctor, had a female Japanese subject remember her
death in a previous life during a regressive hypnotism session, and she
described the "scene after death" in "that world"
I am looking down at my dead body from above. I feel no more pain. But
I soon lost sight of myself and of my family and entered a dark place.
The light suddenly began approaching me. It was my father who had died
before me. The light was incredibly dazzling, and I followed the light
(my father.)
I came to a place where there was a bigger and more dazzling light. I felt
as if I was being pulled into that light, but I was not afraid; I felt
warm. I entered into the light. I could see many other radiances there
already.[42]
According to Dr. S. when subjects are asked, "What is your name?"
when they are remembering what happened right after their deaths, the subjects
give the name they had before death. Interestingly, if they are asked their
names after they have entered the world of light the subjects reply, "I
don't know."
If requested to "Try looking at your body," subjects who are
remembering the world of light will reply, "I am transparent and do
not have a body," or "All I can see is light."
There are some people who never had a near-death experience nor hypnotic
regression but who experienced seeing a strange sight when their spirits
left their bodies during meditation. Let me tell you the story of a Japanese
male who came to me.
I had my eyes closed in meditation when I saw a cylindrical structure that
looked like three drum cans strung together. There were misty shapes floating
around it. Several of the misty shapes passed right through my body while
the cylindrical structure began turning towards me, and then seemed to
pass through my body as well. I gradually saw bright pink mountains and
a gorgeous valley, then a green mountain and a brook rippling through the
woods. How smoothly
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the brook flowed! I will always remember how beautiful the sight was. I
watched the flowing brook for a while. I had never seen a place like it
in my life. I was looking down at an angle from the sky. I was puzzled
about where I was located. Then I saw a fuzzy vision, in black and white.
I had never seen anything like it. It was a park or garden with a pond,
and it was not in Japan. I sensed that the time was not the present. I
could see several dark shapes moving around the edges of the pond, and
they seemed to be human, but I could not tell for sure. I was looking down
from a place about fifty meters up in the sky. I even wondered if I had
turned into a bird."
So many similar out-of-body experiences have been reported that there is
a specialized institute researching the phenomena. In cutting-edge psychology
this is called "the trans-personal effect," referring to the
consciousness departing from the small husk of the body to expand infinitely.
Among my friends is a man who describes a miserable experience that he
had, "I had too much to drink, passed out and collapsed. Immediately
afterwards I was looking down from the sky at my drunken body sprawled
on the ground." He was so thunderstruck that he spent quite a while
gazing at his body and its surroundings, but then he says he realized,
"I can't die yet," and scrambled to get back into his body. Far
from convincing him to cut down on his drinking, the experience made him
drink even more under the excuse that he wanted to have the experience
a second time. The experience had the exact opposite of the desired effect
on him!
At any rate, the spiritual world that we term "that world" is
not physical like this world; there is no direct sense of time. In "that
world" all things appear as images and visions, and it is the visions
that are real. From the perspective of that world of eternity and freedom,
our time in "this world," shackled to "material things"
is but an instant's illusion.
To put it another way, those living in "this world" of material
things tend to make light of "that world" as a "hallucination"
created by the mind. But those who have briefly returned to our real home
in "that world" say that they forget about their lives in the
narrow and cramped box of this world and were filled with pity for living
people who are slaves to their desires and who deny the infinite existence
of "that world," which encompasses "this world."
The "material things" which so grab our attention are the real
empty "illusions," and the "spirit" which we disparage
is our "true self." Our spirit is what we call "soul;"
it is what lives on eternally and can be called our true form.
That spirit is often described as "like light." Our true form
is "light." To phrase it in a rather inexact but understandable
way, it seems that the degree of brightness depends upon the undulation
or the height (or strength) of the wave length. According to survivors
of near-death experiences, the higher the level of the spirit the brighter
the light shines, and the lower the level the darker the light seems to
be. Nonetheless,
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we are all "light" and the only difference is that the brightness
level varies with the undulation.
(3) MEETINGS WITH THOSE WHO HAVE DIED
One Happy Moment
According to Dr. Karl Baker of Kyoto University, it is quite common during
a near-death experience to meet a deceased close relative. Let us read
about a typical experience.
The doctor in charge gave up on me and told my parents that I was dead.
My body did not react, but I heard the entire conversation. When the doctor
declared me dead, I was very sharply conscious.
I next sensed myself surrounded by the dead. Among my many dead relatives
and friends, the ones that particularly stood out was my grandmother who
was standing directly in front of me and a girl who had been my classmate
during college. I couldn't see their entire bodies, but I did see their
faces very clearly. I felt very strongly that I was one with them. They
were all happy for me, and I spent a brief period of great joy with them.[43]
According to Dr. Baker, patients who recover from a near-death experience
sometimes report seeing in the next world friends and relatives whom they
assumed to be alive. Other people do not believe them, but they say they
were shocked to learn afterwards that those people, whom they saw while
dying, had themselves died. In other words, during a near-death experience,
people can learn before anyone else of the death of a person far away,
which could not be known in any other way.
Dr. Baker considers phenomenon such as this one to be proof that a near-death
experience is far more than a dream.
Messages From the Dead
Dr. Melvin Morse (an associate professor at University of Washington -
CHECK) has investigated and reported on many cases where the spirit has
left the dying body and communicated with the living. This is one of the
interesting cases he has reported.
In 1989 Olga Gearhardt, a grandmother from San Diego, California had a
heart transplant at the University of California Medical Center. All her
relatives crowded into her room, except for her son-in-law who stayed at
home. He had a phobia about hospitals and preferred to await the results
of the operation at home.
Late that evening her chest was opened and the transplant was performed
successfully. At two-fifteen A.M. she developed unexpected complications,
and the new heart would not beat properly. As the medical personnel became
alarmed, the heart suddenly stopped beating altogether. It took several
hours of resuscitation before the heart finally began functioning properly.
Meanwhile the family in the waiting room was told nothing about these complications,
and most of them were asleep. About six in the morning the family was told
that the operation was a success but that she had almost died when the
new heart failed.
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Olga's daughter immediately called her husband to tell him the good news.
"I know she's okay," he said. "She already told me herself.
He had awakened at two-fifteen to see his mother-in-law standing at the
foot of his bed. It was as though she was standing right there, he said.
Thinking she had not had surgery and had somehow come to his house instead,
he sat up and asked her how she was.
"I am fine, I'm going to be all right," she said. "There
is nothing for you to worry about." Then she disappeared.[44-A]
He got right out of bed and wrote down the time she appeared to him and
exactly what was said. Later he explained that was why he could explain
that Olga appeared at exactly two-fifteen, which was exactly the time that
her heart had stopped in the hospital.
An astonishing event took place at the hospital as well after Olga had
regained consciousness. When the family went in to see her, Olga told them
a strange story.
She said she had left her body and watched the doctors work on her for
a few minutes. Then she went into the waiting room, where she saw her family.
Frustrated by her inability to communicate with them, she decided to travel
to her daughter's home, about thirty miles away, and connect with her son-in-law.[44-B]
The instant that she decided this she found herself thirty miles away in
her daughter's house looking at her son-in-law. She sat down at the foot
of her son's bed and told him "I am fine. I'm going to be all right,"
when he asked her how she was.
Dr. Morse investigated this story carefully, interviewing those concerned
repeatedly, and could find no discrepancy in the stories of Olga and her
family. Neither could he find any motives for the parties concerned to
have invented this story.
Dr. Morse reports another interesting case.
A man in Washington State was killed when his car skidded off the road
and hit a tree. His brother-in-law was fishing at the time of the accident
in a remote area and was unaware of the accident.
Late in the afternoon the man who was fishing suddenly encountered his
dead brother-in-law walking down the path toward his fishing hole. The
man was glad to have company. They spoke for several minutes until the
visitor said that he had to leave and walked quickly into the woods and
disappeared.
The man who was fishing said the experience was so vivid that it took him
several minutes to realize that his brother-in-law could not have been
there. He returned home, where his sister told him of her husband's death.[45]
No One Dies Alone
The previous cases illustrate what Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross has discovered
from her research into the near-death experiences of almost 20,000 cases.
As the following experience shows, no one dies all alone.
...nobody will die alone. When you leave the physical body, you are in
an existence where there is no time...In the same way, one can no longer
speak of space and distance in the usual sense because those are earthly
phenomena. If, for example, a young
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American dies in Asia and thinks of his mother in Washington, he will bridge
the thousands of miles through the power of thought in a split second and
will be with her.[46-A]
Dr. Kubler-Ross says that very many people have this experience. All of
a sudden someone who lives thousands of miles away appears before their
very eyes. The next day there is a telephone call or telegraph giving the
sad news of the death of the person who appeared.
On this level you realize as well that nobody can die alone because the
deceased one is able to visit anyone he likes. Here are people awaiting
you who died before you, who loved and treasured you a lot. And since time
doesn't exist on this level, someone who lost a child when he was twenty
years of age could, after his passing at the age of ninety-nine, still
meet his child as a child.[46-B]
Of course when Dr. Kubler-Ross describes "a child of the same age
as the one who died," we know that this is just a vision that the
"spirit who was the child in his previous life" creates for his
just-deceased parent, so that he will know that this spirit had been his
child. The spirit is not a physical entity, so it is perfectly free to
appear in whatever form will make the other person most happy.
According to Dr. Kubler-Ross, 99
The deniers claim that near-death experiences are merely the projections of the
desires of the dying. If this is true, then 99
But not one of these children, in all these years that we have collected
cases, saw their mommies and daddies because their mommies and daddies
were still alive. The factors determining who you see are that the person
must have passed on before you, even if only by one minute, and you must
have genuinely loved them.[47]
(4) The Existence of "Guardian Angels"
Dr. Kubler-Ross has the following comments about the spirits who perform
the role of "guardian angels."
There is proof that every human being, from his birth until his death,
is guided by a spirit entity. Everyone has such a spirit guide, whether
you believe it or not. Whether you are Jewish, Catholic, or a member of
any other religion doesn't matter.[48]
Dr. Whitton, Dr. Weiss and many other researchers agree that these guardian
spirits exist.
Let me tell you about the strange experience of one Japanese woman.
It happened in winter of the year Father died. I had been thinking about
my father and feeling sad. With tears in my eyes, I looked out the window
at the snow in the garden, when suddenly a snowball flew at my face. In
the midst of my shock, I suddenly saw my father's laughing face and I heard
him say, "Cheer up and be strong."
I knew with absolute certainty that my father had been playing a prank
on me. There is no way on earth that the snow could suddenly come flying
at me all by itself."
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There are any number of actual examples of guardian spirits communicating
with those on earth through a variety of methods. However, people who know
nothing of research on life after death will often fail to hear or understand
these communications since they fail to take them seriously and dismiss
them as figments of their imagination or as delusions. I will describe
these communications with the dead in detail in a later chapter.
Interestingly, it has been discovered that subjects who have been regressed
through hypnotism remember how frustrated their spirit selves had felt
when they tried to speak to living beings and could not make themselves
understood. Let me relate a case reported by Dr. Whitton.[49]
This case occurred when a man named Gary Pennington recalled under hypnosis
his life as Peter Hargreaves, an officer in the Allied forces during World
War II. Peter Hargreaves dies an agonizing death during the War under Nazi
torture, leaving behind his beloved Elena. Elena, filled with despair when
she learns of her beloved's death, resolves to commit suicide.
The disembodied Hargreaves watches Elena proceed to a cliff near Salerno,
determined to follow him in death. When she reaches the edge, Hargreaves'
discarnate self tries desperately to communicate with her and to materialize
in order to prevent her from killing herself.
Hargreaves tries desperately to tell Elena not to commit suicide, but she
cannot understand him. Hargreaves is totally frustrated with his disembodied
state which allows him no physical ability to prevent the suicide. He exclaims,
"If only I had a body...this need never happen." All he can do
is watch as Elena jumps from the cliffs to her death.
However, there is a sequel to the story.
The spirit who had lived as Elena was now reborn as Caroline McVittie,
who was now involved in an adulterous relationship with Gary Pennington,
the reincarnation of Peter Hargreaves.
When Caroline was hypnotized and had the opportunity to recall her past lives, she remembered a lifetime in which she had died in exactly the same way as Elena. Caroline had a final memory from her life as Elena. She remembers standing on the cliff side, filled with despair over her beloved's death, and "struggling with an invisible force" that was trying to prevent her suicide. (This was the message from Hargreaves).
Studies of both hypnotic regression and near death experiences make it
clear that there are guardian spirits (or guardian angels) in the next
life protecting us in this life; this understanding brings great comfort
and strength to us here.
2.2 MEMORIES AND RECOLLECTIONS OF LIFE
(1) PANORAMIC VISION OF LIFE
The statements of Dr. Whitton's subjects support the existence of a "tribunal"
(of guiding spirits) in the next world. Virtually all of his subjects report
that they stood before a group of elderly wise men (spirits who appeared
in this guise), whose number
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was reported as either three, five, or seven; and that there they received
some kind of judgment.[50]
The guiding spirits sometimes took shape as the gods of legend, sometimes
as the Lord God, as he is imagined in formal religions, and sometimes in
a shape that was nebulous and unclear. There were also many cases where
the Spirit did not take on physical shape but, instead, appeared in the
form of "light."
The subjects often described this entity as "a being of light,"
just as do survivors of near-death experiences.
The guiding spirits know in a very direct and immediate way everything
that there is to know about the recently-returned spirit who stands before
them., and they assist that spirit in evaluating the life just completed.
Subjects say they feel painfully aware of their own lack of wisdom when
confronted by these spirits, and sometimes report that they are taught
what to accomplish in their next incarnation.
"Hell" itself does not exist, but were there to be a "hell"
for each person in the next world, it would take shape in those moments
when a person critically reflects upon his just-concluded life. The guiding
spirits induce us to reflect on the life just concluded while a panoramic
vision of that life unfolds before our own eyes. As we watch the vision,
our regrets, guilt and self-reproaches come bubbling up from deep in our
hearts. [51-A]
While under hypnosis, subjects reportedly break into bitter tears of intense
grief and suffering as they remember this time of spirit-mediated reflection
upon their past lives. This is because during past-life reflection, the
pain they inflicted upon others during their past life, rebounds to smite
them with the same intensity and force. One subject describes those moments
as follows.
"It's like climbing right inside a movie of your life. Every moment
from every year of your life is played back in complete sensory detail.
Total, total recall."[51-B]
The spirits guide us to understand all the resonances of the vision, passing
before our eyes like a video tape of our lives, and they push us to analyze
ourselves rigorously. Our spirits finally understand where they choose
unwisely and cast away happiness, where they wounded others and where they
were saved from potentially fatal danger.
For example, when the IBM researcher, Michael Gallander, Ph.D., relived
his past lives as a subject of Dr. Whitton's, he remembered Hildebrandt,
a medieval knight who fought in the Crusade.[52-A] Hildebrandt had initially
burned with idealism and had been born to fulfill high ideals,
I will attempt to build...a land without a boundary. I will be a fine king.[52-B]
However, Hildebrandt had degenerated into a driven and tortured person
who had caused untold misery to many people through his cruel actions.
As Michael Gallander recalled his time between lives when the guiding spirits
had called upon him to remember his life as Hildebrandt, he was overcome
by emotion and sobbed heavily while in his hypnotic trance. "Tell
me what you see," said Dr. Whitton, and Gallander told him of the
many atrocities committed by Hildebrandt, such as spearing a mother and
child on his lance.
As he spoke, Dr. Gallander was torn by powerful, heart-rending emotions,
and he raised his voice more and more harshly. Dr. Whitton reports that
his self-reproach was
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beyond the reach of consolation.
"What do you see?" Dr. Whitton asked in perplexity. Slowly and
painfully, Michael replied. "It is black and I will not look. There
was much I could have done, but I did not. I could have done so much good,
but...I did not."[53-A]
Based upon the research results of this and many similar cases, Dr. Whitton concludes.
To experience remorse in the life between lives is to experience a form of hell. For there is a time – quite early on, according to most subjects – when guilt comes home to roost in all its raw ugliness, stripped of the rationalization and excuses we all employ to explain away our failings.[53-B]
(2) SELF-ASSESSMENT OF ONE'S LIFE
How Much Did We Love Others?
According to those who have undergone hypnotic regression and to survivors
of near-death experiences, we must explain all of our words and actions
right after death, as we behold a vision of our just-ended lives.
The primary focus, it is reported, is upon our honesty and our morality.
A man who had slit his lover's throat felt as if his own throat had been
cut, while a woman who had betrayed others while alive remembered, "I
cannot look up at the Three for sheer shame." [54]
It is vital to note that the money and social position that we earned in
life is completely ignored; all that matters at the tribunal is, "How
much did you love others?" and "Did you always try to follow
your conscience?" The answers to these questions are the fundamental
determinants of our ensuing reincarnation.
Someone who recalls betraying or harming others during his lifetime will
writhe in agony, scolded harshly by the guiding spirits. His agony will
not be ameliorated one bit because he had been a famous superstar or the
president of a leading corporation or a prime minister during his lifetime.
On the other hand, someone who bestowed love during his lifetime upon many
people and brought joy to his close associates will be warmly lauded by
the guiding spirits, and will be greatly satisfied by his spiritual growth
even if his lifetime had been spent as a humble farmer, with no money or
social position, or as a mediocre company employee with a dead-end career.
The guiding spirits are not terrifying figures like "dark angels of
judgment." Instead, they are quick to give us comfort and new energy
when they are satisfied that we have reflected sufficiently upon our previous
lives. One subject recalls his feelings at that time as follows:
"Just to be there in front of the judges made me fearful. But I soon
realized there was no need to be afraid. They radiated a benevolent type
of caring and my fear left me."[55]
Far from confirming the self-loathing of the contrite soul, the board of
judgment gives encouragement by pointing out where the life has been positive
and progressive.
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It is as if they are saying, "Come on now, cheer up. Your life wasn't
as bad as you think," or "Yes, you did hurt many people; however,
you also made many people happy, even though you did not know it at the
time."
The guiding spirits do not act in a stern and imposing manner. Instead
they act just like warm and loving teachers as they encourage us to learn
from the mistakes we made in life. They give us advice and point out the
important episodes in the many reincarnations that we have experienced.
Even if our just-ended lifetime has not been an easy one, they cheer us
by pointing out that every experience helps us to grow.
Tears of Shame and Grief
Let me discuss a case, recognized by Dr. Raymond Moody as a classic neardeath
experience, in which the survivor describes the same situations after death
as do subjects of hypnotic regression. The man had been struck by lightning
and his heart had stopped. He describes the guiding spirits as "beings
of light" and relates the following.
"He's gone," (the doctor) said to Sandy. "He's gone..."
...I am dead! I thought. I was not in my body and can honestly say that
I didn't want to be. If I had any thought at all, it was simply that who
I was had nothing to do with that body they had just covered with a sheet.
Sandy was sobbing and patting my leg. Tommy was stunned and feeling overwhelmed
at the suddenness of this event. The emergency medical technician was looking
only at the body and feeling like a failure.
Don't feel bad, buddy, I thought. It ain't your fault.
I looked toward the front of the ambulance to a spot over my dead body.
A tunnel was forming, opening like the eye of a hurricane and coming toward
me.
That looks like an interesting place to be, I thought. And away I went.
I actually didn't move at all; the tunnel came to me... Soon there was
nothing to be seen...only a tunnel that engulfed me completely...
...I looked ahead into the darkness. There was a light up there, and I
began to move toward it as quickly as possible... Ahead the light became
brighter and brighter until it overtook the darkness and left me standing
in a paradise of brilliant light...
...I looked at my hand. It was translucent and shimmering and moved with
fluidity, like the water in the ocean.
I looked down at my chest. It, too, had the translucence and flow of fine
silk in a light breeze...
...I began to look around. Below us were other Beings who looked like me.
they appeared to be lost and shimmered at a rate that was far slower than
the rate at which I shimmered. As I watched them I noticed that I slowed
down as well. there was a discomfort in this reduced vibration that made
me look away.
I looked above me. There were more Beings, these brighter and more radiant
than I . I felt discomfort when looking at them as well because I began
to vibrate faster."[56-A]
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Then the man looked straight at the Being of Lights who were now right in front of him. He relates that they appeared to be neither male nor female. (It is the same with statues of the Buddha. Statues of the Buddha represent an easily-comprehensible embodiment of a concept, as do the "Beings of Light" and "Guiding Spirits" in this book.) The man then describes how he remembered and reflected upon his just-ended life.
The Being of Light engulfed me, and as it did I began to experience my
whole life, feeling and seeing everything that had ever happened to me.
It was as though a dam had burst and every memory stored in my brain flowed out.
The life review was not pleasant. From the moment it began until it ended,
I was faced with the sickening reality that I had been an unpleasant person,
someone who was self-centered and mean.[56-B]
As his body lay with stilled-heart, the man remembered in great detail
all that had happened in his life from childhood until middle-age. He re-experienced
all his interactions with his parents and friends. As he objectively evaluated
his own actions, he himself now felt the emotions of pain that he had inflicted,
as he remembered times when he had hurt others.
The first thing I saw was my angry childhood. I saw myself torturing other
children, stealing their bicycles or making them miserable at school. One
of the most vivid scenes was of the time I picked on a child at grade school
because he had a goiter that protruded from his neck. The other kids in
the class picked on him too, but I was the worst. At the time I thought
I was funny. But now, as I relived this incident, I found myself in his
body, living with the pain that I was causing...
...Now, as I reviewed my life in the bosom of the Being, I relived each
one of those altercations, but with one major difference: I was the receiver.
Not only did he himself feel the pain he had inflicted upon others, he
also finally understood how much he had hurt and disappointed his parents.
I also felt the grief I had caused my parents. I had been uncontrollable...
Although they had grounded me and yelled at me, I had let them know by
my actions that none of their discipline really mattered. Many times they
had pleaded with me and many times they had met frustration... Now, in
my life review, I felt their psychological pain at having such a bad child."
[56-C]
He describes how he felt as he remembered the many times he had killed
Viet Cong soldiers during his combat tour in Vietnam.
I squeezed off the round and felt the rifle kick. a moment later I saw
his head explode and his body crumple before the shocked troops.
That is what I saw when the incident happened.
During my life review, I experienced this incident from the perspective
of the North Vietnamese colonel. I didn't feel the pain that he must have
felt. Instead, I felt his confusion at having his head blown off and sadness
as he left his body and realized that he would never go home again.
Then I felt the rest of the chain reaction – the sad feelings of his family when they realized they would be without their provider.[56-D]
Even though he had not killed them directly, the Being of Light also made him
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witness the deaths of many Vietnamese killed by the weapons he sent to
Vietnam, and the grief of the children when they learned their fathers
were dead.
He felt very guilty after seeing his life in review.
When I finished the review, I arrived at a point of reflection in which
I was able to look back on what I had just witnessed and come to a conclusion.
I was ashamed. I realized I had led a very selfish life, rarely reaching
out to help anyone... my life had been for me and me alone. I hadn't given
a damn about my fellow humans.
I looked at the Being of Light and felt a deep sense of sorrow and shame.
I expected a rebuke, some kind of cosmic shaking of my soul. I had reviewed
my life and what I had seen was a truly worthless person. What did I deserve
if not a rebuke? 56-E
A Message From the Beings of Light
Dr. Whitton's patients also have reported that the Guiding Spirits do not
censure a repentant soul, but instead watch over that soul as it reflects
thoroughly upon itself.
As I gazed at the Being of Light I felt as though he was touching me. From
that contact I felt a love and joy that could only be compared to the non-judgmental
compassion that a grandfather has for a grandchild...
...Again I was allowed a period of reflection. How much love had I given
people? How much love had I taken from them? From the review I had just
had, I could see that for every good event in my life, there were twenty
bad ones to weigh against it. [57-A]
After the Guiding Spirits judged that he had spent sufficient time reflecting,
their attitude changed completely and they gave him warm and encouraging
messages. I had felt the burden of this guilt being removed. I had felt
the pain and anguish of reflection, but from that I had gained the knowledge
that I could use to correct my life. I could hear the Being's message in
my head, again as if through telepathy:
"Humans are powerful spiritual beings meant to create good on the
earth. This good isn't usually accomplished in bold actions, but in singular
acts of kindness between people. It's the little things that count, because
they are more spontaneous and show who you truly are."
I was elated. I now knew the simple secret to improving mankind. The amount
of love and good feelings you have at the end of your life is equal to
the love and good feelings you put out during your life. It was just that
simple.
"My life will be better now that I have the secret," I said to
the Being of light. It was then that I realized that I wouldn't be going
back. I had no more life to live. I had been struck by lightning. I was
dead. [57-B]
After the Beings of Light had directed him to carry out all the things
he had left undone in his lifetime, the man miraculously began to breath
again, and returned to this life.
...I was floating above a hallway. Below me was a gurney with a body on
it, covered with a sheet and lying still. The person underneath the sheet
was dead.
Around the corner and down the hall I heard an elevator open. I saw two
orderlies in white outfits emerge from the elevator and walk toward the
dead man... one of them
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was smoking, blowing clouds of smoke toward the ceiling where I was hovering.
I sensed that they were there to take the body to the morgue.
Before they reached the dead man, my buddy Tommy came through the door
and stationed himself next to the gurney. It was then that I realized that
the man underneath the sheet was me. I was dead. It was me – or what was
left of me – who was about to be rolled off to the morgue!
He watched from the ceiling until his family and the doctor returned. Feeling
warmly embraced by the fervent prayers of his family for his recovery,
he returned again to his body, which was in torment.
This return to my human body put me in possession of its pain. I was on
fire again, aching with the agony of being burned from the inside out,
as though acid was in all of my cells...
...I couldn't move, which is a bad state to be in when orderlies are coming
to take you to the morgue. I tried to move, but no matter how hard I tried,
I couldn't twitch a muscle. Finally, I did the only thing I could. I blew
on the sheet.
"He's alive, he's alive! shouted Tommy.[58]
Other researchers have frequently described the same "Beings of Light"
(the guiding spirits) described by this victim of a near-death experience.
(3) KARMA IN HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS
Dr. Melvin Morse, a professor at Washington University (check) has researched
the case of a twenty-three year old woman who had a near-death experience.
The woman recalled the experience as follows.
This being of Light surrounded me and showed me my life. Everything you
do is there for you to evaluate. As unpleasant as some parts of it are
for you to see, it feels so good to get it all out. I remember one particular
incident in this review when, as a child, I yanked my little sister's Easter
basket away from her, because there was a toy in it that I wanted. Yet
in the review, I felt her feelings of disappointment and loss and rejection.
I was the very people I hurt and I was the very people that I helped to feel good.[59]
Another woman was taught an important lesson about "the ripple effect
of human relations" and "sowing what one reaps."
I saw how I had often wronged people and how they had often turned to others
and committed a similar wrong. This chain continued from victim to victim,
like a circle of dominoes, until it came back to the start – to me, the
offender. The ripples went out, and they came back. I had offended far
more people than I knew, and my pain multiplied and became unbearable.[60]
Among those with a near-death experience is a doctor who has publicly related
his experience. He is Dr. Goren Grip, who teaches at a large university
hospital in Sweden.
When he was five-years-old, Dr. Grip experienced respiratory failure during
an operation. Lying on the operating table, he saw a road spread out before
his eyes, with "Beings of Light" on it. He felt a strong love
emanating from those Beings, and
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re-experienced all that had happened in his brief five years of life. Dr.
Grip has related his experiences as follows.
I re-experienced everything that had happened in my life and watched it
as a spectator with the being," says Gripp. "Most of what I saw
was about me and my brother, of whom I was very jealous. My attention was
focused on our exchanges of emotions, my jealousy, my feelings of triumph
when I hit him, his surprise when I hit him for no reason, his anger and
resentment, and later his triumph when he got back at me.
When I did something loving to him, I experienced my love, my brother's
surprise, as well as his love and happiness. I experienced his feelings
as clearly as my own, making this a fantastic lesson on the consequences
of my own actions. It was the love from the being of light that gave me
the strength to see my life exactly as it was, without making it better
or worse.[61-A]
How amazing to realize that even a five-year old child is asked to reflect
upon everything that happened to him as his brief life comes to a close.
The young Grip decided to become a doctor because of the knowledge that
the Being of Light bestowed upon him about the importance of love and compassion.
Dr. Grip makes the following comment about his near-death experience.
What does matter is that I received knowledge about the meaning of life in this
experience.[61-B]
It is remarkable how much similarity there is in the experiences of patients
who glimpsed the "next world" during near-death experiences and
subjects who remembered the bardo (the next world) during a hypnotic regression.
This proves that the bardo seen by the hypnotic regression subjects and
the "next world" are one and the same, and increases the credibility
of the statements of each group.
2.3 ONE'S OWN PLAN FOR LIFE
(1) THE NEVER-ENDING QUEST FOR GROWTH
A most interesting finding from Dr. Whitton and Dr. Weiss' research on
hypnotic regression is that the disembodied spirit after death uses the
time between lifetimes to plan out its next incarnation.
The subjects remembered planning out their next lifetime, with careful
consideration paid to the advice given by the guiding spirits during the
instant replay of their lives.
Research also showed that disembodied spirits planned their next reincarnation
after thorough discussion and coordination with their soul-mates, those
other spirits with whom they had forged strong ties because of numerous
shared past lives. (The concept of soul-mate will be explained in a later
section.) They had to carefully choose the birth dates and birthplaces
of all concerned to ensure their reunion in the corporeal world.
The subjects assert that this sort of "group reincarnation" is
very common, so that the reincarnated entity can deal once again with personalities
who had been part of his
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past life, regardless if their mutual relationship had been good or poor.
Dr. Whitton relates the following about one of his subjects.
"There are people I didn't treat too well in my last life, and I have
to go back to the Earth plane again and work off that debt. This time,
if they hurt me in return, I'm going to forgive them..."[62]
When the guiding spirits told another subject that his personal evolution
would best be served by being reborn to a woman he had murdered in a previous
life, he moaned in distress and repeated under hypnosis, "Oh no –
not her again."
There are a number of people who are advised by the guiding spirits to
choose a difficult environment because it is perfect for handling their
unresolved issues. One subject reports as follows:
"The judges told me that I should undergo the experience of being
raised without a father in this life and I was aware that my parents would
soon be divorced. I also knew that my choice of parents would put me in
the ideal geographical location for meeting the man I was destined to marry."[63]
Her explanation is striking because it shows "the ties that bind,"
or, in other words, the ways in which soul-mates coordinate their reincarnations
to ensure that they will be reunited, as this woman apparently did before
her rebirth with the spirit that was intended to be her husband. Is it
not a romantic and hopeful concept? Other people report similar incidents,
so we can be certain that these "ties that bind" soul-mates together
are real. I will discuss this in more detail later.
However, the ideal scenario planned before rebirth does not always work
out as intended. The plans made in the interlife are like a rough sketch.
After we are reborn, we can be overwhelmed by the various limitations of
the physical world and by the many trials and tests that we have set for
ourselves, and find it impossible to finish drawing our picture in the
ideal way that we had sketched it. We make one wrong choice after other
and fail the tests that we have set for ourselves. There is always the
possibility that our lives will turn in unforeseen and undesired directions,
failing the tests that we have set for ourselves.
(2) HOW WE PLAN OUR LIVES
In the section below, I will attempt to explain simply and in my own words
about the life-planning process, basing my account upon the results reported
by researchers. Naturally, the amount of detail in the life plan varies
with each person and with each reincarnation.
A Flow Chart of Choices
We build a "self-starting function" into our lives so that the
issues that we have chosen to try to resolve (our life issues) will occur
at the most appropriate time in our lives. When these issues arise, two
basic ways of handling them are built into the system; we can choose to
deal with them in an "honorable, loving and positive way" or
we can choose to deal with them in a "dishonorable, unloving and negative
way." The choices that we make on these various issues function as
the junctions or forks of
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a flowchart, for we move forward on our life journey by making decisions
in a fashion similar to flowcharts.
When we face one of our life issues and choose to deal with it in an "honorable,
loving and positive way," we have then resolved it superbly and are
able to move one step up in our evolution. However, should we choose to
handle it in a "dishonorable, unloving and negative way," the
issue remains unresolved and the system is set up to make us face an even
harder test.
Consequently, if we resolve to deal with life issues as they arise always in an "honorable, loving and positive way," then our lives will move increasingly in directions that make us happy. Warm hearted people eager to help us will appear in our lives with surprising frequency, as our lives become more and more fulfilled. However, if we constantly deal with our life issues in a "dishonorable, unloving and negative way," then our lives will turn in directions that are full of stress, conflict, mistrust and hostility. Events causing us failure and hardships will appear in our lives with surprising frequency, and, one by one, those who would have protected us instead leave us, making our lives bitter and lonely.
We attribute such events to "good fortune" or "bad fortune."
However, "fortune" is no more than the accumulation of the our
choices when faced with the "trials" and "rewards"
that we have set for ourselves.
We plan all of these things before we are born. Those warm hearted people
who enter our lives when our attitude is "honorable, loving and positive"
and those people who treat us coldly when we face life "dishonorably,
unloving and negatively" are all our soul-mates.
Before we are born, we tell our soul-mates, "If I behave like this,
please appear in my life," or "If I behave like that, deal with
it like this."
When the time comes, our soul-mates say, "I don't know why I'm supposed
to do this, but I'll do it," and try their best to help us out in
our life plan.
As I will explain later, these people are crucial soul-mates, both those
who help us and those who oppose us. Frequently, those who oppose us have
taken on the responsibility in this lifetime of warning us when we have
made a mistaken choice. Of course, the people in our lives each have their
own life plans, and the relationship will evolve depending upon which of
several life issue resolution strategies are taken, whether it be working
together for an honorable resolution, or having only one side work toward
an honorable resolution or even having both parties act in a dishonorable
way.
Motive is the Key
One man made the following comments regarding his memories of the moments
when his just-ended live flashed before his eyes.
I also discovered that it is not so much what you do that counts, but why
you do it. For example, having a fistfight with someone for no real reason
hurt me far more in the life review than having one with someone who had
picked a fight with me.
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To relive hurting someone just for fun is the greatest pain of all. To
relive hurting someone for a cause you believe in is not as painful.[64]
As we can see from the above recollections, when we are confronted with
the expected problem which we must resolve, it is the quality of our motive
that determines whether our choice is right or wrong. Of all the actions
we could take, the most mistaken is to choose to deliberately hurt someone
else. It is also wrong to hurt someone for fun. When we bear a person no
malice but cannot avoid hurting him, then our actions are not the "right"
ones, because our actions are not "moral, loving and positive,"
but neither can they be clearly termed "wrong" either.
The Defeated Can Always Try Again
Life does not operate under a playoff system that "eliminates the
losers;" instead, it resembles the saying, "If at first you don't
succeed, try, try again." It is not a system where once you lose (make
the wrong decision), you're out of the game for good. Even people who have
spent their whole lives to date choosing undesirable paths, are allowed
to reflect upon their actions and change their lives (their choice of resolution
methods.)
When they do so, they are able to change completely and move towards the
good life that had been planned.
Once a person realizes the folly of his ways and changes his directions,
he will find the path ready and waiting for him, even if he had previously
not been able to resolve even one life issue but had instead continuously
taken the wrong path. It is not too late to change even if a person does
not realize his mistakes until his sixties or eighties. The system is set
up so that one can always make a fresh start. The key issue is whether
or not one has recognized before death that many life issues remain unresolved
in this life time and whether one has tried to remedy one's mistakes in
order to make some progress, even if slight, towards the goal.
The above explanation is merely a brief, over-simplified explanation of
the process. In the cosmic testing ground which is life, less-evolved personalities
need and are born with a detailed blueprint which tells them exactly when
to face which life issue and exactly which resolution method to choose
to solve it. However, more evolved spirits are born with just a general
outline, putting themselves in a more challenging situation, so that they
can lead a more creative life.
For example, in a previous life, one male subject planned only the basic
personality and the sex of his next incarnation, stating that he wanted
to be "an amorous female," thereby setting himself up for a life
full of trouble and strife. As he planned his next incarnation, he visualized
cleverly adjusting and setting the switch on "a sort of clockwork
instrument," which would begin to operate after a certain period.[65]
(3) SELF-CHOSEN TESTS AND TRIALS
Facing Things Head On
"Those who fail repeatedly to overcome major challenges in their lives find they
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are urged by the judgment board to place themselves in similar situations
until these challenges are met successfully."[66] Sometimes, people
plan their spiritual growth in a long-term plan that stretches across numerous
lifetimes.
For example, Jenny Saunders, a woman who had been tormented by fear and
anger through many past lives, implored the guiding spirits for mercy because
she was afraid to be reborn again. The judges replied, "You must face
the fear and the anger head on."[67]
In other words, if a person evades the pain which is necessary for the
growth of the spirit and plans only easy and comfortable reincarnations,
then that person's spirit will make no progress, no matter how many lifetimes
it experiences.
Naturally, one is free to disregard the advice of the guiding spirits;
however, ignoring their advice means being reborn in a totally unplanned
way, and one could be overwhelmed by meaningless suffering in such a life.
Dr. Whitton reports that his subjects who had not carefully planned out
their lives before being reborn invariably appeared to be anxious and nervous,
while those who had drawn up a detailed plan before rebirth always looked
serene while they described their plan under hypnosis, even if their planned
lives were full of troubles and pain.[68]
How Karmic Justice Works
I would like to quote here the cases of several subjects whose reports
to Dr. Whitton while under hypnosis illustrate typical patterns of karmic
justice permeating several life times. The fact that most of the subjects
were Christian lends a great amount of credibility to their narratives,
since most Westerners are uninformed about the concept of "Karmic
justice," unlike Japanese subjects who have had the opportunity to
learn about Buddhist concepts.[69]
Ben Garonzi grew to hate his father so intensely that, at the age of eighteen, he came very close to killing him. One evening, when his father had become insensate from alcohol, Ben went to a kitchen drawer and pulled out a carving knife with every intention of slitting the man's throat. Then, listening to the prompting of an inner voice, he changed his mind and replaced the knife in the drawer. This decision to desist became a major turning point in Ben's life. From that moment on, his characteristic aimlessness was replaced with ambition, he grew more outgoing, and he went on to pursue a successful career that brought administrative responsibilities.
In the interlife (remembered while undergoing hypnotic regression), Ben
learned that he was embroiled in karmic circumstances that were designed
to teach him to withstand extreme provocation without recourse to violence...
In the bardo, Ben was aware of a voice which said, "If you do it right
this time, things will work out all right. If not, you will require a learning
environment of even greater intensity."
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A mother of three children whose husband was killed in an airplane crash
in 1971 is paying directly for her actions of a thousand years ago. Under
hypnosis, she saw herself as a religious leader in the Mayan civilization
of Central America who delighted in sentencing to a sacrificial death anyone
who disagreed with her. Today she is having to cope with the trials of
bereavement she once foisted upon others. Metaconsciousness revealed that
she had planned to develop compassion in this life.
The spirit who had been reborn as her husband cut his present life short
in order to cooperate with her plan. Today her departed husband is surely
acting as her guardian spirit and helping her as she continues to cultivate
herself spiritually in her present life.
A Jewish surgeon, Dr. Ezra vividly remembered under hypnosis that he had
spent a life as a Roman soldier. In that lifetime, he had broken the bodies
of Jews half-buried in sand by charging over them on his horse.
His karmic role in this life has been to mend bodies as well as to experience
the rigors of persecution. Early in his career, soon after his first divorce,
he was ostracized from practicing in Toronto's major teaching hospitals
because of his Jewish blood.
An egocentric housewife remembered under hypnosis that she had spent lives
as anarcissistic Southern belle in Georgia, an arrogant French priest,
and a Scotsman who, caring only for himself, ignored the needs of his family.
Enlightened by what she saw, Hilary realized that to continue in this manner
would be counter-productive. Accordingly she has revised her attitude of
self-absorption and her once-doomed marriage has dramatically revived.
Becky Roberts, married to an aloof alcoholic husband, had struggled to
raise three children by herself. Her burden has been considerably lightened
by a man named Clive Edensor, who has been helped her in all her domestic
problems.
When Becky was regressed to a lifetime in Alexandria in the third century A.D., she saw herself as a Temple Virgin in the Cult of Osiris. She also recognized Clive as a neophyte priest. Strongly attracted to one another, they fell in love and – although they were both sworn to celibacy – a passionate relationship ensued. One day their lovemaking was detected by the temple elders. The young priest claimed he had been seduced, and the elders, accepting this, allowed him to go free while condemning her to death. Because karma will not be denied, Clive is now making amends for his betrayal all those years ago.
As these examples show, many of Dr. Whitton's subjects have traced their
links with soul mates who have been born as their wives, husbands, lovers
and family to a
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succession of previous lives. They have perceived the karmic nature of
these relationships. By so doing, they have become aware of the life issues
that they must resolve in this lifetime and are able to make positive changes
in their lives.
2.4 THE HUGE DRAMA OF KARMIC JUSTICE
With the permission of their doctors, I would like to present some examples
of Japanese subjects who experienced hypnotic regression, since these cases
support the concept of Karmic retribution in rebirths.
(1) BIG EVENT ON BOARD SHIP
When Dr. S., a Japanese neurosurgeon, hypnotically regressed a male Japanese
corporate middle manager in his forties, he discovered a surprising overall
plan and purpose. [70]
The patient had contracted a disease which caused his kidneys to atrophy,
and had a transplant several years previously, using a kidney donated by
his mother. However, the match between his body and the kidney transplanted
from his mother was not a good one, draining him emotionally, and he had
come to Dr. S. for hypnotic regression.
In the actual hypnosis sessions, the doctor and his patient had conversation
after conversation, made repeated visits under hypnosis to the same scene,
and gradually learned more and more of the details. However, to make it
easier to understand the whole pattern of Karmic relationships between
past lives and this life, I have summarized the results of numerous hypnosis
sessions into one single narrative.
After hypnotizing the patient, the doctor directed the patient to remember
the cause of his neurosis in his present lifetime. Dr. S. reports that
the man's face underwent a startling transformation, into "a face
that looked like a pirate's," with a wild and fierce expression.
Subject: The time is the nineteenth century. I am in a Spanish port. I
am the owner and captain of a fishing boat. I have a crew of less than
ten, and we fish along the coast. I am violent-nature and am always yelling
at the sailors.
The man added that he shouted at his subordinates in the company where
he worked in his present life in just the same tone that he had shouted
at his crew in his previous life. In other words, his leadership skills
had failed to develop and grow from that life to this.
Subject: I often yell things like, "If you can't do the job, then
get out of this company," to the people who work for me at the company.
I sound just like the captain of a fishing boat!
Finally the sailors grew furious at the rough way the captain treated them
and revolted, staging a mutiny. They could no longer put up with being
worked to death for such a miserable salary. The storm
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was approaching and they demanded that the ship return to port. The sailors
cornered the captain, with weapons in their hands.
Subject: I shouted, "If you don't like the way I treat you, then get
off the ship," but the sailors did not waver. Seven sailors, including
the cook, got me cornered. Then the sailor standing furthest to the right
loudly berated me.
I yelled for him to shut up..then I pulled out my gun, pointed it at the
sailor on the right and pulled the trigger.
The bullet went right through his side!
The bullet from the gun pierced the sailor's body right at the kidney.
The captain then turned his pistol on the other sailors and massacred them
one by one.
The captain, now all alone, soon confronted the typhoon, as the sailors
had warned. Expecting the storm to blow over soon, the captain was still
obsessed with the fear of losing his ship and his cargo, and lashed his
body to the ship with a line, planning to wait for the storm to pass.
Subject: The storm grew more and more violent, and finally the ship sank!
The ship was dragged beneath the waves, with me lashed to the mast!
Ahh! The rope is digging into my sides! Aagh!
At that moment, the hypnotized patient let out a scream of pain and his
face twisted. He was re-experiencing his agony as the rope dug into his
side while the ship sank beneath the raging waves during the storm.
(2) THE MAN HE KILLED BECAME HIS MOTHER
Later, this Japanese male in his forties confessed as follows.
Whenever my mother would nag me, I would yell, "Shut up!" My feelings when I shouted, "Shut up!" at the sailor just before I shot him were exactly the same as when I shouted those words at mother in my previous life .
And now I am somehow positive that the sailor that I murdered in a past life with a pistol, has been reborn as my mother in this life"
How amazing that this male patient had been reborn in his present life
bearing the heavy burden of a kidney disease, just so that he could reflect
upon his misdeeds and grow by experiencing the same kidney pain that he
had inflicted by shooting that sailor in the kidney during his previous
life in a nineteenth century Spanish port!
Moreover, the loving mother who had donated a healthy kidney to replace
his atrophied kidney was the reborn personality of the sailor he had been
shot in that previous life. In other words, one important life issue for
him in his current lifetime was to learn the great importance of gratitude
"to the spirit of his current mother who had forgiven even someone
who had killed her previous incarnation."
If we shift our focus to the mother, we see an even more complicated mechanism.
The spirit who had been born as his mother in this life was the same spirit
who had been murdered by him in a previous life.
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When a serious illness had caused her son to lose the use of his kidneys,
she was faced with making a big decision as to whether or not to donate
one of her own kidneys to her son. When the mother happily and willingly
gave her kidney to her son, she unconsciously showed that she was able
to forgive even her own murderer, thus demonstrating the highest form of
"love." She was truly a wonderful mother.
(3) THE DETAILED WORKINGS OF HYPNOTIC REGRESSION
In the above section, I rewrote the dialogue between doctor and subject
in an easily readable and narrative fashion. Here, I would like to show
you how the actual conversation progressed between doctor and patient during
a hypnotic regression session.
The following is an excerpt from the notebook kept by the subject.
This is an excerpt from an actual hypnotic regression session which took place on
July 5th, 1994.[71]
Doctor: Return now to the place that has caused your present illness.
Subject: (No reply)
(At that time, I felt myself rushing through a tunnel at tremendous speed.
When I emerged, the ocean was spread before me. For some reason, my body
felt as if it were rocking back and forth.)
Doctor: Where are you now?
Subject: The ocean.
Doctor: Are you on the beach?
Subject: I'm rocking back and forth, so it seems I'm on a boat.
Doctor: What are you doing on the boat?
Subject: I'm looking at the ocean. The ocean is rough because of a storm.
I may be done for.
Doctor: Who else is on the ship?
Subject: Only me.
Doctor: Where's everybody else?
Subject: (No reply)
Doctor: Then we return to the time of departure from the port.
Subject: (I went shooting through a blurry place again. Suddenly I felt
myself on a ship moored in a harbor.)
Doctor: Where are you?
Subject: The harbor.
Doctor: What are you doing?
Subject: I'm watching them load cargo on the ship.
Doctor: Who is loading it?
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Subject: The sailors.
Doctor: What name do they call you?
Subject: "Boss!"
Doctor: What is your name?
Subject: (No reply)
(Just then I sensed a woman running towards me from a tavern at the outskirts
of town. The woman was shouting my name."Dorain! Dorain!" )
Doctor: Dorain, return to your childhood.
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: What do you see?
Subject: A white apron.
Doctor: Who is it?
Subject: Probably my mother.
Doctor: Grow a little older.
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: What are you doing?
Subject: I'm playing with the kids in the neighborhood?
Doctor: What about school?
Subject: I hate it.
Doctor: Where are you?
Subject: A small town on a steep road. I can see the ocean over the mountains.
Doctor: Grow a little older.
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: Where are you?
Subject: I'm in a harbor. I begin work as a sailor today.
Doctor: Dorain, how old are you?
Subject: Twenty-two.
Doctor: What year is it?
Subject: 1896.
The male subject reported that they were unable to discover the cause of his illness that day. On July 12, one week later, he had another hypnosis session.
He commented, "I had gotten more and more comfortable with being
hypnotized. Today I went back to the shipboard scene.
Doctor: Where are you?
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Subject: On board ship.
Doctor: What are you doing.
Subject: I'm looking at the ocean.
Doctor: Who is there?
Subject: Only me.
Doctor: Have you been on this ship all along?
Subject: No.
Doctor: What happened to everyone?
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: Well then, return to the time that the ship left port.
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: :Where are you?
Subject: On the wharf in the harbor.
Doctor: What are you doing?
Subject: I'm watching the sailors load cargo on the ship.
Doctor: Have they finished loading the ship?
Subject: Yes.
Doctor: Where are the sailors?
Subject: They got on the ship.
Doctor: Where is the ship going from here?
Subject: West Africa.
Doctor: Has the ship left port?
Subject: Yes.
Doctor: Do you have any friends aboard ship?
Subject: I couldn't get the usual crew. These are hired sailors.
Doctor: How are they?
Subject: They're lazy. And they complain all the time about low pay and
poor conditions.
Doctor: Tell me if anything unusual happens.
Subject: Hey! Someone is trying to get away.
Doctor: What do you do?
Subject: I'll shoot him dead!
Doctor: Did you kill him?
Subject: It's a dark night and I can't see very well, but I think I got him.
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Doctor: What happened?
Subject: There's a storm coming and the sailors are in an uproar because
they want to go home.
Doctor: What do you do?
Subject: They're a bunch of trouble-makers.
Doctor: What happened then?
Subject: They're trying to force me to take them back to port.
Doctor: What happened?
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: What are you doing?
Subject: I'm looking at the ocean?
Doctor: What about the others?
Subject: I think I'm all alone.
Doctor: What happened?
Subject: The ship is about to sink.
Doctor: Return to when they were pressuring you.
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: What happened?
Subject: They are milling around me holding weapons.
Doctor: What do you do?
Subject: Shut up! Hey, I got you!
Doctor: What happened?
Subject: I shot them.
Doctor: How?
Subject: I shot them in the bellies.
Doctor: Are they all dead?
Subject: Most likely.
Doctor: What do you mean?
Subject: Someone may have hidden and gotten away. Can't do a thing about it.
Doctor: What are you doing?
Subject: Looking at the ocean.
Doctor: Is the ship O.K.?
Subject: The storm is fierce. The waves are like mountains. The deck is
swamped by waves.
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Doctor: What will you do?
Subject: The mast has snapped. Unless I lash myself to it with a line,
I'll be swept away by the waves.
Doctor: Are you O.K.?
Subject: I may be done for.
Doctor: Dorain, what happened?
Subject: (No reply.)
The ship went down like a flash, with me aboard, and sank to the ocean
floor. In that instant, I felt as if something was painfully squeezing
my stomach, even though I was hypnotized, and then everything went black.
Doctor: Make yourself relax.
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: What can you see?
Subject: I can vaguely see what's around me.
Doctor: Where are you?
Subject: I went into the sea and sank to the ocean floor where it was pitch
black, but it's not dark now.
Doctor: What happened to you, Dorain?
Subject: (No reply.)
Doctor: How are you now?
Subject: (No reply.)
(My eyes were wet when the hypnosis session was over. I had a horrible
death. I had slaughtered at least seven or eight people, and then drowned,
lashed to the ship by a line. That terrifying personality had been reborn
as I am now. The overall impression I had of Dorain immediately after his
death was that he had no friends.
(4) CONVERSATION WITH HIS OWN KIDNEY
On July 17, the doctor helped him practice techniques of meditation in
order to attempt to "converse with his own kidney." That experience
is recorded below.
I asked my kidney, "Who are you?" At that moment, the scene of
Dorain murdering the sailor flashed before me. Shortly afterwards, I saw
the sailor on the far right being shot in the left side of the stomach,
and watched the sailor's internal organs splatter out behind him. "Could
that possibly have been you?" I asked my kidney, but the only reply
was a faint snigger.
The scene remained fresh in my mind even after I had finished meditating.
I was so agitated that I was unable to think straight. However, when I
was able to carefully think
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it over, I realized that the scene had flashed before my mind as a sort
of reply when I had asked the identity of the transplanted kidney functioning
inside my body. I realized that the murdered sailor was my mother, since
the kidney had been transplanted from my mother.
I sensed an extraordinary, grand drama. My mother had been fully aware
of the past circumstances before her rebirth into this family, and had
nevertheless chosen to give me birth despite our past Karmic relationship.
It had all been preordained by some great divine will, what we term that
presence which is "God." I gradually came to realize that we
mortals act in accordance with an immense plan.
The spirit of a murdered person is reborn and gives birth to a child, and
then goes on to donate an organ to that child. I would expect that the
two spirits would never want to see each other again; however, to my absolute
astonishment, instead they forged such a deep relationship.[72]
After this man had understood the surprising workings of Karma, he was
deeply moved and said to Doctor S, "This experience is impossible
to understand through logic. However, everything begins to make sense to
me emotionally when I realize what went behind my rebirth. I will remain
a worthless person if I just repeat in this lifetime what I did in my previous
lives."
2.5 THERE IS A TIME FOR EVERYTHING
(1) DELIBERATELY CHOOSING A TOUGH ENVIRONMENT
It is not always true that people whose lives are more difficult than others
are making recompense for misdeeds in a past life. Rather, there are numerous
cases where the spirit sets up a sort of test for itself by deliberately
choosing difficult life circumstances for its next rebirth, in order to
give itself a chance for maximum growth and development. It has also become
clear through a series of hypnotic regressions that inborn prodigious abilities
must be cultivated in previous lifetimes.[73]
According to Dr. Whitton, we ourselves make the choice, either carefully
or haphazardly, of our own environments in this world. Subjects learn that
the type of lives they lead and their life circumstances are not due to
chance nor are they without random. Objectively viewed from the perspective
of the interlife, the life experiences of each and every person are no
more than one module in a course taken in this great classroom of the universe.
The harder we learn in the class-room called "Life," a classroom
where we attend when we have a physical form, the faster our spirits grow.
Dr. Weiss has reported a dramatic experience when many guiding spirits
spoke directly to him through the mouth of a subject during a hypnotic
regression. These guiding spirits conveyed a profound message to him in
a tone of voice and phraseology which quite different from that of the
subject whose mouth they borrowed.
When Dr. Weiss inquired, "What should we do in order to live better?"
One of the guiding spirits (the "Master") replied as follows.
"Everybody's path is basically the same. We all must learn certain
attitudes while we're in physical state. Some of us are quicker to accept
them than others. Charity,
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hope, faith, love...we must all know these things and know them well. It's
not just one hope and one faith and one love – so many things feed into
each one of these. There are so many ways to demonstrate them. And yet
we've only tapped into a little bit of each one..."[74]
The subject had never even contemplated such a message, and the tone of
voice and phraseology were not the subject's. In addition, the subject
realized midway that her mouth was speaking all by itself, with no effort
on her part.
According to Dr. Weiss, he was able to do "detailed regressions to
multiple past lives in a dozen more patients. None of these patients was
psychotic, hallucinating, or experiencing multiple personalities."[75]
This proves that the phenomena are not just the fabrication or hallucination
of one particular hypnosis subject.
(2) WHY PEOPLE DIE YOUNG
Upon another occasion, the guiding spirit who spoke through the mouth of
the hypnosis subject conveyed the following message.
Patience and timing...everything comes when it must come. A life cannot
be rushed, cannot be worked on a schedule as so many people want it to
be.. We must accept what comes to us at a given time, and not ask for more.
But life is endless, so we never die; we were never really born. We just
pass through different phases.[76]
However, we may very well ask, "If this life is a place of discipline
and training, why then are there people who die young?" Some of the
people who caught a glimpse of the interlife during a near-death experience
learned the answer to this question.
"I saw many spirits who would only come to the earth for a short time...They
were as excited as the others, knowing that they had a purpose to fulfill...
These spirits did not need the development that would result from longer
lives in mortality, and their deaths would provide challenges that would
help their parents grow."[77]
As we can see, people who die young have either already fulfilled their
purpose in this world or else their youthful deaths hold a special and
important meaning for themselves and their families.
Needless to say, spirits who die young never regret or lament their deaths
when they reflect upon their lives immediately after their demise. Instead,
they are completely satisfied because they their deaths have accelerated
the spiritual growth of their parents and family, and they are cheering
their families on from the next world. For parents, there is no greater
a test for spiritual growth than the death of a child.
And the parting is certainly not forever, for they will be reunited again
after death. An abundance of well-grounded scientific evidence demonstrates
the workings of life and death, and can liberate from pain those who are
suffering from the endless anguish of the "pain of separation through
death."
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2.6 REUNION WITH SOUL MATES
Soul mates are spirits who have especially close ties, with each other,
even compared to other groups who chose to reincarnate together. Most people
who undergo hypnotic regression are able to trace their relationships with
wives, husbands and lovers back to a series of past lives.
(1) THE "TIES THAT BLIND"
Those people who have experienced a good relationship in past lives make
plans to have cooperative relationships again in their future lives. Whether
or not the relationship will be reestablished in their present lives depends
upon the life plan that each made during the interlife.[78]
For example, Andrew was reunited with the spirit of Maureen, his lover
during his lifetime in nineteenth century England. However, by the time
they met, Andrew was already married. Their deep passionate relationship
in a past life created a strong mutual attraction in this life, which they
were unable to control, and this led them to an adulterous relationship.
Sometime after, Andrew became one of Dr. Whitton's hypnosis patients and
remembered himself as a spirit during the interlife, weary of self-cultivation
and self-discipline. He shrank from taking on bodily form again, but Maureen
urged on him a plan for their reunion on the earthly plane. Because of
the lack of joint planning, they have had to settle for a secret amorous
relationship rather than enjoying conjugal bliss.
Of course, this case is the exception rather than the rule. Usually husbands
and wives are reborn again and again as husbands and wives, switching genders
and roles. It is vastly more efficient to work at spiritual growth in a
planned fashion with the same partner from lifetime to lifetime than to
switch partners again and again. Spirits in their incorporeal state are
sexless; however, when incarnated they must choose to be either a male
or a female. This is why they prefer to pair up. It is extremely common
to find that spirits who have had intense relationships many times in past
lives reunite in this life as couples who are in love or who are married
or who are having illicit relationships.
After her spirit left her body during a near-death experience, one woman
saw spirits having a hard time trying to get future parents to marry.
"I saw one male spirit trying to get a mortal man and woman together on earth – his future parents. He was playing Cupid and was having a very difficult time. The man and woman seemed to want to go in opposite directions and were unwittingly very uncooperative. This male spirit was coaching them, speaking to them, trying to persuade them to get together. Other spirits became concerned as they saw his difficulty, and they took up the cause, several of them trying to "corral" these two young people."[79]
What we commonly call "the Cupid of love" is not just a superstition;
Cupid actually exists, in the form of a spirit trying to bring a mortal
man and woman together to fulfill their destiny as his parents!
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One housewife was shocked to read in my research work a story just like
one her own daughter had told her. According to Mrs. M., who lives in Sendai
City, her currently school-age daughter initiated a very surprising conversation
when she was four-years old. One day, mother and child were in the bathroom
together working on potty-training when the daughter suddenly began speaking
as if she reminiscing.
"Mommy, I watched you and daddy get married from high up in the sky."
"Huh? What do you mean?"
"I knew that you and Daddy would get married and I knew that I would
be born."
"Did you?"
"Before I was born, I looked all around for just the right mother,
and then I decided that you and Daddy would be my parents."
"How... how did you pick out your parents?"
"I asked advice from a person who was just like God and he told me
that you should be my mother this time."
"Oh... Uh... Well, thank you. Thank you very much."
The conversation was so strange that Mrs. M. remembers it clearly even
now. However, it was only after she read my research paper that she understood
what the conversation meant. I have collected very many similar stories
here in Japan, such as the story about Hiro which appears at the beginning
of this book.
Dr. Garrett Oppenheim, who practices regressive hypnotism in New York has
pointed out the following about the soul mates who appear during past life
regressions.
One serendipitous benefit of group, I have found, begins to blossom whenever
two or three group members learn that they were friends in a previous lifetime.
With this happy discovery, usually, comes the opportunity to develop their
relationship from the point where it left off – perhaps a hundred or a
thousand years ago.[80]
(2) MYSTERIOUS FAMILY TIES
The term "soul mate" refers to more than just the relationship
between husband and wife. Frequently, we are able to accomplish the grand
mission of one of our lifetimes through family relationships, such as the
linkages between parents and children and between brothers and sisters.
Hatred of a Son
I will describe a very interesting phenomena discovered by Dr. Garrett
Oppenheim, Ph.D. when he was conducting a hypnotic regression on a woman
named Jeannine. For no apparent reason, Jeannine absolutely hated her own
son, a boy whom one would expect her to dote upon.
When Dr. Oppenheim asked her where she was, Jeannine sobbed, and replied
in a child's voice that she could not see. In that past lifetime she had
been almost completely blind, and she had spent her every moment of her
whole life on a dirty bed in a room that stank.
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In that past lifetime, she had been called Mary. She had been age four
years old at the time of her first memory. The shadows danced, the door
opened and closed, and she could just make out the fuzzy shape of a woman
standing nearby, looking at her. Her vision had been too poor for her to
see any more.
In response to Dr. Oppenheim's question, she said someone brought food
for her sometimes.
Her only toy – and her only friend – was a stuffed teddy bear, which she would hug and caress and whisper to. She said she simply couldn't stand her mother, who would sometimes come in and just stand at the doorway, staring.
Her brief existence ended when she was seventeen. After leaving her dead
body behind, she recovered her sight, and realized that she was looking
down upon the young girl that she had been. She still loved her cast-off
body, even though it had been blind. Her mother, who was there at the deathbed
with other people, was a thin woman with a stern expression. Her father
was nowhere in sight, and she did not even have any memories of him.
At that point, she realized what she had been missing that just-ended lifetime.
The worse thing in her life, Mary said, was the unending rejection. worse
than her blindness and feebleness was the total lack of touching and caring.
"I couldn't talk to them – they never understood. There was nothing
I could have done differently. Then, with a sudden outburst of feeling,
Mary shouted, "I still hate them – every one of them!"
Dr. Oppenheim tried to calm her. He asked her if there were any connections
between that past life and her current one. After a long silence, Jeannine
replied,
"They're still here," she said. "Still here in this life."
Her brother in the past life is now her mother, she explained, while her
mother in the regression is now her son.
"and I still hate them," she added. "I still want to get even with them.."
...While she was still in hypnosis I tried to convince Jeannine that the
past was over and done with, and that perhaps it was time to forgive her
mother and her son for their lack of understanding in a previous incarnation.
"To go through life hating those close to you is to go through life
hating yourself," I pointed out.[81]
Relationship With A Husband
Dr. Brian L. Weiss has reported several cases of family members in conflict
in this life whose lives had been interwoven in previous incarnations and
who had selected "forgiving my old opponent" as their life issue
in their current lives.
Martine, a thirty-year old mother of two, was unhappy because she could
not get along with her husband Hal. Hal was the sort of man who was always
criticizing, who made nothing but demands on Martine and who found fault
with every single thing Martine did. From Martine's point of view, Hal
was like a weight around her neck.
Under the circumstances, it seemed odd that they had married (showing all
the more how they had planned their fate beforehand). They had separated
and made up numerous times before.
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While she was in a hypnotic state, Dr. Weiss directed her to return to
that past life that she had lived with her present family, that past life
that was now causing all her problems with her present family. Martine's
face quickly crumbled, and she began to sob like a child.
"I'm so afraid. It's black, pitch black. I can't see anything. I'm
just afraid. Something terrible is happening." Her voice was still
childlike. I thought Martine was in some void, somewhere between lifetimes.
But why was she afraid? I was confused.
"I'm going to tap you on the forehead and count backwards from three
to one. When I say one, you'll see where you are."
It worked.
"I'm a young girl, sitting at a large wooden table in a big room.
There isn't much furniture in the room, just the table really. I'm eating
food from a bowl. It's like oatmeal. I have a big spoon."
"What's your name?"
"Rebecca," she answered. She did not know what year it was. But
when Martine later died in this remembered lifetime, she stated that the
year was 1859.
"Are you alone? Where are your parents?"
"I can't...I don't..." She began to cry again. "My father
is there, but my mother is not. She's dead. I killed her!" Rebecca's
mother, Martine went on to explain, had died during Rebecca's birth. Rebecca's
father blamed his daughter for the death of his wife."
"He's awful to me. He beats me and locks me up all alone in the closet.
I'm so scared!" she cried.
Rebecca's father, a woodcutter who worked with an axe, treated her like
a slave. He gave her long lists of chores, constantly criticizing her,
finding fault, beating her, and locking her in the dreaded closet. Martine
tearfully recognized the man as Hal, her husband in her current life.
Rebecca never left her father. Despite his constant cruel and unloving behavior,
she stayed with him until the end of his life...
...After her father's death, Rebecca married Tom, a man who treated her
wonderfully. She recognized Tom as her current life son. Although Tom had
wanted children, Rebecca did not, fearing that she would die in childbirth
as her mother had. Nevertheless, they were very happy. Tom died first,
then Rebecca. I progressed her in time to the last day of her life.
"I'm in bed. I'm an old lady with gray hair. I'm not frightened. I'm
going to be with Tom. She died and floated over her body.
"What did you learn in that life? I inquired.
"That I have to be assertive," she quickly responded. "I
have to do what is right for me...when I am right...and not continue to
suffer needlessly I have to be assertive.
Martine returned home and told her husband Hal about her memories of the
past. Hal realized that he had hardly grown at all in humanity from the
past life when he had lived as Rebecca's father.
After her hypnotic regression, Martine became strong and bold, and asserted
herself when she was right. Hal also began showing a great consideration
to Martine.
Afterwards their marriage underwent a dramatic improvement. [82]
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(3) SOULMATES FORTIFY AND HELP EACH OTHER
A Joint Life Plan
Dr. Ian Stevenson, M.D. a professor at the University of Virginia, has
pointed out that soulmates are spirits who, joined by love and friendship
in previous lives, are drawn together in particular families when they
are reborn.[83]
When such a spirit is reborn, it must come back as the child of its destined
parents, and therefore it must enter the body of whatever fetus its future
parents are expecting. Consequently, it works to attract sperm to the egg
that will produce the desired sex and to repel sperm that would produce
the undesired sex. It appears to wait for a fertilized egg of the right
sex, hoping to be reborn as whichever sex is in its plan. It is possible
this is what causes unexplained miscarriages.
Dr. Stevenson has investigated several cases where parents have fervently
wished that a deceased child would come back to them. In these cases, Dr.
Stevenson believes, the spirit waiting for rebirth insists on getting the
same sex and will wait for as long as it takes to get a body of the desired
sex.
Subjects of Dr. Brian L. Weiss have explained to him that soulmates are
generally reborn as husband and wife (although the two spirits may swap
sexes). The aim is to share joy and sorrow, success and failure, love and
forgiveness, anger and gentleness through numerous lifetimes with a soulmate,
in order to join forces to achieve endless growth. Consequently, it is
very common for soulmates to feel an immediate closeness, as if they had
met before, from the very first moment they meet in their current lifetimes.[84]
Dr. Weiss writes as follows about the joint planning done by soulmates.
From the experiences that some of my patients have in the "between
life" state, I have come to believe that we actually pick our families
for each lifetime before birth. We choose to live out the patterns that
will afford us the most growth with the souls that will most effectively
manifest these situations in our lives. very often, these are souls we
have met and interacted with in many ways in other lifetimes.[85]
Dr. Weiss also relates that the guiding spirits have spoken to him through
the mouths of his subjects.
"We have debts that must be paid. If we have not paid out these debts,
then we must take them into another life...in order that they may be worked
through. You progress by paying your debts. Some souls progress faster
than others. When you're in physical form and you are working through,
you're working through a life...If something interrupts your ability...to
pay that debt, you must return to the plane of recollection, and there
you must wait until the soul you owe the debt to has come to see you. and
when you both can be returned to physical form at the same time, then you
are allowed to return. But you determine when you are going back. You determine
what must be done to pay that debt."[86]
Dr. Weiss along with other researchers relates that groups of spirits often
repeatedly reincarnate together as a group. As they repeatedly reincarnate,
the group gradually expands, but the soulmates at the core remain the same
small group that started the process.
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Whenever we meet a spirit who has influenced us sometime in the past, we
unconsciously sense our past connection and fall into the same behavior
patterns as in the past. Sometimes these behavior patterns establish a
positive relationship and sometimes they recreate a bad relationship. And
so, for example, superiors and subordinates, neighbors, teachers and students,
and sometimes national or corporate leaders will either take up opposing
stances or else join in mutually supportive relationships.
Dr. Weiss has summarized the discoveries of many hypnotic regression researchers
as follows.
As we grow by interacting with our soulmates, we ascend the ladder of lifetimes.
We transcend old patterns, come to fully experience love and joy, and lose
every last vestige of anger and fear....Of course, they may not meet within
the same relationships or circumstances that prevailed in the current lifetime.
for example, a father and daughter might meet again as friends or siblings
or grandfather and grandchild. Nevertheless, souls do continue to meet
again and again.[87]
Grateful to Soulmates
I would like to share a letter from a Japanese woman who read my article,
"The Dawn of "Meaning.'"
I operate a small shop.
Many different people visit my shop, including people who have been injured
by life and people who suffer from sickness or incurable diseases.
My own husband died of cancer. I married my husband even though I knew
that he had been born with diabetes, and that he was not very strong.
Through the life and death of my husband, we learned the meaning of life.
I also believe that it was my destiny to teach what we had learnt to the
wounded people who visit my shop.
As her words indicate, this woman is aware of her role in life. Although
her husband no longer exists in the flesh, we can be sure that he is always
close to her.
There are many people around the world who somehow know that they are the
reincarnation of a close relative who died before their births. Let me
have a Japanese housewife tell you her story in her own words.
My father died .
I was born a week later, the day Buddhists honor as the first week anniversary
of a person's death. As a child, I had extremely detailed dreams, dreams
in which I always seemed to be an adult. As I dreamed, I would think to
myself, "Ah, that's the house I visited yesterday. That's what I discussed
with that person. This is what I got on the way home. That house had flowers
in the back."
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How strange, I would think when I awoke. I was still a child and I had
never seen the house that I'd visited in my dream or met in real life the
people that I met in my dreams. I had the same detailed dreams over and
over again, to the point that I became terrified of night time and could
not sleep alone.
I now realize that the dreams were memories of my previous life as my own
father. From my earliest years I was certain that I was the reincarnation
of my father.
When I was an adult, I learned for the first time that my father had collapsed
of a heart attack and had died at the bottom of a one-yard wide ditch at
the side of the road. As a child I was terrified of water, and even drinking
a glass of water brought tormenting fears of drowning.
Numerous cases of hypnotic regression have confirmed that spirits who die
full of regrets (even if they had planned these deaths before being reincarnated)
are in a great rush to be reborn into the same families. In the previous
case, the wife of the deceased young husband was pregnant and his spirit
was perhaps able to slip right into the body of his unborn child. This
is by no means an isolated occurrence. Performing numerous hypnotic regressions
led Dr. Weiss to an extremely interesting discovery about adoptive parents
and children.
Past life regression sometimes gives great joy to adopted families by showing
them that, although they are not biologically related and although blood
may be thicker than water, spirit is thicker than blood. I have done regressions
that indicate that the bonds between adopted children and their adoptive
parents may be stronger than the bonds between these children and their
biological parents. When various members of these adoptive families are
regressed they often recognize each other in prior lifetimes.
Experience has shown me that if a parent-child relationship is destined
to take place, and the physical outlet is blocked, another way is found
for it to occur. Parent child relationships are never random.[88]
If the spirit planning rebirth as the child of a specific couple discovers
that the intended parents are physically unable to bear children, then
that spirit will borrow the uterus of another woman in order to be born,
and will move steadily closer to his desired parents. Those of you who
are grieving because you are unable to have children should go to visit
a nearby orphanage. You could meet a child there whom you somehow know
instantly is meant for you.
Dr. Weiss' research also reveals that some spirits reach such a high level
of development that they no longer need to be reborn. These highly-developed
spirits choose whether they wish to be reborn in order to help other people
or whether they wish to remain in spirit form and help people on earth
that way.[89]
(4) THE MYSTERY OF SYNCHRONISM
Dr. Stanislas Grof, who pioneered the use of medications to induce regressions,
has also focused on the great importance of soulmates.
HOW THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION WORKS
page 64. CHAPTER 2.
Dr. Grof tried regressive hypnotism on a subject who had a strongly hostile
relationship with another, and described what happened as follows.
During a past life experience he saw this adversary as his murderer in
a lifetime they had shared long before. After going into the past and forgiving
that crime, the client instantly changed his present life feeling toward
this person. Old animosities and fears instantly faded and he saw the person
in a new light. As this was occurring, his one-time enemy was simultaneously
but independently undergoing a similar personal experience halfway around
the world that transformed him in the same direction. Within approximately
the same time period, both people had experiences that changed their basic
perspectives, healing their relationship, which had been so filled with
animosity.
This particular example, though extraordinary, is not unusual in my work.
Again and again I have seem karmic partners experience dramatic changes
that released them from the past and allowed them to heal old wounds, which
had existed for many, many years. These changes of attitude occurred within
minutes of each other, even though the people involved were often separated
by thousands of miles and had no direct communication between them."[90]
If you think it over, you will recall any number of occasions when two
or more people think or do the same thing at the same time. You start thinking
about your friend, and your friend starts thinking of you, so you both
try to call each other at the same time. We call this phenomenon "synchronicity."
(5) THE ART OF LOVING
The above examples of reincarnation research make it clear how important
it is for soulmates to help each other develop spiritually and to teach
each other to forgive.
Whenever I see examples of the intertwined destinies of soulmates, I recall
the words of the world-renowned psychologist Dr. Erich Fromm in his book
The Art of Loving.
To love somebody is not just a strong feeling – it is a decision, it is
a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be
no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and
it may go.[91-A]
In a later section of his book, Dr. Fromm writes the following.
One other frequent error must be mentioned here. The illusion, namely,
that love means necessarily the absence of conflict...Real conflicts between
two people, those...which are experienced on the deep level of inner reality
to which they belong, are not destructive. They lead to clarification,
they produce a catharsis from which both persons emerge with more knowledge
and more strength
...Love, experienced thus, is a constant challenge; it is not a resting
place, but a moving, growing, working together.[91-B]
Soulmates, particularly those who have been reincarnated repeatedly as
husband and wife, are the whetstones for sharpening one's spiritual edge.
Consequently, the partners are born sometimes with a major interpersonal
life issue to resolve between them.
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When this happens and their relationship is fraught with tensions, they
must not run away from their marriage, thinking that their relationship
is too troubled and too plagued by interpersonal problems. Instead, they
must realize that they chose to share a troubled marriage in this reincarnation
just so that they could join forces with their closest soulmate in order
to overcome the very same interpersonal life issue that is now damaging
their marriage. Dr. Fromm wrote, "To love somebody is not just a strong
feeling – it is a decision." If they are able to work together at
resolving this life issue, strengthened by Dr. Fromm's words, then they
will be able to fulfill the grand purpose of their present lives.
Dr. Fromm's psychological theory becomes all the more moving and persuasive
once one learns about the research findings on reincarnation.
2.7 REVISITING THE WORLD
After the guiding spirits (the Beings of Light) have given us their advice,
we wait for our future parents to marry and for our mother-to-be to get
pregnant, and then we enter the body of the fetus.
(1) OUR SOJOURN IN THE NEXT WORLD
According to Dr. Joel L. Whitton,
"Birth is the first day of a tough new project.
And while there are those who look forward with eagerness and anticipation
to the challenges of earthly existence, most view with reluctance the thought
of surrendering the timeless, spaceless bardo for material inhibition."
[92]
Dr. Whitton goes on to give a concrete example of this phenomena.
"Some, of course, show more reluctance than others. A man who had
once used and abused young boys in ancient Greece was repulsed at having
to return as a persecuted homosexual. 'Oh, no! Oh no, not this. Anything
but this!' he screamed in trance. 'There's no way I could go into that
body,' he said later. 'But I had made my choice – unwillingly – on the
advice of the judgment board and I just had to go through with it. I felt
pushed."[93-A]
Judged by the measurements of this world, the amount of time spent between
lives varies greatly depending upon the person and upon the life. Dr. Whitton
comments that among his subjects, "ten months is the shortest interval
observed between lives while the longest extends for more than eight hundred
years."[93-B] Dr. Whitton further notes that the average between-life
stay is approximately forty years.[93-C]
The amount of time between lives has shortened from several hundred years,
meaning that there is a shorter period of rest between reincarnations.
This phenomena corresponds to the global population explosion. During hypnotic
regression, several subjects related that they had died during World War
II, and had been immediately reincarnated as part of the baby boom.
Dr. Satwant Pasricha collected cases of forty-five children who had memories
of past lives and verified the authenticity of the statements of thirty-eight
of these children.
HOW THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION WORKS
page 66. CHAPTER 2.
Dr. Pasricha reports that "the median intermission between death
and presumed rebirth was 14.5 months. It varied from one day to 224 months."[94]
These figures are lower than Dr. Whitton's statistics; however, Dr. Whitton
based his averages upon strings of reincarnations going back thousands
of years, while Dr. Pasricha took an average of only the most recent reincarnation.
Another possible cause for the discrepancy is that most of Dr. Pasricha's
cases involved people who had died tragically in their previous reincarnations.
Spirits appear to strongly desire an immediate reincarnation in cases of
tragic death, even if the death was part of their life plans.
Of course, Dr. Whitton based his averages on far more cases than Dr. Pasricha,
making Dr. Whitton's numbers statistically more accurate; however, this
is not meant to imply that Dr. Pasricha's methodology gave unreliable results.
The most accurate way to explain is to say that spirits can reincarnate
at any time between one day after death to several hundred years after
death. As world population increases, the average time between reincarnations
has shortened, and many spirits leave a period of only ten-to-twenty years
between reincarnations.
(2) MEMORIES HINDERING SELF-DEVELOPMENT ARE SUPPRESSED
According to Dr. Whitton, when spirits are reborn in this world,
"knowledge of any plan the soul may have made for the forthcoming
life is necessarily subjugated. Just as it is pointless for a student to
be furnished with answers before sitting down to write an examination,
so the test of life requires that certain information is temporarily withheld
from the conscious mind. [95-A]
Dr. Whitton goes on to say that many hypnotic subjects who have glimpsed
future events in their lives have asked Dr. Whitton to erase the memory
from their consciousness, because on some level they know that the information
must be withheld. Some subjects even bolted wide awake from their hypnotic
trance as they viewed their futures, and were unable to remember anything
of what they had been saying. Several subjects even pleaded with Dr. Whitton,
"Please do not let me remember this when I wake... I might be tempted
to tamper with my karma."[95-B]
Dr. Whitton has also had many subjects who have learned of their life plans
through hypnosis and who have told Dr. Whitton their predictions. Naturally,
Dr. Whitton never divulged to them what they had said under hypnosis. Dr.
Whitton writes that
"whenever these predictions were sufficiently short-term to allow
for verification, they proved to be accurate."[96]
(3) BIRTH INTO THIS WORLD
Spirits seeking to be reborn are able to enter the body of the fetus at any time they choose during the period from several months after conception until several moments after actual birth. Once we are able to pinpoint the moment that the spirit enters the body and again when the spirit leaves the body, then we will know when a mere lump of flesh becomes human and when it again becomes a mere lump of flesh.
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This will have a huge impact on the controversial issues of abortion and
of whether brain death is an adequate measure of total physical death.
One subject speaks of the moment that his spirit entered the body of the
fetus that would be his current incarnation.
I was in the delivery room watching my mother and the doctors standing
around her. White light surrounded everything that was going on and I was
one with this light. Then I heard the doctors say, "It's coming!"
and I knew that I had to merge with my new body."[97]
According to Dr. S, a Japanese doctor who conducts hypnotic regressions,
when spirits return to this world from the world after death, they are
drawn to a certain family in a certain town. The spirit goes to the pregnant
woman in that house who is to be his mother in his next incarnation, and
takes a look at the fetus before the spirit enters the body of the fetus.
[98]
The spirit may enter the fetus at around three months after conception,
when the pregnancy is stable and the likelihood of a safe birth is higher.
Dr. S. relates that one of his subjects remembers standing undecided in
front of a stomach containing a seven-month fetus, and of being very unsure
whether or not to enter the fetus. The subject did not enter that fetus.
When Dr. S. asked him why, he replied, "I didn't enter the fetus because
I knew that the baby would be born dead."
There is a very interesting case of a young Japanese woman who competed
and won in a triathlon.
When Dr. S. induced hypnotic regression, she remembered a life in the United
States in the early nineteenth century. In that lifetime, she had been
sickly and unable to get any exercise. She spent her life in the shade
of a tree reading, and died in her early twenties. She died whispering
that she wanted a robust, healthy body.
Afterwards, when it came time for her rebirth, she decided to search for
a fetus with a healthy body. When she found a fetus that seemed likely
to live a healthy, energetic life, she entered and nestled in its mother's
stomach. Twenty or so years later, she competed and won in a triathlon,
an athletic event often called the most demanding.
In this way, we seek to enjoy in our next lives those pleasures which were
denied to us in our previous lives. We are the ones who design our lives,
and we are completely free to choose what we want. (Of course the guiding
spirits give us a lot of advice which we don't always want to hear.)
(4) WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYTHING
The memories that the subjects had during hypnotic regression of the "life
between life" were identical emphatic on one basic point. They all
said, "We are the ones responsible for the kind of person we are and
for the circumstances in which we live. We are the ones who made the choices.
Dr. Whitton has the following to say about this mysterious process.
The most important conclusion to be drawn from the idea of karma is that
chance has played no part in arranging the circumstances in which we find
ourselves. On Earth, we are the personification of choices that have been
made in the bardo.
HOW THE PROCESS OF REINCARNATION WORKS
page 68. CHAPTER 2.
Our discarnate decision making has assigned us to our situation in life
and, through subconscious inclination, continues to bring forth the bouquets
and brickbats of destiny.
To be convinced of the truth of the law of karma is to endorse the state
of affairs in which one has placed oneself, no matter how difficult it
might be. The individual seeks out challenges and ordeals, knowing that
they contain the greatest opportunities for learning and growth. [99]
Interestingly, Dr. Weiss received the same message as Dr. Whitton through
the guiding spirits who borrowed the mouths of his subjects during hypnotic
regressions.
You must learn to overcome greed. If you do not, when you return you will
have to carry that trait, as well as another one, into your next life.
The burdens will become greater. With each life that you go through and
you did not fulfill these debts, the next one will be harder. If you fulfill
them, you will be given an easy life. So you choose what life you will
have.[100]
When, through hypnotic regressions, subjects glimpse this process of choosing
the next life, they become aware of the heavy responsibility that they
bear. Rather than feeling fear at their heavy responsibility when they
learn of this wonderful process of spiritual development, subjects feel
a deep sense of gratitude for the immutable laws of the Universe which
transcend human knowledge.
One subject of Dr. Whitton's remembered a lifetime 800 years ago, and expressed
his gratitude after his hypnotic regression was completed.
I have been allowed, he said, speaking of his visits to the interlife,
"the barest glimpse of levels of creation that are far above anything
I can even begin to put into words. I was made to feel that everything
that we do has meaning at the highest level.
Our sufferings are not random; they are merely part of an eternal plan
more complex and awe-inspiring than we are capable of imagining."[101]
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COMMUNICATION WITH THE DEAD
Since I know that all of you want to have more proof of the existence of
ghostly spirits, in this chapter, I am going to relate some stories that
will amaze and astonish you while filling you with an overwhelming happiness.
A guardian spirit once spoke to Dr. Brian L. Weiss, through the mouth of
his subject, and told him what conditions enable these spirits to appear
on earth.
It is on this plane that some souls are allowed to manifest themselves
to the people who are still in physical form. They are allowed to come
back......only if they have left some agreement unfulfilled...There are
many ways to do this. Some are allowed the power of sight and can show
themselves to the people still in physical form. Others have the power
of movement and are allowed to telepathically move objects...If you have
left an agreement that has not been fulfilled, you may choose to go here
and communicate in some way. [102]
Were the words of the Guiding Spirit true?
Of course, a Guardian Spirit would not lie. I am not talking about ghost
stories here, when I discuss communication between the living people and
the dead. Is it possible for us to put this data in a form that anyone
can analyze objectively?
Here I would like to present two types of information that will address those questions.
3.1 REUNION WITH THE DEAD
In 1994 Dr. Raymond Moody, a leading researcher of near-death experiences,
published the results of five years of research. Dr. Moody proved scientifically
in the laboratory that it was possible for the living and the dead to communicate
using a certain method, which will be described below. Dr. Moody writes:
"By using the techniques described here, a considerable number of
you will actually be able to experience visionary reunions with loved ones
who are lost to death... (The procedure) enables subjects to have their
own first-hand encounters with apparitions and to make their own assessments
of the reality of the experience."[103]
COMMUNICATION WITH THE DEAD
page 70. CHAPTER 3.
Dr. Moody used over three-hundred people in his experiments, people who
were stable and reliable, including doctors such as counselors and psychologists
and graduate students. In the first round, over half of his subjects succeeded
in meeting the spirits of their departed loved ones, in reunions which
lasted anywhere from several minutes to a half hour or more. By the time
he conducted his fourth round, almost all of his subjects had been able
to verify with their own eyes and ears that the dead can appear to us.
[104]
His subjects were all psychologically normal, were able and intelligent
enough to evaluate their experience objectively and had no reason to tell
a lie about meeting their deceased loved ones.
Dr. Moody's method has no relationship to "seances or spirit mediums,"
people with the special ability to speak with the dead, who, like the medium
Itako of Osorezan, allow others to borrow their powers. It is possible
for the most ordinary people to use Dr. Moody's method, and special powers
are not at all necessary. There is absolutely no need for religious rites
or paraphernalia, nor for dances or candles or mysterious music.
Dr. Moody's method is very simple and practical.
Dr. Moody apparently first heard of this method of "communicating
with the dead" from a subject who had a near-death experience and
was taught the method by the "Guiding Spirits" or "Beings
of Light" who appeared to this subject during the neardeath experience,
but he felt no desire to try it out. However, Dr. Moody was reading a book
from ancient Greece and came upon a description of the "oracle's place"
and realized that it was identical to what his NDE subject had described.
This motivated Dr. Moody to experiment with the method. He recreated the
method used in ancient Greece, just modernizing the facility that he used
for his testing.
That method is termed the apparition booth method.
(1) EXPERIMENTS USING THE APPARITION BOOTH
First one must prepare a small room, in a place with a quiet environment.
Outside light must not be able to enter the room, in order that the room
can be made perfectly dark.
"At one end of the room a mirror four feet tall and three and a half
feet wide was mounted on the wall. The bottom edge of the mirror was three
feet above the floor.
"A comfortable easy chair was prepared by removing its legs so that
the top of the headrest was about three feet above the floor. The chair
was placed about three feet from the mirror and inclined slightly backward.
This was done for comfort but also to keep the reflection of the gazer
from being seen in the mirror. In effect the angle of the chair created
a clear depth view of the mirror, which would reflect only the darkness
behind the person who was gazing...
"...directly behind the chair was placed a small stained-glass lamp
with a fifteen watt bulb.
"This simple room, with its dim light, darkened surroundings, and
the clear depth of the mirror provided the ideal mirror-gazing environment."[105]
This is how the simple experiment room is created.
Dr. Moody had his subjects go into this room alone, sit in the easy chair and stare
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deeply into the blackness of the mirror. After sitting quietly for anywhere
from a few minutes to a half hour or more, some subjects would suddenly
see the figure of the departed loved one in the mirror; some would see
the figure of the deceased jump out from the mirror, and some would see
the deceased appear to them outside the mirror.
Sometimes the spirits of the dead imparted information that the subjects
had not known or which the subject could not possibly have known, and the
accuracy of the information could be verified afterwards. It was also discovered
that the spirit of the deceased person who appeared was not necessarily
the person that the subject had hoped to see; instead, sometimes, it was
the spirit of the departed who most wanted to visit the subject.
Naturally the subjects were never visited by those who were still alive
or by those who had died and were living now in a new reincarnation, even
if the subjects strongly wished for such a visit. Instead, a substitute
spirit would appear and explain that the desired visitor was unable to
come. These things proved that the subject's meeting with the dead was
not caused by mental illusion or delusion, nor was it a just a projection
of the subject's strong desire to meet a loved one again.
The subjects all said basically the same things. "It was my mother
just as she looked when she was alive." "He was very clear and
there was only about two feet between us." "The spirit had a
strong physical presence and was not at all transparent; the spirit moved
around and was solid." "It was not a dream. I was completely
wide-awake, and it lasted for quite a while." "I would not have
believed it if I hadn't experienced it. I am convinced that it was real.
My dead aunts were right there in front of me."
What the guiding spirit told Dr. Weiss through the mouth of his subject
is true: spirits without a physical form can appear to the living in the
form they had before death, and can hold conversations.
(2) CONVERSATIONS WITH DEAD RELATIVES
Dad Asked What She Wanted
Let me now give several examples of typical encounters with the dead.
A woman in her late forties related the following story. She said that
going into the apparition booth made her a little bit scared initially.
"(My father) just came up suddenly and I was looking right into his
face. He talked to me, and he was funny like he always was. He asked me,
'Why in the world are you trying to talk to me, girl?...
"...He looked to be about three feet away , but then he got closer.
I wasn't seeing him in the mirror; I was seeing him right up on me.
"We had some very personal conversations in there, about my mother
mainly, but other family matters as well...
"...I just saw his head and chest and upper abdomen area. It was not
his whole form, but this was just as clear as looking at you...
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"...He seemed a little bit amused, like he thought I was being impatient
by wanting to talk to him now rather than waiting until I died and passed
over...
"...I talked to him a long time, maybe thirty minutes. But it went so fast.
"The last thing he said to me was, 'Now you go on and enjoy your life.'"[106]
Dr. Moody's Experience
Dr. Moody himself went into the apparition booth and became a subject.
Dr. Moody's account of that surprising experience is below.
As he sat in the chair, Dr. Moody was strongly hoping to meet his grandmother
on his mother's side. He relates that his experience is impossible to explain
in writing, and that it is also impossible to explain it in words.
"I was sitting in a room alone when a woman simply walked in. As soon
as I saw her, I had a certain sense that she was familiar, but the event
happened so quickly that it took me a few moments to gather myself together
and greet her politely. Within what must have been less than a minute,
I realized this person was my paternal grandmother, who had died some years
before. (Note: remember, it had been his maternal grandmother whom Dr.
Moody longed to see.)
"I remember throwing my hands up toward my face and exclaiming, 'Grandma!'
In a very kind and loving way, she acknowledged who she was and addressed
me with the nickname that only she had used for me when I was a child...
"...The reason I had not recognized her at first was that she appeared
much younger than she was when she died...
"...I want to emphasize how completely natural this meeting was. As
with the other subjects who had experienced an apparitional facilitation,
my meeting was in no way eerie or bizarre. In fact this was the most normal
and satisfying interaction I have ever had with her...
"...We discussed old times, specific incidents from my childhood.
Throughout she reminded me of several events that I had forgotten. Also
she revealed something very personal about my family situation...
"...I say "heard" in an almost literal sense. I did hear
her voice clearly...Others who'd had this experience before me described
it a telepathic or "mind to mind" communication...
"...In no way did she appear "ghostly" or transparent during
our reunion. she seemed completely solid in every respect. She appeared
no different from any other person except that she was surrounded by what
appeared to be a light or an indentation in space, as if she were somehow
set off or recessed from the rest of her physical surroundings.
"For some reason, though, she would not let me touch her. Two or three
times I reached to give her a hug, and each time she put her hands up and
motioned me back.
She was so insistent about not being touched that I didn't pursue it.
"I have no idea how long this meeting lasted in clock time... In terms
of thoughts and feelings that passed between us, it seemed like a couple
of hours, but I have a feeling that it was probably less than that in what
we consider to be "real" time.
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We acknowledged that we would be seeing each other again, and I simply walked
out of the room." [107]
This is Dr. Moody's own account. Even though Dr. Moody strongly wished
to meet his grandmother on his mother's side, the departed soul that he
actually met was his grandmother on his father's side. That was because
his grandmother had information that she strongly wanted to divulge to
Dr. Moody.
There are many cases when a departed soul other than the one desired appears
to the subject or when the spirit wants to share information with the subject.
This goes to show that the spirit who appears is really the spirit of a
dead person and is not just a projection of "what the subject wants
to see." In other words, this is not just a trick that the mind plays.
Encouragement From A Deceased Husband's Spirit
You do not always meet the spirits you wish to see. But please feel easy,
for in most cases you do get your wishes.
A woman whose husband had died of a heart attack relates her experience as follows.
"Instantly I felt (my husband's) presence. I didn't see him, but I
knew he was standing right next to me. Then I heard him speak. He told
me, 'Go ahead, you are living the right way and you are raising the kids
the right way.
"Then we began to see things in the crystal from our life together.
We re-experienced them. For instance, I could see us in the delivery room
when he was there with me for the birth of one of our children. I had been
so glad to have him there when that happened, and it was as though we were
living it over again. I saw many other things we had done together, and
I was as happy looking at them now as I had been with him...
"...He felt sorry for me that my life was so hard. But he said it
was what I had to do now and that I shouldn't really take life so hard.
"I was so glad. I wanted to hold him, but I knew that was impossible.
Still it was wonderful to know that he is with us when we need him."[108]
A Very Good Marriage Partner
Let us hear the testimony of a surgeon, who expresses a cool, intelligent,
objective view of this apparition booth experience. This surgeon participated
in the experience because he wanted to meet his mother who had died over
twenty years before.
"I went into the booth a little bit apprehensive, not particularly
sure that this was going to work for me. I sat there for a long time, trying
to disengage my mind and get into the appropriate state. Finally I got
so relaxed that I think I started to doze off.
"At this point, as I gazed into the mirror, a sort of filmy, smoky
substance came across the glass. Then out of this mist there was a figure
forming and sitting on a sofa of some sort.
"At first I just saw the outline of the form and didn't see any details.
Then, further on, maybe a minute later, the form started to show some features...
I said, "that's my mother."
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"'How are you?" I asked.
"Her lips didn't move, but I got a mental communication from her in
which she said, 'I'm fine and I love you.'
"I asked her another question: "Was there any pain when you died?"
"'None at all,' I could hear her say. 'The transition to death was easy..."
"...I asked her more questions, just by thinking them. 'What do you
think of the woman I plan to marry?' I asked.
"'It will be a very good choice," she answered. "You should
continue to work hard at the relationship and not be your old self. Try
to be more understanding.'
"This lasted for maybe ten questions, and then she faded away and
I couldn't talk to her anymore. I tried hard to bring her back, but there
was so much emotion there that I couldn't do it. By the time it was over,
I was extremely moved."[109]
After over three hundred subjects insisted that their experiences were
real and not imagined, Dr. Moody named his experiment room "the theater
of the mind."
It is very interesting to note that this method, which is the same as the
one used in ancient Greece, uses a mirror. Of course, there is no magic
power in a mirror. Gazing into a mirror facilitates a state of altered
consciousness and self-hypnosis. In Japanese shrines, for example, the
objects of worship can be mirrors, and many shrines have mirrors in their
innermost areas. Since ancient times, mirrors have been treated as holy
and important objects, somehow related to the gods.
Is this similarity merely a coincidence? It may very well be that people
in ancient days discovered through experience that when they meditated
in front of a mirror they could communicate with invisible entities. We
could conjecture that this is the reason that mirrors are revered as holy
objects.
Thinking along the lines may make us change our traditional interpretation
of old fairy tales and folk tales where mirrors are used to communicate
with invisible entities or entities in another dimension, as, for example,
the bad witch in Snow White who gazes into a mirror, saying "Mirror,
mirror on the wall," and expects it to answer her questions.
3.2 MESSAGES FROM THE DEAD
(1) THE MIRACLE OF READINGS
George Anderson is one of the few people recognized by scientists as having
unusual talents at communicating with the spirits.
He himself hates to be called a "medium," and instead prefers
to be called a "counselor for the bereaved." He hates to be called
a medium because he himself is unable to explain how he can talk to the
dead, and because he sees no value in the talent itself.
He sees value only in the ability that the talent gives him to help assuage
the grief of the bereaved.[110]
George was born in the U.S. in 1952. He developed the ability to sense
the existence of "spirits" and "souls" after contracting
a serious case of chicken pox and encephalomyelitis at age six.
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Thereafter, people often treated him as if he were crazy, and he was almost
put in a mental hospital. However, a professor of physics proved George's
abilities by testing him during a live broadcast. After that, George could
proudly and openly create a following as "a counselor for the bereaved."[111]
Dr. John Gschwendtner, a professor of physics at Columbia University, received
a "reading" from George at a radio studio. A "reading"
means a psychic reading, not just a seance with a spirit, but a reading
or understanding of the memories in the other person's mind. The person
doing a reading senses the existence of some Presence beyond the senses
of the normal person, and is able to convey messages from that Presence
to the person receiving the reading.
During the live broadcast, George was able to make correct, concrete conjectures
about Dr. Gschwendtner's deceased parents and to describe the fluctuations
of Dr. Gschwendtner's eventful life. This information was not the type
that George could have researched beforehand; Dr. Gschwendtner attested
that he had spoken to no one about these matters since he had immigrated
to the U.S.
George would not permit his clients, those receiving his readings, to offer
him any information. George conducted his readings by having the subjects
answer either 'yes' or 'no' to the messages that the spirits conveyed to
him. This format proves that the reading was "truly a conversation
with the spirit of the deceased," since George was able to speak of
information known only by the dead person and the subject, under the condition
that the subject did not give information from the spirits to George.[112]
George was able to conduct his readings while carrying on entirely ordinary
conversations with the subjects. He used absolutely none of the props that
have been long associated with our image of "mediums," props
such as candlelight, crystals, dimmed lights, occult music and garments.
The subjects did not enter a trance state where they lost consciousness
or danced around, and they did not even need to sleep or to close their
eyes. If someone has a strong power to talk to the spirits, those props
and altered states are unnecessary.
(2) CONVERSATION WITH A DEAD SON
I would now like to introduce some excerpts from actual readings that George
performed while he was in Japan with Japanese subjects, which have been
reported by Mr. Hiroshi Itokawa, who was the interpreter at that time.
Mr. Itokawa, who was both interpreter and recorder, reported as a bystander
in a dispassionate and objective fashion. He makes no attempts to prove
George's authenticity or to make the reader believe.
The following is an excerpt from a reading with a man in his forties.
"Your son died. He was just a little boy, wasn't he."
"Yes."
"Was he younger than ten?"
"Yes."
"Was he younger than seven?"
"Yes."
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The boy had died just before entering elementary school.
"Was he a cheerful child?"
"Yes, he was. He was very cheerful."
"He still is cheerful. Please stop saying, 'He was cheerful,' and say, 'He is cheerful."
He's a happy boy. He's jumping up and down and is so happy."
"That's definitely my boy."
The man then turned to the interpreter, Mr. Itokawa and explained in Japanese.
"Whenever anything happened that made my son happy, he had a habit
of jumping up and down."
George was silent for a while, and then spoke.
"Did you have dreams of your son?"
"Yes!"
"Your son can see that you are grieving from the world beyond. He
says that he appeared in your dreams to let you know that he is always
with you, even though he no longer has a physical body. "
"So that's why!"
"Did he die tragically?"
"Yes."
"An accident?"
"Yes."
"Did he fall from a high place."
"No."
"How strange...please wait a minute. Did his chest hurt? Was there
no air his lungs?"
"Yes. Yes"
"Falling down softly..the air empties from his lungs...in the water... Did he drown?"
"Yes he did!"
"He says that he did not drown in the ocean or in a river. He says
that he was surrounded by a man-made enclosure holding water."
"Yes."
"Did he drown in a pool?"
"No, he drowned in the bathtub!"
"Oh, he drowned in the bathtub. That's a man-made enclosure holding water."
"Yes."
"Considering the nature of his death, you must imagine that he suffered,
but he says that he didn't suffer.
"Please tell my son that Daddy loves him."
"He already knows that. You don't need to tell him."
"...."
"Was your wife home when he had the accident?"
"Yes." "I'm asking because your son says, "Please tell
Mom not to blame herself. He goes on to say that she should not think it
was her fault because she wasn't careful enough or because she didn't check
the bathroom." "..."
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"Your son says that it was no one's fault, that it happened so fast
that even someone right there couldn't have saved him. He says that it
was very sad, but it was his time to die."
"...Well, I don't agree. It was absolutely due to human error."
"Your son says, "Please don't blame Mommy." Could it be
that you are blaming your wife for what happened?"
"Of course. My wife was at home when it happened, and she knew that
he was in the bath. She certainly should have noticed that he was late
coming out of the bath."
"That must be what your son is talking about. He is saying, "You
mustn't blame Mommy. It wasn't Mommy's fault at all."
"Well, that's not the way I see it."
"Your son says, "Why are you blaming Mommy? My mother is suffering
a lot because I died, and when you blame her, it makes her feel even worse.
Stop blaming her. Get rid of your anger."
"...." "He's saying something that sounds like "yami"
or "momi." Is it someone's name?"
"It's my daughter's name."
"Is her name 'Tomomi'?"
"Yes! It is!"
"Did your son call your daughter 'Momi'?"
"What! Yes, that's right. My son used to address her as 'Momi." Yes."
"Your son is calling to her, saying 'Momi.' He says he wants you to
be nicer to Tomomi."
"A daughter cannot take my son's place.."
"Your son says, 'Daddy, what are you saying? Tomomi is not to blame
for anything. It's not Tomomi's fault that she's not me. It's very wrong
for you to ignore Tomomi because I died."
"...."
"Your son is every bit as stubborn as you are! He is not backing down
at all on his demands."
"...."
"He says, 'Promise me that you'll make up with Mommy and my sister.
Promise me!'
Well, please answer him."
After a long silence, the man choked out the words, "All right, I will do my best."
"Who is 'Naoki'?"
"Naoki is my son's playmate and rival!"
"Oh, it's his friend. Your son is calling him.
"Yes."
"You haven't been getting enough sleep, have you?"
"You're right."
"Your son says, "Daddy, please be at peace. You'll meet me again
when you come here."
Suddenly, the man began speaking loudly.
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"When? When can I go there? I want to go right now! When can I see you?
When?"
"No. No. No. Your son says, "You must not think that way."
You have a duty to fulfill in this world. Until you finish it, you have
to live positively. Have you lost the will to live?"
"Yes. Nothing has any meaning, neither work nor life."
"Your son says, 'Daddy, you'd do anything for me, wouldn't you?"
"Of course I would."
"He says, 'Then there are some things that I want you to do for me.
First, I want you to forgive mother.I've told you again and again that
it wasn't her fault, didn't I? Second, I want you to be nice to Tomomi.
Third, I want you to live as fully as you can. You know now that you'll
meet me again, so set your mind at ease and do your job on earth. Daddy,
there is a special purpose in life for you to accomplish, and there are
special lessons in this life for you to learn. O.K? Do you promise?"
"Do I have to forgive my wife?"
"He says, "Yes, you do. It will be very hard, but once you do,
your heart will be at peace. If you don't overcome your feelings, then
you will always be stuck in the same place, and will be unable to escape."
"I understand. I'll do my best.."
"Your son is surrounding you with love. He also asks you to think seriously about what he said before. Rid yourself of your stubbornness and your anger, forgive your wife and treat your daughter kindly.
He says, 'You have to tell Daddy something a hundred times before he gets
it, but I love Daddy anyway.' Good-bye until we meet again."[113]
(3) ENCOURAGEMENT FROM THE SPIRIT OF AN ABORTED FETUS
Sometimes the spirits of miscarried, aborted or stillborn children appear
during George's readings. It can be definitely stated that not even one
hates his or her parents, and that they all have a compassionate understanding.[114]
"Did your son die?"
"No."
"Did you have a miscarriage?"
"Yes, I had a miscarriage."
"Had the child been born, it would have been a boy."
"...I see."
"Did you lose a daughter?"
"No."
"Hmm... I feel the presence of a girl and of two boys."
There is no reply.
"One was miscarried; one was stillborn, and the girl was aborted."
"... Yes. I didn't know the sexes, but that may be true."
The woman's face twisted. Her abortion had left emotional scars."
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"The spirit who was to have been your daughter understands completely.
She says, "Mommy really had no choice at that time. The timing was
just too bad. I know why she couldn't give birth to me. I also know that
she didn't hurt me on purpose. I'm safe, and I'm watching over daddy here,
so don't worry."
"Thank you."
Tears of relief ran down her cheeks.
George makes the following statements about abortion.
"It's nonsense to speak of 'the revengeful spirits of unborn babies."I've
conducted thousands and thousands of readings and have never sensed the
spirit of a revengeful aborted child. The bigger problem is the feelings
of guilt that the mother has for having an abortion."
(4) I'll MARRY YOU EVERY SINGLE TIME I AM REINCARNATED
One spirit appeared during a reading and spoke about reincarnation.[115]
"You still think that if you had done something differently that your
husband wouldn't have died, don't you?" "Yes. I knew that my
husband had a bad heart, and so I was careful about food. But I tell myself
that I should have taken even more care or that I should have told him
to take a holiday because he was wearing himself out with overwork."
"Your husband says, 'Hey, that's history. What point is there in thinking
like that. The dead are dead."
"Well, it is true that he lived a long life even though he was sick."
"You were very special to your husband. Your husband says, "I'll
marry you again every time I am reincarnated.' It seems this wasn't the
first time that you and he were married. You were married in any number
of past lives."
George speaks as follows regarding the "messages from the spirits"
that he has received in his thousands of readings.
I am sure that reincarnation exists. However, bad people are not reincarnated
as bugs or cows. Humans are reborn as humans over and over. Each time they
are reincarnated, their sex, race, religion and culture seems to change.
The spirit advances spiritually through accumulating various experiences
on earth in the course of many reincarnations. It's like school. The world
is a place to confirm that one has advanced and to prove it.
In the next world, there is no pain and no strife. However, the trade
off for ease is that advancement is slow. It's possible to advance and
grow much larger, much faster and much more effectively in this world by
being exposed to negativism and wickedness, by suffering, through tests
and by experiencing the dangers of human relationships.[116]
(5) A DEAD WIFE APOLOGIZES
Let me tell you about another reading that brings a valuable message for
those of us living on this earth. This is an excerpt from the case of a
man whose wife had just died of cancer.
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"She was a very energetic woman, wasn't she?"
"Yes."
"She was frustrated and irritable because her illness forced her to
be inactive. She acted very patient, overcoming her short-tempered nature
through force of will. However, fighting the illness took so much out of
her that she was unable to suppress her temper. She is apologizing to you,
'At the end, I was very unreasonable. I was furious that I had to die from
cancer, just when I was so happily married."'
Hearing these words, the man who had been fighting to hide his tears and
act cheerful, began to cry. Later he related that he had been remembering
one of his wife's last days during her hospitalization. He had bought her
a cassette deck with a CD player, as she had requested, and she berated
him, shouting that it wasn't the one she had wanted.
Never having seen her like this before, he was forced to the sad realization
of just how far the illness had progressed and of how much she must be
suffering.
"Here is what your wife says, 'I had a hard life until I met you.
I was so happy after we met, that I could not bear being parted by death.
I was furious just after I died. I knew that there was a life after death,
but I was miserable at being physically parted from you and from our daughter.
But I have overcome those feelings now. I am watching over you and our
daughter from the next world."'
"Yes."
"You are not the only one who's unhappy. I am always with you. You
are not alone. Don't feel sorry for yourself and wonder why it happened
to you."
"Yes."
'"I'm sure that you will never stop grieving over my death, but you
have your own life to live. Use this reading as the point from which you
begin a new life. I know that you don't want to live anymore, but please
rise above those emotions. I will always treasure the precious time that
I spent with you,' she says."
"Yes."
"Is your wedding anniversary coming up?"
"Yes."
"She is holding out pink roses to you. She says, 'I will be with you
even more closely on that day.'"
"Yes."
"Compared with your wife, you were the more devout? "
"Yes. That's right."
"Her family did not value spirituality nor spirits. Her father was
very strict with her. Her father was loath to make the effort to try to
understand her. There was a lack of communication between father and daughter.
But now, she is with her father in the next world, and they understand
each other very well."
"Really? Is that so?"
"Did you inscribe her name at the Shinto Shrine?"
"Yes."
"I see a votive picture. Did you write a prayer for her to rest in peace?"
"Yes."
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"Your good wishes have definitely reached her. She is wrapping you in light."
"Yes."
"There is no consciousness of time in the next world, so she says,
'I will wait forever for you and our daughter to come.'"
"Yes."
"Did you go to her grave to speak to her?"
"Yes. I told her about things our daughter said and about other things."
"She says, 'I am always with you, so I know what is happening even
if you don't tell me. But thank you anyway. I am not in the grave, but
I know when you come there.
I am always there next to you when you come.'"[117]
(6) THE IMPORTANCE OF PRAYER
As we can see from these cases, George was convinced that everyone has
a spirit in the next world watching over them.[118]
According to George, even wicked people and criminals have guardian spirits,
although they are unaware of their guardian spirits.
When George performed a reading in the U.S. for the parents of a policeman
gunned down by a youth on the job, a spirit conveyed an apology to the
parents. The spirit said that he was both the guardian spirit and the grandfather
of the murderer. However, there are limitations to what a guardian spirit
can do. Ultimately it is up to the person living in this world to choose
his own actions, regardless of the advice given by the guardian spirits.
George says that during his readings the spirits virtually always thanked
the subjects for praying for their souls.[119]
He also believes that thinking of a deceased person has the same effect as praying, even if the thinker has no formal religion. It may be somewhat difficult to focus one's emotions, because one cannot see the deceased person; however, the prayer gets through.
George confirmed this during the course of thousands of readings. It is
enough to think with love of the object of the prayer, and to send that
love to the next world. The spirit receiving the prayer will be very happy.
The above readings cover only a small number of the actual cases handled
by George Anderson. I'm sure you can see that there are numerous valuable
messages for us all in the above examples.
Even if you yourself cannot receive a reading, you can somewhat assuage
your grief over losing a loved one by seeing what readings are like for
others. It should be clear form the examples that readings are not simple
"guess work." Anyone can see that the readings abound in heart-warming
information which will help many people.
In this chapter, I have used two perspectives to demonstrate that communication
is possible between the dead and the living. Every reader is free to choose
for himself how to interpret this information.
However, what I wish to stress in this chapter is that the value is not in the information itself but in the many lessons that we can learn from this information.
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The information becomes very valuable only after we put this information
into practice in our daily lives.
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THINKING SCIENTIFICALLY
ABOUT "LIFE AFTER DEATH"
How can we evaluate scientifically and academically the research on "life
after death" and "reincarnation" that has been discussed
previously in this book? How attractive are these topics for research topics?
This chapter will discuss these two questions.
4.1 THE PERSUASIVENESS OF THE "LIFE AFTER DEATH" HYPOTHESIS
(1) BETWEEN SCIENCE AND RELIGION
How can we scientifically and academically evaluate research on "life
after death" and "reincarnation?"
Professor Ikuro Anzai, a staff member of "Japan Skeptics," which
objectively studies paranormal phenomena, states the following.
The majesty of death does not change whether or not a dying person believes
in "life after death."
Science has no place in the personal value-based choice that individuals
make regarding whether to believe in a world after death or not. However,
science must make its position clear when "theories of life after
death" are presented in a "scientific format." How wonderful
it would be if rigorous research revealed that these theories are true,
thus turning modern present science on its head! This would be a chance
for science to leap forward. We would discard the entire system of modern
science, and reweave the fabric of knowledge to incorporate skillful explanations
about these newly discovered truths. Science has always advanced in this
fashion, so there would be no need to change the approach.[120]
Professor Anzai takes a firm position as a "skeptic," an admirable
position for a scientist, and does not "deny for the sake of denying"
these theories which defy the laws of physics that he presently believes.
After exhaustive efforts to explain near-death experiences using present theories, Professor Akekazu Takada , a world-famous physiologist at Hamamatsu Medical
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University, made the following conjectures about the present and future
relationship of science and religion.[121]
"It can be said that science, until now, has assumed the role of investigating
and explaining the non-scientific aspects of religion. Science has demythologized
religion and snatched away its persuasiveness.
In the future, near-death experiences will reverse this trend and lend
support to religious truths."
Now, I would like to look at how researchers into "life after death"
and "reincarnation" evaluate the results of their research.
(2) HISTORY REPEATS ITSELF
Professor Robert Kastenbaum of Arizona State University, writing from the
perspective of a clinical psychologist, has stated that even one memory
is enough; one hundred or one thousand is unnecessary.[122]
Suppose, for example, that we direct fifty people to "float in the
air," forty-nine fail, and only one succeeds in floating, about one
yard above the ground. Does the fact that forty-nine failed and only one
succeeded lead us to conclude that people cannot fly? Or do we argue that
floating only one yard off the ground does not constitute sufficient proof,
and therefore state people cannot float? This is the logic used by the
negativists.
The scientific method leads us to a different interpretation; we would
conclude that people can fly because one of our fifty subjects could fly,
even if it was only at a height of one yard. Our focus of interest should
shift to studying why some people can fly and others cannot, and trying
to discover the necessary conditions for flight. Professor Robert Kastenbaum
has pointed out some deniers just do not want to believe, and that is the
reason they claim that firm evidence is not enough. This is far different
from being uncertain whether or not to accept the proof. Arguing from an
advocates point of view, Professor Kastenbaum indicated that there is nothing
among the evidence that would deny the existence of life after death. Nonetheless,
some people claim that there are defects in the proof and refuse to accept
life after death. If we used the same reasoning regarding all science,
our textbooks on science would be very thin, he writes.[123-A]
Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, has written the following sarcastic comments
about the deniers who refuse to recognize scientific evidence.[123-B]
"Do you understand what I'm trying to say? If someone doesn't like
a certain truth, he will come up with a thousand arguments against it.
However, again, this is his problem. One shouldn't try to convince other
people. When they die, they will know it anyway." (page 14.)
In addition, Dr. Brian L. Weiss points out an example of the history of
scientific progress.
"Throughout history, humankind has been resistant to change and to
the acceptance of new ideas. Historical lore is replete with examples.
When Galileo discovered the moons of Jupiter, the astronomers of that time
refused to accept or even to look at these
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satellites because the existence of these moons conflicted with their accepted
beliefs. So it is now with psychiatrists and other therapists, who refuse
to examine and evaluate the considerable evidence being gathered about
survival after bodily death and about past-life memories. Their eyes stay
tightly shut."[124]
(3) THE HUMILITY OF A SCIENTIST
The psychiatrists and therapists that Dr. Weiss mentions are not the only
researchers whose minds are so closed that they refuse even to evaluate
the volume of proof; many physicists are similarly closed-minded. Given
the nature of their academic discipline, it may be inevitable that physicists
refute paranormal phenomena by claiming that these phenomena do not conform
to any of the natural laws now known, or that their minds are predetermined
to deny whatever they read, so that they call any proof "insufficient,"
no matter what it is.
However, Professor Kunitomo Sakurai of Kanagawa University, a world-respected
authority on high energy physics who once worked as NASA's chief scientist,
wrote in his book, "Space Has its Own Volition," that "we
only live once." Nevertheless, he also made the following statement:
The Natural laws and theories are no more that a sort of interpretation
of the phenomena that we experience. Current space theory is an artificial
attempt to explain in a logical fashion what has been measured and observed
to date. We cannot call it the one and only eternal truth. There is probably
not even one scientist who would categorically state that the "Big
Bang" space theory is the only true explanation, one that is changeless
for eternity.[125]
Furthermore, the results of research on "life after death" and
on "reincarnation," our topics in this book, do not contradict
the laws of evolution or the universal natural laws of physics, both considered
the most rational theories at present. In fact, if scientists in the fields
of physics and biology would just abandon their preconceived notions and
study the issue objectively, they would find the explanation for certain
phenomena that are impossible to explain with current laws of physics,
biology and genetics, they would be able to gain a new perspective and
new slant on these laws.
The same goes for other academic disciplines outside the realm of science.
Dr. Robert Almeter, a professor at Georgia State University, for example,
drew the following conclusions after conducting a wide-ranging analysis
of recent actual case histories.
In the past few decades, however, the scientific method has been applied
to testimony regarding reincarnation, apparitions of the dead, spirit possession,
out-of-body experiences, and communications from the dead. The results
of this examination are philosophically striking and constitute, I believe,
strong evidence for belief in some form of personal survival after death...My
conclusion is that the belief survives the onslaught of the strongest skeptical
arguments. It is more reasonable to believe in some form of life after
death than it is to believe in nothing after death.[126]
In Japan, Professor Masahiko Nakamura, a psychologist of the College of
Liberal Arts at Ehime University, takes an impartial view in the following
statement in his
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frank writings on near-death experiences.
People are free to follow their own beliefs and philosophies in deciding
whether or not to believe in reincarnation. However, my interest lies in
discovering whether or not reincarnation really occurs in the world of
science. To do so, it is necessary to accumulate massive amounts of data.
I refuse to deny the possibility of reincarnation until enough data is
collected to come to a conclusion.[127-A]
After analyzing all the research done to date on this topic, Professor
Nakamura concludes that reincarnation is possible, and boldly makes the
following confession.
Initially I began my readings of the literature, expecting to discover
and expose the legerdemain and trickery. However, the more I read, the
more impressed I became with the thoroughness of the research. I also was
astonished at how very difficult it is to prove the existence of something
so big that it transcends the limitations of time and space. Ultimately,
I, the biter, got bit.[127-B]
Many other scientists who research "reincarnation" or "life
after death" also describe how their initial skepticism turned to
belief, making them feel very humble as scientists. It has definitely not
been a smart strategy for a scientist to accept "reincarnation"
and "life after death," since the possibility is high that fellow
scientists would look askance and laugh if he reported his results at academic
conventions (Japan is still at this stage.) To tell the truth, I myself
have gained the reputation among some scientists of being a "scholar
of the occult."
However, with the exception of some scientists who take an unscientific
approach and deny for the sake of denying, most open-minded and fair skeptics
who abandon their preconceived notions and objectively examine the results
of the research will feel conflicting emotions. This is because these scientists
subjectively do not want to believe, but objectively have to acknowledge
the truth of the phenomena.
However, this book is not written to convert the deniers. This book reveals
the statements of serious scientists from around the world who, indifferent
to their own self-interest, confess that they have no choice but to accept
these phenomena, sometimes in words that are very moving for their bravery
and sense of mission.
4.2 THE SUPERIORITY OF "THEORIES ABOUT LIFE
AFTER DEATH"
Apart from the discussion of whether or not these theories are right or
wrong, on a different level, research on "life after death" and
"reincarnation" is inherently superior to theories denying them,
. Ordinarily, we do not pay much attention to this point; however, it is
absolutely vital to do so when we want to assert how a book of this nature
"results in the broadening of knowledge and enables the full play
of one's abilities."
In my discipline of management science, it is vital to pursue "a strategy
of absolute superiority" in order to defeat a rival company. "A
strategy of absolute superiority" is a scenario which leaves your
company victorious in the end, no matter how circumstances unfold.
Research on "life after death" and on "reincarnation" is absolutely superior to its
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ABOUT LIFE AFTER DEATH" page87.
deniers, from at least two perspectives.
(1) IT CAN NEVER BE PROVEN THAT "THERE IS NO LIFE AFTER DEATH"
In terms of methodology, we can take the topic, "there is life after
death," and offer a scientific proof of it based upon data collection
and supervised research. On the other hand, when we address the topic,
"there is no life after death," we find that it is, of course,
impossible to research and confirm the essence of something that does not
exist.
Consequently, deniers must examine each and every piece of proof offered
by supporters, and objectively and fairly show that "none of it can
be accepted as proof." The only method that deniers can use is scientific
inference, disproving all the evidence, and then eventually stating, "There
is no proof at present of the existence of life after death; thus we presume
that there is no life after death."
However, their inference must always be hedged with the words "at
present," even after all the evidence of life after death has been
disproved, since there is sufficient probability that definitive proof
will be forthcoming in the future. Therefore, conceptually, there are only
two ways to consider the topic of "life after death." The first
is to state, "While there is no definitive proof to convince me; I
have no way to disprove it" and the second way is to state, "I
have enough proof to convince me to accept it."
In other words, a supporter is able to hope that the future will be bright
if he just holds on now, no matter how bad the conditions, while a denier
does not have that bright future to hope for, and can only think, "Nothing
will change no matter how hard I fight, and I may just lose in the end.
(Of course, it is not really a question of winning or losing...)
(2) A DENIER WILL REALIZE HIS ERROR IF THERE IS CONSCIOUSNESS
AFTER DEATH, BUT AN AFFIRMER WILL NEVER REALIZE HIS MISTAKE IF THERE IS
NO CONSCIOUSNESS AFTER DEATH
The answer to whether there is "life after death" boils down
to the question of whether or not there is consciousness after death. Those
who affirm that there is some form of consciousness after death are logically
in a position of absolute superiority. Let us consider this issue in a
concrete manner.
If there is consciousness after death, then those who expected it can exclaim
in great satisfaction, "I was right after all!" In the unlikely
event that there is no consciousness after death, they will feel absolutely
no disappointment, since they are conscious of nothing. However, even if
nothing awaits after death, the individual would have died, full of dreams
and great hopes, believing that there would be life after death.
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On the other hand, the deniers are in a bad situation, no matter how events
unfold. Should the truth of their convictions is proved, they are unable
to savor their victory and say, "I was right. There is no consciousness
after death," because they have no consciousness.
However, if there is consciousness after death, they will be shocked at
the mistake that they have made, and they will have to reflect bitterly
upon the life of materialism that they lived. The spirits of advocates
who had previously died may criticize him severely, "You got it wrong.
See, there is consciousness after death." (Once we return to spirit
form we become very magnanimous, so the denier would not really be criticized.)
However, the denier dies thinking that we are no more than mere ashes and
dust after death. If his life had not been very fulfilling, he dies full
of regrets, lonely and despairing, because a denier thinks that death is
the end of everything and that there is nothing ahead but "oblivion."
Thinking along these lines, we see that the believer will be happy no matter
how the situation turns out, while the denier cannot win, no matter what
happens.
Upon reflection, the above argument should make it very clear who is strategically
in the position of absolute superiority in each scenario. It is much more
logical to believe in "life after death" and "reincarnation"
even if there is room for doubt, than to deny these phenomena because there
is room for doubt.
Every one is free to choose whether or not to believe. However, I personally
cannot understand why people would risk everything recklessly.
Sometimes people say, "I am a rational person and that's why I don't
believe in life after death." It is much more realistic to say, "I
am a rational person and that's why I do believe in life after death, and
apply those beliefs to my life." Why not boldly state the following:
"I am truly a rational person. That's why I believe in life after
death and want to reflect those beliefs in my life, so as to lead a fulfilling
life. I know which viewpoint holds meaningful values for me because I am
truly a rational person."
Leaving aside whether or not one can accept these phenomena based on logic,
there are many psychological advantages to incorporating these into one's
personal set of values.
In the next section, I would like to consider the significance of a wide
dissemination of the information about research results on "life after
death" and "reincarnation."
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MEANING OF LIFE, BASED ON
REINCARNATION
Separate from the debate as to whether or not "life after death"
and "reincarnation" are scientifically valid, the very fact that
research results exist regarding these topics performs a big social role.
In this section, I would like to examine from various perspectives the
multiple influences that this social role has upon all human beings.
5.1 THE VALUE OF BELIEF
(1) THE RATIONALITY OF CHOOSING THE "NON-SCIENTIFIC"
Professor Ikuro Anzai, a critical researcher of paranormal phenomena, suggested
that the hypothesis, "God Exists" is a scientific proposition
which should be studied in terms of the light it casts upon reality. He
wrote that a statement such as "Believing in God is wonderful,"
is a value proposition, and, therefore, it is everyone's right to believe
this proposition or not as they choose. It is not a matter to be criticized
by science, he stated, and then went on to give the following example.
It is very irritating and irrelevant to hear someone say "That was
an unscientific way to die, when they see a person die peacefully in the
belief that "A beautiful world is waiting for those who die,"
as Tetsuro Tanba wrote in his book Ooreikai (The World of the Great Spirits).
It is the right of each person to choose his own set of values, including
the choice to live a full and abundant life without worrying about whether
or not the "world after death" really exists.[128]
Quite aside from any scientific debate, Professor Anzai recognized how
effectively belief in life after death enables our lives to be enriched.
In similar fashion, the philosopher Dr. Gary Doore writes as follows.
"The principle that we should never believe anything without sufficient
evidence for its truth (which I will refer to as the Rationalistic Principle)
is extremely widespread
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among contemporary scientists and philosophers – a hallmark of the "tough-minded" attitude toward matters of belief on which scientific thinkers pride themselves. And no doubt it is a virtue for a scientist or scholar to refrain from being excessively credulous. But does the Rationalistic Principle apply to all kinds of beliefs? Should we always wait for sufficient evidence before we believe anything? It seems not."[129-A]
As an example of when the Rationalistic Principle is not effective, Dr.
Doore asks his readers to:
consider the belief that your spouse (lover) is being faithful to you. It appears clear that if you habitually refuse to hold this belief without "sufficient evidence" for its truth, your relationship is not going to last very long. In this case...to demand "sufficient evidence"– proof : "beyond reasonable doubt"– would lead to unnecessary tension, ill feelings an broken relationships; hence, it is better to settle for less evidence than would prove the issue by scientific standards. [129-B]
As this example shows, when people choose whether or not they ought to
believe in something, it is not always necessary to think about the evidence.
There are times when it is more appropriate to consider the effect that
believing something will have on oneself. Dr. Doore comes to the following
conclusion:
...even if the evidence for survival is inconclusive by scientific standards,
we are still acting rationally if we choose to believe in an afterlife
for the purpose of "testing" that belief in our lives, and are
also being reasonable to adhere to it with considerable determination,
even in the face of negative evidence or personal doubts, just as a scientist
is being reasonable when adhering to a favored theory while testing it
in the laboratory."[129-C]
Both Professor Anzai, who is skeptical about paranormal phenomena, and
Dr. Doore who views the "world after death" as a scientific truth
rather than a paranormal phenomena are in agreement on point. They agree
that, regardless of whether "life after death" and "reincarnation"
really exist, belief in these things has desirable psychological effects
upon the believers. Needless to say, that influence acts upon the believer's
view of life and upon his sense of the meaning of life.
(2) WHAT WE MEAN BY "A FEELING THAT LIFE IS MEANINGFUL"
How do experts define "a feeling that life is meaningful"? Professor
Tsukasa Kobayashi (a medical doctor) of Sophia University interprets "a
feeling that life is meaningful" as follows.
People feel that life is meaningful when they feel value and meaning in
their lives and when they feel needed. People feel needed when they become
aware of a sense of responsibility in their lives and know they have a
role in life that they and only they can carry out. The feeling that life
is meaningful is a feeling of fulfillment in living. It is the feeling
of enriching their lives through happiness, bravery and hopes, and advancing
themselves in life through changing emotions, events and experiences.[130]
Professor Yoshikazu Ueda (Ph.D. in Education defines the five conditions
necessary for a sense that life has purpose as follows.
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"Having hope for one's life"
"Being aware of one's role in life"
"Being supported by a clear sense of values."
"Not losing a sense of identity"
"Having a strong nature able to overcome adversity"[131]
These two experts stress that it is vital to know clearly who you are,
why you are living, and what you want to do in life, and also stress that
the answers to these questions should be self-generated, to the extent
possible. Looking at it from the opposite point of view, people feels no
meaning in life if they are uninterested in themselves, if they feel no
need to live and if they live each day blankly like animals with no sense
of purpose.
(3) SCIENTIFIC KNOWLEDGE AS "A SOURCE OF MEANING"
Is it true that knowledge of "life after death" and "reincarnation"
can give meaning to our lives and make us rethink the meaning of living?
Even if we can understand such ideas rationally, is it possible to actually
test them through evidence? I would like to introduce several examples
which address those questions.
Professor Bruce Greyson, a psychiatrist at the Medical Department of Connecticut
University, tested the proposition that attempted suicides who have a near-death
experience never attempt suicide again.[132]
If there is a "world after death," then it might make sense for
people despairing of life in this world to be eager to hurry into that
happy next world. This point is the one that must be most carefully considered
as knowledge about the research findings about "life after death"
and "reincarnation" becomes widely disseminated. As this book
generates interest and questions from the world, what has perplexed me
the most as a researcher has been this very issue.
The reason is because this research would have exactly the opposite result
from what is desired if there is an increase in casual suicides or if people
start thinking, "I'll be reincarnated many times anyway, so I don't
need to take care of this body because it doesn't matter if I die young."
There would be absolutely no value to this research if it clearly affects
people negatively, and I would then pull back completely from this topic.
However, the survey results are very positive, and indicate that a person
who attempts suicide and has a near-death experience never tries suicide
again. Professor Greyson points out that once people discover that death
is not the end of everything, then they believe that they were sent back
to this world for some specific purpose; they become more forgiving of
themselves, and realize that suicide is no escape from their problems.
Professor Greyson also has pointed out another meaning of research into
near death experiences. He states that carrying out such research gives
us fresh insights into how we can develop into people with higher levels
of consciousness. Professor Greyson states that research into near-death
experiences is important because of its relationship with life, not because
of its relationship with death.[132]
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Dr. Michael B. Sabom of the Cardiology Department of Emory University concludes
that survivors of near-death experiences share the following psychological
effects.
"When new attitudes regarding death and the "hereafter"
were integrated into the lives of individuals such as the man above, a
new fervor for day-to-day living was often apparent. For the terminally
ill or dying, the effect was usually to focus attention on living for the
"here and now" and away from a preoccupation with death and fear
of the unknown. The NDE did not, however cause these individuals to deny
the reality of approaching physical death or wish for its hastened arrival.
To the contrary, an intuitive acceptance of both life and death appeared
to emerge. This resulted in a renewed "will to live" instead
of an accelerated "will to die."[133]
In this regard, Paloutzian and Ellison carried out a psychological survey
comparing those who believed in something and those who believed in nothing
in terms of their feelings of isolation. They measured responses along
a spectrum of happiness at existence that ranged from those without feelings
of isolation, those who felt that their lives had a sense of purpose, to
those who did not know who they were, where they came from or where they
were going. In other words, if we think that our lives have some kind of
purpose, then we can live without feeling a sense of isolation. [134]
In addition, Comstock and Partridge did a survey that showed that believers
were not only happy but also enjoyed beneficial effects on their health.
Believers had a distinctly lower occurrence of cardiopulmonary disease,
of cirrhosis of the liver and of cancer. Believers limited alcohol and
cigarettes and did not engage in sexual excesses; believers had peace of
mind and thus were able to enjoy lower blood pressure.[135]
Naturally, to be a believer does not mean to believe in "life after
death" and "reincarnation." To be a believer generally means
to believe in a specific religious god, a religious leader or a religious
doctrine, and there is no necessity for it to be substantiated by scientific
knowledge.
However, one gets the same effect from "believing in" life after
death and reincarnation, as one does from accepting these hypothesis from
a scientific perspective. By believing or accepting these, one gets a clear
answer to the questions of who you are, why you are living and what you
are supposed to do in life. One can find the answers to those questions
for oneself.
However, it is untrue to say that one has to believe in life after death
and reincarnation or else it is impossible to answer to these questions
and find the meaning of life. I want to stress this point because, in order
to understand this book's stance, it is very important that this be clearly
understood. Very strong people can act upon the belief that we only live
once, and therefore we should make our lives meaningful by loving others.
Such people do not need this book and cannot understand why some people
should be so concerned about life after death.
However, knowledge about "life after death" and about "reincarnation"
can be a source of great strength for those who do not think the answer
is so clear cut, for those who need some kind of motivation, and for those
who have lost their reason to live. Dr. Whitton has the following to say
about the impact these beliefs have in increasing people's sense that life
is meaningful.
5.1. THE VALUE OF BELIEF page 93.
Most importantly, knowledge of the interlife intensifies personal responsibility.
If we accept that the Earth plane is where between-life intentions are
put to the test, daily life becomes charged with new meaning and purpose.
And no matter how difficult earthly circumstances may be, a loving source
awaits to engulf every human being in beauty and grandeur at the close
of each brief existence. The bardo is where we belong, planet Earth being
no more than a very necessary testing ground conducive to spiritual evolution...The
study of metaconsciousness...compels us to understand why we are here and
what we must do.[136]
His words straightforwardly express the real meaning of research on the
workings of reincarnation and life after death. Everything in life has
a reason. Each person's life is full of the issues that the person has
set for himself. The people around us, whether they be our loved ones or
our enemies are all there for a reason, and exist to help us grow. When
we understand these things, our view of life changes completely.
These truths cannot be discovered through any kind of superficial counseling.
When we discover them, the very foundation of our values is shaken and
changed completely.
(4) FUNDAMENTAL CHANGES IN OUR SET OF VALUES
I have received hundreds of letters from people who have read my article,
"The Dawn of 'Meaning" and say that the very foundation of their
beliefs was changed.
For example, I received the following letter from a corporate executive director.
I read "The Dawn of 'Meaning."' It shook my entire view of life.
At my company I always thought that motivating my employees was a matter
of technique, but (your article) has made me ask fundamental questions
about that approach.
As this executive director's letter indicates, our beliefs about God and
about life and death lie at the very root of our set of values. Human value
systems are in many layers, ranging outward from the core beliefs to the
superficial issues. Therefore, if the core values are shaken, then all
the layers of values lying above the core are shaken as well.
Rather than wasting money on superficial techniques aimed at making the
employees enthusiastic about their work, it is far more effective to make
them ask key questions such as, "What am I living for? Why am I part
of this company? Why am I doing this work?" This is because most employees
have lost the feeling that their work is meaningful. If the batteries are
dead, flipping the switch won't do any good.
Dr. Melvin Morse has come to the following conclusions about the effect
of changes in core values, based upon his extensive research into near-death
experiences.
"These experiences teach us that what we do is important and that
all of life is interconnected...The one inescapable conclusion of near-death
research is that there is a divine "something" which serves as
a glue for the universe. A nuclear physicist might try to describe that
glue as an electro-magnetic equation; a religious philosopher might call
it God."[137]
Dr. Michael B. Sabon quotes the words of Einstein as he tells how he feels
as a researcher.
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My personal reaction to these events is not so much a 'scientifically weighted'
response as it is a keenly felt identification with the tears of joy and
sorrow that have accompanied the unfolding of many of these stories. In
short, my involvement in the lives and deaths of the people in this book
has made me humble to the ways of the universe, much like Albert Einstein,
who once wrote:
'Everyone who is seriously involved in the pursuit of science becomes convinced
that a Spirit is manifest in the Laws of the Universe – a Spirit vastly
superior to that of man, and one in the face of which we, with our modest
powers, must feel humble.'"[138]
What is the connection between the "God" of whom Einstein was
convinced, the "Divine something" that Dr. Morse felt, the "Spirits"
that Dr. Whitton and Dr. Weiss identify as "the Guiding Spirits,"
and the "Beings of Light" that many survivors of near-death experiences
report? And what are the connections with what are called in various religions
"gods," "angels," buddhas," "bodhisattvas
and so on? I expect that those who have read this book up to here will
be able to venture a guess.
At any rate, there is no doubt that "something" exists which
far surpasses human imagination, and to whom we must be profoundly grateful.
5.2 A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING"
How can we incorporate into our daily lives and into our long lifetimes
the scientific knowledge about "life after death" and "reincarnation"
that we have studied in this book?
In this section, I would like to examine from various perspectives the
"impact of increasing our sense that there is a reason for living."
(1) FOR THOSE WHO HAVE LOST A CLOSE RELATIVE
Love From Wife and Children
Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, who has helped many people recover from their
grief through her research in near-death experiences, reports the following
case. A man living in Santa Barbara was eagerly waiting for his family
to pick him up. However, his entire family was killed in an auto accident
on the way to get him. The man fell into a state of total shock and numbness.
He was overcome with grief to realize that he had been married with children,
and now was suddenly alone. He lost all interest in living, and became
"a total bum," drinking day and night. He tried to commit suicide
repeatedly, but was unsuccessful.
After living this way for over two years, one night he was lying in the
road near the edge of a forest, when he was hit by a passing truck.
It was at this moment that he watched himself in the street, critically
injured, while he observed the whole scene of the accident from a few feet
above. It was at this moment that his family appeared in front of him,
in a glow of light with an incredible sense of love. They had happy smiles
on their faces..He was so awed by his family's health, their beauty, their
radiance, and their total acceptance of this present situation, by their
unconditional love. He made a vow not to touch them, not to join them,
but to re-enter his physical body so that he could share with the
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world what he had experienced. It would be a form of redemption for his
two years of trying to throw his physical life away. It was after this
vow that he watched the truck driver carry his totally injured body into
the car. He saw the ambulance speeding to the scene of the accident, he
was taken to the hospital's emergency room and he finally re-entered his
physical body. [139]
The man had been full of such despair and grief over the deaths of his
wife and children that he lost all will to live. What restored his sense
that life has meaning was gaining the knowledge through his near-death
experience that his wife and children were waiting in the next world and
knowing that he himself would one day join them.
Anyone who truly accepts and believes the scientific knowledge of "life
after death" and "reincarnation" can experience a joy close
to what this man felt.
Parents who have lost children and children who have lost parents will
finally understand that their child or parent has finished up his work
in this life and has returned home; they will know that they will meet
again in the next world; and, that their loved one is always watching over
them in this world. If they feel they have to meet their loved one right
now, then they can visit Dr. Raymond Moody's "Theater of the Spirits"
and converse with their loved ones. Even if a person does not go to America,
he or she only needs to think, "I cannot bear it so I will go to the
'Theater of the Spirits' and that thought alone will be a great support
and comfort.
The Courage to Accept the Death of A Friend
I would like to share with you a letter from a young woman who lost many
relatives in the great Kansai Earthquake in Japan.
Thank you very much for your article which has been invaluable to me. I
had planned to write to you immediately, but I could not find a way to
express my feelings, and so my reply is delayed.
A rain of ill fortune has been falling since January 17th last year, the
unhappiest and most bitter day of my life. (The day) was so terrible that
I began to doubt the existence of god...
Over 60,000 people died in the Great Kansai Earthquake on January 17th.
Among them were my friend and her children. My friend was very mindful
of her mother and was a very good mother herself.
When I think of her mother, a widow who has been predeceased by her daughter
and grandchildren and who lives all alone in a temporary dwelling, I wonder,
"Why? What was the purpose of her life? What an unrewarding life!"
Why do such things happen to people who are living with all their strength
and energy? Does this spiritual test have any meaning?
While I was in this state, your article arrived, and I read it. At first
I resisted it (forgive me!), and I even felt a little antagonistic. Although
I tried to accept the deaths of all those around me, I couldn't bring myself
to do so.
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The second time that I read it, I found myself quietly beginning to accept
it more and more. Sometimes tears would well up in my eyes.
To tell the truth, it will still take me some time to control my emotions.
I will probably be doing a lot of thinking about it. For now, I am just
deeply grateful that I was able to read your article at a time when I was
psychologically and physically very low.
I feel somehow that you are very close, so I have taken the liberty of
writing you this letter. Thank you very much.
As this woman points out, other people can never understand our feelings
of grief at the death of a close relative. No matter what words of comfort
and encouragement we may hear, we just think disparagingly, "It's
easy for them to say that because it didn't happen to them." It is
impossible for other people's strength to take away the grief we feel when
a close relative dies.
And for that reason alone, we must fill the empty cavities of our hearts
with the "strength to live," or else we will never recover from
our grief. Our strength to live and our source of meaning for our lives
comes from the knowledge of "the life after death" and of "reincarnation."
The woman who wrote this letter confesses honestly that she first read
my article with a feeling of resistance and antagonism; however, upon her
second reading, she felt the empty places in her heart filling with energy.
Our grief at the death of a close relative can never be taken away using
"another's strength," but instead must be overcome by our own
strength. Sometimes, though, the person misses the chance or the way to
overcome grief.
Of course, we cannot overcome all of our sadness and loneliness. The empty
spaces in our hearts will never be filled up completely. However, our hearts
will be much warmer if some of the cavities are filled with this knowledge
rather than if our hearts are completely empty.
The Strength to Overcome A Mother's Death
I received the following letter from a housewife whose mother had just died.
My mother died just one week after I received a copy of "The Dawn
of 'Meaning'" from you. As I made the round trip to my childhood home
(for the funeral) on the Bullet Train, I was totally absorbed in reading
""The Dawn of 'Meaning'" from cover to cover. I was able
to picture my mother where she is now. My mother is in the next world,
laughing happily with my father and with her brothers and sisters. She
looked beautiful in death. Strangely, I feel no sadness at all.
Although this woman's mother has died, she is strengthened by the research
findings on "life after death" and "reincarnation"
and is able to overcome her grief. She writes, "I feel no sadness
at all." However, her mother's death must have been hard
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for her. Although she was saddened that her mother no longer lives in this
world, she pictures her mother in the next world. Instead of feeling grief,
she feels gratitude to her mother for all she did on earth, and wants her
mother to enjoy being with her loved ones in the next world.
How sad and lonely she would feel if she believed that "nothing"
is left after her mother was cremated and turned to ashes. Even if she
were able to overcome that grief, she would not have the peaceful thought
to comfort her of her mother in the next world, laughing happily with her
husband and siblings.
It is because she has the knowledge of "the world after death"
and of "reincarnation" that she is able to accept the death of
a close relative with happy feelings.
A soldier who was repatriated after a near-death experience in Vietnam
when he stepped on a mine and lost both legs and an arm, has the following
to say:
"[Following the NDE] Somebody tells me somebody died and I say we
should be happy. Why don't we have parties at death?...it's something we
should be partying about. They left for a better life, a good feeling...
...I firmly believe everything happens for a purpose...I live, play and
work as intense as I do because I realize the very next instant I could
be gone and I might not come back into the body that time...There is something
after life. It is a good feeling.[140]
Although this man has lost both legs and an arm, he says "I live,
play and work as intense as I do because I realize the very next instant
I could be gone and I might not come back into the body that time..."
This man is able to speak with conviction because of his near-death experience,
and he is confident that he will be able to have a perfect body again in
his next incarnation. He knows that he may not be blessed with a handicapped
body again, so he wants to live his present life fully so that he can grow
as much as possible, and this resolve gives him strength. Because he realizes
that this life is but one in a series of numerous reincarnations, he probably
wants to take advantage of his unusual handicap in this lifetime to have
an unparalleled opportunity to grow.
Some people may read these cases and become angry at the "horrible"
daughter who does not mourn her mother at all or at the man who rejoices
at the deaths of others. However, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross has written the
following about how we must respect the feelings of those who are grieving.
Never judge or criticize anyone who tries to cope with the loss of a parent
in his own way. There are coping mechanisms which may work for them that
are inconceivable for you.[141]
Just as people have the right to mourn the death of their close relatives,
they also have the right to celebrate the passage of their loved one from
this world to their home in the next world. Every person grieves at the
passing of a close relative. And every person has the right to find their
own way of overcoming their grief.
It is no one else's business.
A person will certainly have a richer and more creative life if knowledge
of "life after death" and "reincarnation" enables him
to go on positively after the death of a close relative, rather than spending
endless days sunk in misery, mourning the death of a close relative.
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If that relative were still alive (as, of course, he is in the next world),
then he would certainly urge you to live a rich and creative live. And
at this very moment that is what your relative is trying to convey to you
here.
Advice From A Son's Spirit
The following letter hints at a profoundly mysterious system. Are you able
to guess what was behind this letter?
A friend urged me to read your article because I had lost my – year-old
son to leukemia several years ago. Many people say, "Whatever happens
to us is inevitable and is for the best," and I can agree with those
words most of the time; however, I was unable to accept that advice when
it came to my son's death. Therefore, I read your article with great interest.
I thought how much I would have enjoyed reading it with my son and exchanging
opinions. My son was very interested in religion and philosophy and had
gone on religious pilgrimages.
This mother's heart had been all closed off towards anything regarding
her son's death, but once she learned of the scientific knowledge about
"life after death" and "reincarnation," her heart slowly
began to reopen. She even said, "I thought how much I would have enjoyed
reading (your article) with my son and exchanging opinions."
Those who have read this far in my book understand now that a system exists.
It is certain that the spirit of her dead son thought, "Don't close
your heart forever, Mom. Please read this article," and used his mother's
friend to pass her the gift of this article.
The spirit of her son must have been standing right next to her, watching
over her, as she read. Perhaps her very feelings were those of her son.
The mother felt her son's feelings strongly at that moment. I am sure of
the above, based upon the scientific evidence.
(2) TO THOSE WHO HAVE LOST A SWEETHEART
Those who have found their true love only to lose him or her to an accident
or sickness... How bitter it must be, especially if you were engaged or
if you just assumed you would marry in the future. There are many people
in the world who have met with that unforeseen fate.
Many young men and women who wrote me had just that experience. As a present
to those who have lost a sweetheart, I would like to relate in my own words
the following case which was reported by Dr. Ian Stevenson, a professor
at University of Virginia.
Catherine Wright and Walter Miller were sweethearts who had known each
other for three years. They considered themselves engaged, although it
wasn't official. Walter was a very promising amateur painter.
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One night Walter went to a dance and drank too much. On the way home, he
lost control and his car spun off the road, killing him. This was in 1967
and Walter was seventeen-years old. Walter died instantly.
Catherine was devastated by Walter death, but eventually she recovered.
A year later in 1968 she married her old friend Frederick Wright who had
comforted her and helped her overcome her grief at losing Walter.
Catherine and Frederick's first child was a girl, and then Catherine became
pregnant with her second child. One night Catherine saw Walter in her dreams,
and he told her, "I'm not dead. I plan to be reborn again. After I
am, I'll draw you another picture."
It was a clear dream. Even if Walter were to be reborn, Catherine never
thought that Walter would be reborn as her own child.
Catherine gave birth to a boy, whom they named Michael. He was normal at
birth and developed through his early childhood on schedule.
It happened when Michael was three years old. Strangely, Michael seemed
to know people and events in Catherine's life that he had no way of knowing.
One day he suddenly started to speak in detail about the accident that
had killed Walter Miller.
Michael's story was very detailed.
"I died after the car flew off the road and started turning over.
The door opened and I was thrown out to my death."
Michael accurately and correctly related the name of the town where the dance was held the night of the accident, how the glass in the car broke, how Walter's dead body was carried over a bridge after the accident. Michael also knew where Walter's home was located and other details which he could only have known if he was Walter's reincarnation.
There was no way that little Michael who was only three years old could
have known these things. There was also no reason why Michael would fabricate
a story about being Walter in a past life. A three-year old would never
even dream of reincarnation. And, of course, his family had been Christian
up until then, and never spoke about reincarnation.
Walter had returned to Catherine by being reborn as her son.[142]
The one message that I have for those whose sweethearts have died is this:
your loved one will not resent or begrudge your falling in love and marrying
with another person. Instead, the spirit of your loved one would tell you
not to hang on to the past and to go forward with your life positively
and creatively.
There is nothing more distressing for the spirits than to see the friends
they left behind on this earth enervated with grief and refusing to love
another.
Your dead sweetheart would surely tell you that he thanks you for grieving,
but that he has gotten the message that you loved him and that he now wants
you to go on with your life, with an eye to the future, and find a new
partner. He may be waiting for the day that he can be reborn into this
world as your child.
You are not betraying your dead sweetheart if you find a new partner. The
new sweetheart whom you find will be brought to you by the spirit of your
lost sweetheart.
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(3) FOR THOSE STRICKEN WITH SERIOUS ILLNESS OR HANDICAP
Physical Pain Is A Sign of Spiritual Progress
Research into "life after death" and "reincarnation"
has shown us that being born with a handicap or an illness, or acquiring
them later in life, is not anyone's fault. Instead, it is a spiritual discipline
that you yourself have chosen as a test for yourself. Research has shown
that there is a deep meaning in any illness or handicap that makes you
suffer, and that you will be able to achieve tremendous growth if you win
out over your hardship. Research also shows that you may choose to have
a perfect body in your next reincarnation.
Until a person learns these scientific facts, he cannot view his personal
misfortune as anything other than a tragedy, and expects that a dark and
dismal lifetime awaits him. However, a precious meaning is born from tragedy,
and misfortune becomes an opportunity for growth once one understands the
workings of "life after death" and "reincarnation."
It gives a person tremendous courage to realize that many "spirits"
are giving him their support.
You will know that the spirits who protect you are sending you a message
if you start thinking, "It doesn't hurt to spend a lifetime like this
once in a while. I'm going to enjoy this lifetime thoroughly, and use it
as an opportunity to really grow.,"
Dr. Brian L. Weiss, drew the following conclusion, based upon his many
cases of hypnotic regression:
In my opinion, it is often the very strongest souls who have chosen to
shoulder these burdens because they provide great opportunities for growth.
If a lifetime can be likened to a year in school, then lifetimes such as
these can be likened to a year in graduate school. this is probably why
difficult lifetimes are more frequently recalled during regressions. The
easier lifetimes, the "rest" periods are usually not as significant.[143]
It's true. Those of you who live with illness and handicaps are very strong
spirits, who are struggling with a wonderfully high-level spiritual test.
You have great courage to attempt this test. You are the one who chose
to grapple with this challenge in your present life, so it is no one's
fault.
In the depths of your heart you know just the right actions and words to
use to meet this challenge. Venting your anger on those around you or spending
your days in dark despair are not the rights way to deal with this problem.
I am sure that some of you think angrily, "It's all very well for
him to say that. He is fortunate enough to have a healthy body, and cannot
possibly understand my feelings." You are absolutely right. And if
it helps you to lay into me, then go right ahead. However, is getting angry
really what you desire in your heart of hearts? Isn't what you really want
is to gain "a feeling that life has meaning?"
Messages From Colleagues
I would like to share with you a letter that a certain man sent to me.
5.2. A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" page 101.
Since I was a child, I have often been the target of taunts because of
a certain physical characteristic. (I will not say what it is, but it is
immediately apparent to everyone.) Even now, I am plagued by feelings of
inferiority, to the extent that I fear that everyone is looking at me when
I ride a train. However, after reading, "The Dawn Of 'Meaning,'"
I have finally realized that I chose this miserable body in order to accomplish
a specific purpose, and see clearly how badly I was lacking in vision in
the days when I wished only for death.
"Bullying" in schools has been drawing considerable attention
recently as a growing problem in our society. I believe it will continue
its increase because parents do not know why they were born nor what their
real purpose is in life, and are therefore unable to teach their children
the meaning of life. I think we must draw upon our own experiences to teach
both bullies and bullied that they were not put on earth in order to bully
or to be bullied.
As this man indicates, once children are skillfully and accurately taught
the knowledge in this book, then they will be unable to bully other children,
especially those children with handicaps. For that to happen parents first
must learn the purpose of living. To tell the truth I received many letters
conveying the same message from teachers at elementary, middle and high
schools, as well as from teachers at cram schools.
Here is another letter from a person with a handicap.
I recently received my copy of "The Dawn Of 'Meaning.'" Thank
you for sending it so promptly. I was deeply moved by reading through it
the first time.
My left leg is crippled, and I have had to struggle and suffer my way along
until now. I feel so odd to realize that this is exactly the life I chose
to live.
Normal people would not understand the discrimination that I have faced
in my life up until now. I am no superman, and this pain and suffering
has been almost impossible to bear. By reading your article, I learned
that this world is a testing ground for the spirit and that worldly wealth
and fame hold very little meaning. I am no longer very afraid of death,
now that I know that our purpose in life is to love others. I want to study
more and more as I live my life.
This man is now probably walking proud, his chest swelling with pride,
despite his crippled leg.
Here is a letter from a housewife who has had one serious illness after another.
I recently lost my mother. I married into a merchant's family, into an
environment far different from my childhood environment. Afterwards, it
was only my mother's encouraging voice over the telephone that gave
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me the strength to live cheerfully, as I suffered from one illness after
another, including cerebral hemorrhage in both eyes, Meniere's syndrome,
and rheumatism. It was a huge shock to me when she died, and I lost the
strength and confidence to live. After reading your article, I realized
that I will meet my parents in the next world, and that they may even be
reincarnated as my grandchildren. My grief lessened, and I am full of hope
for the future.
I want to live cheerfully with a smile on my face, knowing that the rheumatic
pains that wrack my body and my fading eyesight are problems designed to
make me grow.
This housewife came all the way to visit me. One would never know when
first meeting her that she suffers from such serious illness because she
is such a delightful woman, wreathed constantly in smiles. As we happily
smiled at each other and chatted, my heart overflowed with emotion as I
marveled to see how raw human strength of will and a strong sense of values
could strengthen a person to such a remarkable extent.
Watching her, I thought "You are not a victim, nor are you cursed by misfortune.
You took on the challenge of dealing with life issues and life tests of
such a high level that most people could not deal with them. You are a
brave and gallant fighter. Please hold your head high with pride, and fight
to resolve those life issues.
When the scientific knowledge contained in this book becomes widely accepted,
then people's opinions of this wonderful woman will change to admiration
and respect, as they realize, "Here we have a person dealing with
very high level life issues. What a magnificent person! Is there anything
I can do to help her resolve her life issues and life tests? Doing so would
be a big help to me in growing spiritually. If a little of her virtue rubs
off on me, then I would really grow too."
I received the following letter from a person who manages a rehabilitation
center for the mentally incompetent.
I read your article, all at one sitting. I myself had a near-death experience
as an infant, and my wife had an out of body experience as well. Therefore
I agreed with all my heart with what you wrote. I felt my body shiver with
awe at the solemn mysteries of life and death. I realized that our lives
are far more than just a brief moment of existence: we determine in our
past lives our lives today, and the way we live our present lives determines
who we will be in our next lives.
I plan to read your article over and over again, and then explain its principles
simply, in my own way, to the elderly residents of this facility who are
frightened of what awaits them after death and to the employees here who
avoid all thought about death.
Fully knowing the difficulty of his task, this wonderful man still plans
to do everything he can to make his mentally incompetent patients understand
the workings of
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"life after death" and "reincarnation." It will take
overwhelming effort to bring such understanding to the mentally incompetent.
The family of the handicapped gain immeasurable value when they understand
the role they must play in having in their family member a spirit with
the wonderful courage to give themselves the spiritual task of being handicapped.
The instant they reach that understanding, the handicapped person changes
from "a pitiable existence" to a "wonderful existence, for
which they are very grateful."
The Significance of Volunteer Work
Often people say critically, "How many volunteers really act unselfishly
and think only of the welfare of the people they care for? Everyone acts
in their own self interest, and it's not true volunteer work." I understand
what they mean: the scientific knowledge introduced in this book teaches
us that volunteer activities are as much for our own self-development as
they are for the welfare of the other person.
Some people say, "I feel good when I do volunteer activities. Because
I feel good, I want to do more."
Based upon the knowledge in this book, it is completely off the mark to
say, "Your volunteer work is phoney because you are doing it to make
yourself feel better." Volunteer activity is neither "the real
thing" nor is it "phoney." Sometimes I run into people who
are so intent upon finding "high-level, genuine" volunteer activity,
that they condemn other people's volunteer activities, thus taking away
all desire to help from people who had been interested in volunteer activities.
However, just as it is difficult to "act purely, thinking only of the other's welfare," so too – is it difficult to "act purely, thinking only of oneself." At any rate, volunteer activities are both for the sake of the other, while at the same time being for one's own self-development. Shouldn't we urge people to perform volunteer activities for their own sakes as well? If we do so, then the number of volunteers would surely increase, even here in Japan, where we have so little religion in our environment.
Volunteer activity makes us feel good because we feel in our hearts the
actual sensation of developing spiritually. The most important thing is
that we are able to develop spiritually whenever we see our actions make
another happy,
(4) FOR THOSE WHO ARE SOON TO DIE
Returning Home
There are limits to human flesh. Consequently, the eternal spirits must
change bodies at fixed intervals. That is what "death" means.
In other words, "death" is the process of changing the "vessel,"
or body, and replacing it. Death is merely the time when one confirms what
spiritual issues have been resolved to date and what remains, and draws
up a new set of spiritual exercises to enable completion of our task.
How very peaceful you will feel if you face death, knowing about "life
after death" and "reincarnation." Death is no more than
casting off the garment of the flesh and changing to a new one. What a
peaceful death a person has when he knows that he will be able to choose
what "garment" he wants to wear next; when he knows he will
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be awaiting reunion with his loved ones who died first; and, when he knows
that he will eventually welcome to the next world the family that he is
leaving behind. "Death" means we have finished our work in this
world, and are returning home. One should die full of dreams about creating
a brand-new future, "Let's see, what sort of plan shall I draw up
for my next life."
Dr. Michael B. Sabon has reported the following statements from subjects
who had near-death experiences.
"I know where I'm headed to, so that I doesn't have to worry about
dying anymore.... I've been through death and it don't bother me. I'm not
scared of it. Death is nothing to go through anymore. It's not that hard
to die....I know where I'm headed to and I've got my life to live. I enjoy
it a lot more.[144]
One year after a woman had a near-death experience during a serious illness,
her husband suddenly died. Because of her own near-death experience, she
was able to understand her husband's death in terms of her knowledge of
what lay beyond.
"Usually I would have been hysterical, but I was calm because I knew
that his pain and everything was over and that he was happy. That's the
advice I give to anyone dying – not to cry or scream."[145]
I have received letters showing just how overwhelming the experience of
death is. A woman suffering from advanced cancer mustered all her strength
to write me this letter from her sick bed. Her struggling handwriting clearly
remains in my memory.
Thank you for your article. You did not accept the money that I enclosed
in my envelop, so I asked my husband to use it to buy stamps for my campaign
and to contribute it to charity. I know I should have enclosed stamps,
but I cannot go outside anymore, and so I took the lazy way out and enclosed
return postage.
I am sorry to complain about myself, but my last examination showed that the cancer in my sacrum has spread and is putting pressure on my sciatic nerve, which causes the pain. My ideas about "death" have changed and I am no longer afraid, thanks to your article. However, the pain makes me want to give up, and I feel somewhat lonely as "death" approaches. I am very grateful to those around me who worry about me and take care of me, and I want to make each day I have left count. Thank you very much.
Even though knowledge of "life after death" and "reincarnation"
takes away our fear of death, we are unable to escape feelings of loneliness
as we imagine being physically separated from our families. However, this
woman has found meaning in her life because her husband and her other soulmates
love her and are caring for her unselfishly, and so she wants to make her
remaining days rich.
The more lonely we feel at the idea of being physically separated from
our loved ones, the more grateful we are for this moment when we are together.
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Because she has gotten over the fear of death, which is like a great wall,
she is able to look to the opposite side of loneliness and be grateful
for her soulmates.
Cheerful Intimacy With "Death"
Although "death" is something that should be far off in the future
for young people, there are many who are so terrified of "death"
that they are unable to live positively. I am publishing the following
letter for these people.
I have been terrified of "death" since I was in elementary school.
It all started when I heard some dialogue on a TV. show about how "ashes
are all that is left after people die." Those words burned themselves
into my heart, and I could not forget them. Whenever I thought about how
I would be completely extinguished after death, I would get so scared that
I felt I was losing my mind. For me, nothing was more frightening than
death.
However, I feel at peace now after hearing your talk. Even my worries about
finding a job have faded into insignificance. My fear of death has entirely
vanished. I now understand quite logically what will happen after death.
Even if what you said was a complete lie, I am determined to believe it
from now on. Believing in life after death and reincarnation will allow
me to lead my life meaningfully and vibrantly.
If I believe what you said, I will be able to face any misfortune without
flinching. If I believe that the spirits are always protecting me, then
I can live in peace of mind, no longer thinking that I am all alone in
this world or that there is no one else who understands me.
I can say no more. Let us end this topic here. When death is near, just
say, "So long for now," and "go home" to the next world.
We'll meet again for sure.
(5) FOR THOSE TROUBLED BY HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS
Why We Were Born in This World.
Once Dr. Brian L. Weiss asked the Guiding Spirit if there was a reason
why the spirits came back to be reborn in this world rather than staying
in the next world. The Guiding Spirit borrowed the voice of the subject
whom Dr. Weiss had hypnotized and replied:
"...we choose what we need to learn. If we need to come back to work through a relationship, we come back. If we are finished with that, we go on."[146]
In other words, the reason we are born on this earth is to work through
problems in our "human relationships" so that we can grow.
According to the statements of those who have had hypnotic regressions
or near death experiences, when we return to the spirit form, everything
we think and feel is instantaneously conveyed to the other spirits around
us. It is impossible to make
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ourselves look better than we are or to lie to them. Everyone is mentally
stripped naked. We are unable to conceal anything, but, on the other hand,
we no longer have to guess what others are thinking. Consequently, there
are no difficulties arising from "human relationships" (spirit
relationships?) while we are in that other world.
However, once we take on human flesh and are born in this world, we cannot
communicate our feelings and wishes to each other unless we talk aloud,
or write down words or use gestures and body language.
Even if we mutually voice our wishes to another, we still worry that our
real meaning did not get through, or else we are concerned that the other
person might not have told us what he really thinks. We can get ourselves
all worked up over nothing if we worry about things like this and put our
own wrong interpretation upon them.
At times like that, we should ask ourselves what our "level of love"
is. Can we trust the other person? If we trust him and it doesn't work
out, or if we are betrayed, can we forgive the other without blaming him?
Persons who are unable to trust another, who are unable to forgive the
unintentional mistake of another, or who are always suspicious of others
will suffer from poor relationships, will be avoided by other people, and
will wind up alone and isolated.
On the other hand, a person who can forgive another who has injured him
intentionally is a person who has unlimited love, and such a person will
be surrounded by many people.
Therefore, it is vital that we be reborn into this world in order to undergo
the vitally important spiritual disciplines concerned with "human
relationships, to test our "level of love," and to raise it higher.
That is the reason that we are reborn over and over again, so that we can
"train ourselves in relationships," or to put it more directly,
"train ourselves in love."
Those of you who are troubled by human relationships can now approach your
relationships from a new perspective now that you know about "life
after death" and "reincarnation." There is a deep, hidden
meaning in relationships between parent and child, husband and wife, best
friends and old enemies. These people are your "comrades at arms,"
people who have been joined with you in deep relationships as you trained
together in previous existences.
You and that old enemy of yours promised each other before you were reincarnated
to "try to forgive each other this time."
Many times when people "hate each other to an irrational extent,"
it indicates that both have been reincarnated to work on this big issue.
Hypnotic regressive has made increasingly clear the reason why some people
always oppose each other, fight, try to trip each other up and hurt each
other. The subject always says that forgiving the person whom they hate
so much is the big issue they must resolve in this lifetime.
Love And Forgiveness
Researchers stress how important it is to have a heart big enough to love
all the people that we meet in this world and to forgive them for anything,
and how vital it is to improve our natures.
5.2. A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" page 107.
One of Dr. Joel L. Whitton's male subjects remembered during a hypnotic
regression what the Guiding Spirits had taught him at the end of one of
his lifetimes.
The Three... told him that the pride he held in his knowledge and intellectual
ability must give way to humility; he must become not weak, but meek.[147]
As he listened to his many subjects trace their memories backwards, Dr.
Whitton grew to understand how our characters develop from the time we
are self-centered infants through our period of adolescence and finally
into our mature characters. Dr. Whitton states that how much and how fast
the character develops depends upon whether or not the spirit has a strong
desire to develop and improve himself.[148]
I would now like to share several letters with you concerning human relations.
The first one is from a housewife.
Without knowing why, I became so happy as I read your article. I fervently
hope that many other people will feel the same joy after reading your article.
I was and still am the recipient of much love from my parents, my brother,
my husband and all the people around me. Am I even returning a little of
it to those around me. I must do something.
I want to become gentle, serious, honest, magnanimous, and tranquil and
with firm principles.
I have received many letters such as this one from people who have experienced
joy when they understood about soulmates and human relationships.
For example, one woman who works at a major department store concluded
that this knowledge will "brighten my workplace."
Thank you for sending me a copy of "The Dawn of 'Meaning'" so
quickly. I am making copies and circulating it to my friends at the department
store.
I am sure (this knowledge) will brighten my workplace.
A middle-aged man felt that he truly understood the importance of human
relations after he learned about "life after death" and "reincarnation."
He expresses his feelings by using the words "karmic relationships."
Even this letter of thanks that I am writing was "mandated by destiny."
That realization makes me resolve to approach everything in my life positively.
I know now that karmic relationships determine all the people whom I will
meet and whether or not they will play a major role in my life, and I resolve
to throw myself into those karmic relationships positively.
The next letter is from a thirty-year old male company employee. It was
a wondrous discovery for him to learn about "soulmates."
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When people meet with misfortunes or disappointments or when their work
goes poorly, they often put the blame on others or upon the environment
or upon their companies. However, when people learn that "each of
us has planned his own life" and "life is a place for spiritual
testing," as you wrote, then they know the truth which is that they
are responsible for everything that happens. At times like this, I remember
with regret that I had sometimes blamed others.
When we realize that our mistakes can elevate our spiritual level, then
our mistakes stop being mistakes; we begin to think of our mistakes as
"nurturing soil" for the spirit. At that point, each person discovers
his own "reason for living."
The concept of "soulmate" really made an impression on me. I began
to see a way to forgive those who hate me and work cooperatively with
them. We Japanese have a proverb which says, "Even brushing sleeves
with another is a karmic consequence from another lifetime." Life really
is like that, isn't it? I feel strongly that I need to be thankful to those
around me.
The concept of "soulmate" has an extraordinary power to appeal
to people of every generation, from young to old.
Gratitude to Soulmates
In my college lectures, I always boldly introduce the scientific research
on "life after death" and "reincarnation" whenever
I teach about "human values." I don't ask my students to believe,
but instead seek them the following question, "How have your values
been influenced now that you know about this type of research?"
Almost all the students write in their reports that the research has had
a profound influence on them, and that it has made them want to live positively
and with optimism. These young people seem to be especially moved by the
concept of "soulmate."
I will now share with you several of the reports touching upon human relationships
that were written by students during class.
Until now, I was never interested in the existence of "spirits"
nor in "reincarnation." Far from being interested, I had made
up my mind that such talk was unscientific and stupid. Just like Professor
Iida said, I led a typical life, untouched by religion. For those reasons,
I was very negative as I heard the beginning parts (of Professor Iida's
lecture.) However, my denial gradually turned to affirmation as I listened.
I had to accept what was said. I realized how a little new information
can change one's way of thinking.
When I learned that "Our spouses and parents and other significant
people in our lives are soulmates with whom we have had innumerable
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close relationships in past lives," I realized that the knowledge
would enable me to forge good relationships even with those I disliked,
those people whose personalities didn't agree with mine. When I realized
that I had planned beforehand all the problems in this life, I realized
that I did not have to suffer so over these problems.
Here is another report.
After hearing today's lecture, I realized that I had been taking life too
lightly. I had thought only of myself, and had never cared about inconveniencing
others. I blithely did things that others wanted me not to do. Almost nothing
that I did helped others, and I felt ashamed of myself.
When the professor asked if we were satisfied with our lives, I could only
answer no. I felt that there were things I ought to do more, or rather,
things that I had to do. It would not be an understatement to say that
today's lecture changed me. It was all decided before my birth that I should
be here today to be influenced by the professor's lecture. This has been
a key experience for me in forming my values. A sense of values is a mysterious
thing.
Here is another one.
I was shocked and thought deeply about various aspects of my life after
hearing today's lecture. We bring unresolved life issues from past lives
into this life and try to resolve them. What issues did I bring into this
life when I was born? Are people that I hate now also my enemies in past
lives?
I have put all the emphasis upon my own feelings until now. Even when I
tried to think of others, I feel that I never really understood them because
I was interested only in my own satisfaction. I am glad that I had the
opportunity at this point in my life to reflect upon my past. I think my
way of living and way of thinking will be different from now on.
Another student wrote as follows.
Until now, I have always worried endlessly about such trivial things. My
viewpoint and way of thinking changed greatly when I learned in today's
lecture that we are born on this earth to give love to other people, in
other words, to learn about "human relationships." Lately I have
been depressed numerous times. I have been in a black place, with no answers
as I wondered what I was living for and why I was the only one suffering
so much from this misfortune. It was like being in a tunnel with no exit,
where everything was devoid of joy and nothing I did turned out right.
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I feel that the lecture has opened my eyes. All my suffering and grief
was no more that perversity because I couldn't get my way. What I thought
were misfortunes – that I broke up with my boy friend, that my search for
a job wasn't going well – were not really misfortunes but really tests
that I had set for myself. When I understood that, my feelings brightened
incredibly. I felt that I could willingly accept all the things in my life
that I had once thought were bad.
I realized that I had been born to study and improve those things that
I regretted in my past lives, and not to be obsessed with my own desires.
Realizing this, I am looking forward to the rest of my life. I am looking
forward to meeting, in a new form, and talking to the soulmates who helped
me in previous lives.
There is absolutely no difference between the feelings shared by seventy
or eighty year old people in their letters and the feelings that these
young people, barely twenty, write about in their reports. That is because
the scientific knowledge described in my book turns ordinary, burdensome
"human relationships" into a shining diamond in people's hearts.
I would like to share a letter from a woman who writes, "Strangely
enough, I didn't get angry even when I was betrayed." At that time,
a message from her spirit must have been reverberating through her heart,
saying, "Do not feel rancor because this is a life issue that you
must deal with."
I supported my friends' business undertaking in the past by becoming a
guarantor, and lost almost 20,000,000 yen. At the time, I felt no bitterness
towards the people involved. Instead I had the vague feeling that it happened
because of karmic effects from previous lives. When I read your article,
I realized that I had been right.
Because this woman is pure hearted, as you can see from her letter, she
was easily able to hear the message from the Guiding Spirit who protects
her. She definitely moved one level up in development when she was able
to forgive and feel grateful to the people who had given her this spiritual
test by borrowing her money.
Why We Choose Our Parents
There is something that I must convey to those who do not get along with their parents. Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross has written about the importance of gratitude to "parents."
Death is but a transition from this life to another existence where there
is no more pain and anguish. All the bitterness and disagreements will
vanish, and the only thing that lives forever is LOVE. So love each other
NOW, for we never know how long we will be blessed with the presence of
those who gave us LIFE – no matter how imperfect many a parent has been.[149]
5.2. A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" page 111.
As Dr. Kubler-Ross indicates, even if everyone agrees that your parents
are "immature" or "dislikable," they are the only parents
whom you will have in this world, and are special because they are your
"parents." No matter what problems you have with them, are you
not responsible to take care of them until the end?
That is because you chose these parents for your own. If you feel that
they "are beyond control or hateful," well, that must be precisely
the reason that you chose them to be yours. If there are big problems between
you and your parents, then that is precisely the life issue that you have
given yourself to solve and that you must work at resolving.
Of course, it takes two sides to create problems in human relationships.
It is not fair for only one side to grin and bear it.
However, the relationship between your parents and you is different from
other relationships, and this affects any troubles between you and your
parents, since you chose your parents with your own free will, but your
parents did not choose you.
Consequently, you must be grateful to your parents who gave you life, you
must forgive them, acknowledge them and protect them.
Until the moment that your parents draw their last breathes on this earth,
you must show your gratitude with all your heart in everything you say
and do. You will know why after you die.
Let me share a letter with you from a woman who had hated her father, but
learned to love him after she learned about "life after death"
and "reincarnation."
I am so very grateful that I read ""The Dawn of 'Meaning'"
I lost my husband X years ago to cancer, and had to take over and operate
his company, which I continue to do now. I took over the job without much
thought, but once I started working, I understood that the top person can
make a tremendous difference in influencing a company. Sometimes I felt
overwhelmed by the pressure.
My late husband had a good eye for people and was trusted. I was sure that
my strength was inadequate to lead those people who had followed my wonderful
husband. I was so reluctant to move forward that I drove many of my key
people to quit the company. I began to hate myself, and sunk into mistrust
and suspicion of others.
I should have known that the responsibility was now mine and mine alone
to shoulder, but instead I was always whining, looking at my husband's
picture and saying, "Why did you have to die first and leave me to
do all these difficult things?"
When I read your article, "The Dawn of 'Meaning.'" I understood
that all my trials were designed to help me develop spiritually. In the
future, I will not hang back any more, even if I get depressed. Instead
I will change my ways and move forward positively to deal with problems.
I could not stop crying as I read the sections of your article describing
how "love" is the most important thing for human beings, how
we must forgive everything and how we must be grateful to our parents.
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My father terrorized my mother and family. He caused grief to my mother
all her life. He would rage at us children and physically abuse us. For
a long time, I believed that his treatment of me as a child had cursed
my life. I had never felt any love for my father.
However, having such a father made me what I am. Once I realized that my
father had caused me to become very independent and to be able to put up
with a lot patiently, I began to feel that I could forgive my father.
This year I will be able to pray for him at the Buddhist altar on the anniversary
of his death.
Please think carefully about the following questions. Why did you choose
these parents? What sort of spiritual development did you seek in choosing
them? There must be very important reasons for your choice.
Those of you who haven't spoken to your parents for a long time, please
telephone them as soon as possible. After your current lifetime is finished,
you will poignantly remember the moment that you telephoned them as a turning
point in your life.
Those of you who haven't seen your parents for a long time, why not go
home and visit them during your next long holiday, and please don't get
caught up in materialistic worries about how much the travel will cost
you.
We never know how much longer we can share this lifetime with the parents
who gave you life. Please do everything you can to make your parents happy
while they are alive so that you and your parents can have many happy memories
to talk about when you meet again in the next world. Your children are
watching how you treat your parents and learning from you.
Let me tell you once again what Dr. Raymond Moody says about the emotional
changes shared by all who have a near-death experience.
"Have you learned to love?" is a question faced in the course
of the episode by almost all NDEers. Upon their return, almost all of them
say that love is the most important thing in life. Many say it is why we
are here. Most find it the hallmark of happiness and fulfillment, with
other values paling beside it.
As you might guess, this revelation radically changes the value structure
of most NDEers. Where they may have been bigoted, they now see each individual
as a loved person. Where material wealth was the pinnacle of achievement,
brotherly love now reigns.[150]
As you understand that there is a deep meaning in all human relations,
and the world around you becomes more profound and meaningful as you learn
to look for the real meaning of what others say and do rather than just
looking on the surface.
Let's try to live with great joy, eagerly anticipating everything that
"karmic causes" will bring to us, and respecting the mysterious
and profound links that we have with various people through karma.
5.2. A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" 113
(6) FOR THOSE WHO HAVE LOST CONFIDENCE IN THEMSELVES
Why Your Work Is Wonderful
Many people sent me letters to say how knowledge of scientific research
on "life after death" and "reincarnation" gave them
back a lost sense of self-worth and restored their lost confidence.
I was struck how people began to find pride and joy in their present jobs,
and understood that this scientific knowledge had the important effect
of increasing people's sense that work is meaningful.
It is very true that every occupation (excluding criminal activities!)
can spread "love" throughout the world through the worker's actions.
No work or occupation is worthless once we realize that it is not our bosses
or other people who assign work to us. Instead, we ourselves have planned
our work and our position.
Let me share with you a unique and heart-warming letter from a woman who
sells cosmetics.
Thank you for sending me a copy of "The Dawn of 'Meaning.'" I
forgot all about getting a good night's sleep and read and read. Just to
think that I'm the one who's job is to tell customers every day that four
hours of deep sleep is vital for beautiful skin!
Reading your article organized my thoughts and made me realize that I have
to think over my approach to life. How lucky I am! I sell cosmetics at
a Beauty Training Salon. I meet many people in my job, including women
who are suicidal because of skin trouble and young women who have lost
all reason to live because of their skin problems. I help them until they
become beautiful. Over 80
At first I thought that my business was to make my customers beautiful,
but lately, I have started to feel a strange connection to those tormented
customers.
After reading "The Dawn of 'Meaning,'" I now feel happy as I
realize that my work gives me an opportunity to join with others in hoping
and praying for their happiness.
It may just be because I am getting old, but I am really looking forward
to my next reincarnation.
One thing that greatly surprised me is that many letters have come from
managers and directors at the very top of their companies. We have an image
of company presidents and directors as successful people who have achieved
material success in this world. Top executives are at the apex of their
organizations, supported by the many employees. For that very reason, they
have many worries and concerns that only other people at the top share.
Let me share with you a letter from a middle-aged woman who lost her husband
and was forced to take over the management of his company.
My husband, the former president, died of cancer X years ago. I became
president, even though I know nothing about the business. I resolve to
lead my employees through this depressing time to happiness.
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I am making a management guide in order to give myself the ability to "decide"
and in order not to lose direction. When I read "The Dawn of 'Meaning,'"
I realized that living means finding oneself and that the causes are in
ourselves. I learned how important it is for us all to work together to
nurture and cultivate each other, to enable each other to find happiness
in life and to help each other attain our dreams.
I am not qualified for my post as president, but I want to become a person
who helps other people. I plan to read your article over and over again
so that I do not lose that resolve, and strive to increase my ability.
Thank you very much.
This woman manager had felt pressured by her position as a manager, and
had spent her days unable to find confidence or pride in her position because
she felt unqualified for her position.
However, after understanding "the meaning of life" described
in my article she was able to get beyond feeling only pressure and began
to see that her position as a manager enabled her to influence her employees
greatly. She began to understand that she should be grateful for her position,
because she was able to have a wonderful influence upon her employees as
their manager.
A man in the prime of life who is running a company sent me the following letter.
My younger brother gave me a copy of your article. I am a passive man by
nature, and, to make it worse, I am also lazy. That is why I felt so grateful
as I realized how my life has been shaped by the many people bound to me
by karmic relationships. I could reaffirm to myself how predestined and
inevitable are my deep ties with my children and my wife.
I want to spend my few remaining years (I celebrated my 61st birthday last
year) putting all my energy into business, with my heart full of hope and
courage, and feeling no regrets.
I am now able to accept all things that happen in this lifetime because
I now know that these are mere fodder for our future. I now have the courage
to fight my way through, and to live cheerfully and with hope. I want some
of the suffering people among my friends and acquaintances to read your
article, so I have copied it without first getting your permission.
Gaining the knowledge in my article made this man want to "put all
(his) energies into business." Once he discovered there is a reason
for everything, he realized that there were karmic reasons why he held
a certain position in a particular industry and business.
He then began to question himself: "Why am I doing my present work?
What role am I supposed to play in the world through this work? What should
I learn from this work?" His conclusion was that putting all his energies
into business and casting aside all diversions were the ways to achieve
spiritual growth and help the world.
5.2. A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" page 115.
Thinking along the same lines, we realize all work has meaning in this
world. If you are ordered to spend all day "preparing tea," it
may seem meaningless, but the truth of the matter is that there is no more
important job. When a person is exhausted by work, hot tea prepared with
love can refresh, restore and remove stress. No work is more wonderful
than pouring tea because one's actions can directly help people and make
them happy.
If you are ordered to spend all day making copies, it may seem meaningless,
but the truth of the matter is that there is no more important job. Yes,
you may get physically tired, and the higher the quality of the copies
you try to make, the more stress you feel. Most people find it hard to
follow advice telling them not to think about being tired or stressed.
However, the workplace could not function unless someone makes copies.
Now you do understand how many people are helped by the work that you do?
And you do understand that taking on work that others avoid can directly
contribute to the happiness of others? You should be full of joy to realize
how much helping others contributes to your spiritual development. There
is nothing wrong with feeling honest joy at helping people and growing
spiritually in the process.
You now may find yourself looking at the same old work and thinking very
creatively about ways to prepare tea that would make others even happier
or ways to make better copies more efficiently.
The "Breakthrough" Created by Changing Our Set of Values
I use a special term to describe what happens when people bring this new
knowledge and information into their daily lives, add their own creativity,
and try to live positively. I call it "the 'breakthrough' created
by changing our set of values." By "breakthrough," I mean
"breaking out of your present circumstances." No matter how impossible
your circumstances seem, you can learn to make your life joyous and interesting
by changing your way of thinking about your circumstances. This is what
I mean by "the 'breakthrough' created by changing our set of values."
While we are doing this, sometimes our environment seems to change mysteriously
on its own. However, even if our environments remain unchanged, our hearts
still begin to fill with life and happiness.
I am confident that one effective way to initiate this 'breakthrough' by
changing our set of values is to acquire the scientific knowledge of "life
after death" and "reincarnation."
Of course, there are various other ways to achieve a breakthrough by changing
one's set of values, and I am not going to push my method on you by insisting
that mine is the only way, or that it is the best way. However, we must
not ignore the fact that many people have declared that knowledge of "life
after death" and "reincarnation" has enabled them to achieve
desired psychological changes and has energized them and liberated them
from their worries. For those people, this knowledge has performed the
role as "a source of meaning." No matter how miserable their
circumstances, people have found this knowledge to be an bottomless well
of meaning, constantly replenishing our reasons for living, reasons for
taking action and reasons for working.
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I would like to share with you some of the typical reports submitted by
my students after I had introduced this knowledge to them through a lecture.
These students are barely twenty-years old; however, the valuable messages
contained in their words show that one needn't be old or full of life experience
in order to directly understand that this knowledge can give one a reason
for living.
The information that I gained from today's lecture made me understand that
what I had considered as "problems" in my life are really not
problems at all. Until now, I had been very worried about my future. I
now know that what matters is how well you live and how good your spirit
becomes rather than honor and fame in the world. This knowledge has freed
me from my worries. I want to go forth and learn all about the world.
Here is another student report.
Until now, I never believed in "reincarnation." I thought that
when we died our bodies and spirits died too, and that nothing was left.
However, I could feel my ideas changing as I listened to the lecture. At
first I just denied it, but by the end of the lecture, I was thinking,
"People are reborn in order to resolve life issues that they have
set for themselves. It's like that for me too." I felt so strange.
Could this be how a person feels when his set of values changes? As I listened
to the lecture, I wondered what life issues I needed to resolve. I also
reflected upon my life up to now. My own actions have caused the same unpleasant
things to occur again and again, in junior high, high school and now in
college. I wondered if this is the life issue that I must resolve. If I
don't learn to control my nature, then the same kind of things will keep
occurring, and I will carry them along to my next lifetime as life issues
to be resolved. I resolved to win this battle, by facing my problems head
on and dealing with them positively.
Here is another report.
My philosophy of life had been, "We only live once, so we should put
all our strength into doing things now, so that we have no regrets about
our lives."
However, my eyes were opened when I heard today's lecture. I realized that
I was thinking only of now and what will happen in my own future. Were
I to die and see my life passing before my eyes like a movie, what exactly
would the screen show me?
5.2. A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" page 117.
There are many things I ought to regret in my twenty-one years of life.
Perhaps I hurt others and caused suffering to them without being aware
of it. Today the lecture gave me a good chance to reflect upon my past,
and plan again how I can incorporate these reflections into the rest of
my life I am very interested in knowing what kind of person I was in past
lives, and what life issues I am trying to resolve in this life. It makes
me see life differently to realize that destiny will ensure I meet the
people that I am intended to meet. I want to think thoroughly about myself
and about life once more. I am so happy that I had this opportunity today.
I want to live fully so that the "movie" I see at the end of
my life is better and that my life issues are resolved.
And another.
I was deeply influenced by today's lecture. I never expected to hear about
life and death in a college lecture on business management. I am the sort
of person who hates to be influenced by others. Today's lecture must have
really shaken the value systems of the other students; however, my set
of values has not changed one bit. Parts of the lecture made me think,
and moved me. However, I don't want to believe anything until I actually
experience death. When I see myself writing things like this in this report,
I realize that being given the chance to think about today's theme may
have changed my set of values. That I'm writing like this may indicate
that my set of values has changed. What's going on? I wrote that my set
of values hasn't changed at all. Yet I'm still really influenced by the
lecture. I want to live life with all my energy and passion, so that I
will not waste it.
Here is a report from another student.
Just like Professor Iida, I visit Shinto shrines, I visit Buddhist temples,
I celebrate Christmas and I believe that God exists. However, these are
my own personal beliefs, and I don't care what others believe. I don't
need them to have the same beliefs. I don't know exactly what "God"
is, but I do think that the idea of God gives us help and strength when
we try to understand how to live and why we are living. If believing that
"there is life after death and that people are reincarnated in order
to deal with life issues" gives a person strength to live, then it
is a wonderful belief."
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Here is one more report.
Until I heard today's lecture, I was a really foolish person. I was worried
only about outward appearances. I was concerned only with insignificant
matters, such as how people viewed me. Could it be because I never had
any confidence in myself until now? My lack of confidence may have given
me a worthless set of values. As I listened to today's lecture, I was thinking
desperately, "What ought to be my goals? What am I able to do now?
As a result, I came to the realization that I had forgotten a very important
thing. Until now, I have always taken the easier and simpler way. Because
I was so conscious that "we only live once," I was overly afraid
of failure. From now on, I will deal with whatever comes without running
away, even if my way is blocked by a forbidding wall.
Another student wrote the following:
I feel as if the set of values that I had created for myself has been revolutionized.
During today's lecture I was exposed to a variety of knowledge, information,
and values, and I experienced a variety of emotions. I want very much to
live a full life, so that I will be satisfied with it afterward when I
reflect upon it. I feel so confused that I don't know what to write. At
any rate, I am not the person I was. I feel as if I have been reborn.
Here is one more.
Until I heard today's lecture, I never believed in "life after death,"
"reincarnation," and "spirits." Rather, I should say
that I didn't want to believe. Not that I led a perfect life. I may have
resisted believing because I was trying to give myself an out just so that
I could remain as wrapped up in myself as I was. However, I have resolved
to spend my whole life putting into practice what I learned in today's
lecture. If I think about what I learned today whenever I have some problem,
I may notice that my worries and problems are really very small. I feel
a strong sense of responsibility: I must accomplish all that I am expected
to do in the life in which I am now placed. I am in the process of taking
the civil service exam, and I had been depressed because I couldn't write
answers that satisfied me. During today's lecture, I decided that the wall
I am trying to knock down is a wall I have built myself, and it is a wall
for myself. The only worry I had listening to today's lecture was whether
or not the girl I'm dating is the one destined for me.
5.2. A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" 119
Here is what one young woman wrote.
I failed to get into university two years in a row. Now I am faced with
the difficulties all women have trying to get hired in a depressed economy.
When I meet my friends, all I do is complain, "Why did I have such
a hard time getting into college? And why now do I have to struggle so
hard to get a job?" Until I heard today's lecture, I felt bitter about
my destiny. However, after hearing today's lecture, I realized that there
is a reason for everything, even for hating myself. "The next world"
and the "spirits" may really exist (I believe that I exist).
What was important in today's lecture was understanding that nothing happens
in human life without a reason. How should we live our lives? Should we
bemoan our fates, and put the blame on others and outside causes? Should
we live in a positive manner, treating any problem that confronts us as
a spiritual test? I am going to turn my difficulty in finding employment
into a plus for myself. Whenever I get discouraged about my job search,
I will remember today's lecture.
There are wonderful messages in the student's essays, ignoring the students'
writing skills (sorry about that!). These reports are like treasure chests.
In my work as a teacher, I learn many important things from what the students
tell me.
Value Is Born When "Knowledge" Is Put Into Practice
Please learn the very message I have for you from the following reports,
which each writer discovered through his own interpretation and description.
I am very interested in the issue of human life and death. I have read
various works, trying to learn about life and death in all its aspects,
including reincarnation, near-death experiences and transpersonal psychology,
and have taken self-tests designed to find one's soulmates. However, I
could not find myself in any of those written works, and I always asked
myself, "Why am I alive?"
Given that background, I was truly shocked to hear today's lecture, and
felt as if my eyes had suddenly been opened. During Professor Iida's lecture,
I discovered the answer to my question, and realized that, "I am living
for myself." All of our joy and all of our grief are born from the
life issues that we have given ourselves to resolve. In death, we find
the true meaning of life. The answer to "life" is oneself.
Until now, I have been so wrapped up in the details of life that I could
not think broadly. When Professor Iida told us that all things are interconnected,
I painfully realized how weak and egotistical I am. Being so wrapped up
in myself, I did not emphasize with others. I am ashamed of myself because
all I have done is to seek pleasure and run away from pain. I plan to change
my set of values, starting today.
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I had decided to live just for pleasure, since I'm going to die at forty
and it doesn't really matter what I do (the doctor actually told me that
I would die around forty.) However, I was wrong to think that way. If I
am only going to live to age forty, I have to do my very best as long as
I am alive. I want to put my heart and all my energy into life.
The student who wrote this report is aware that she will die at age forty
(I can't imagine why a doctor would tell a young person something like
that, but there must have been good reasons.) Since she will die young,
the student wanted to find out what her goals should be in life, and so
she read many books that could answer that question for her, including
works on "life after death" and "reincarnation."
However, she was unable to find the answer in those books, despite her
efforts. Probably these books merely discussed whether or not "life
after death" and "reincarnation" occurs, and probably they
just explained methods of finding out about your soulmates and your past
lives. Most likely, they did not touch upon the most fundamental question,
"Why is it meaningful to learn about this knowledge?" While such
books may answer our questions about what happens after death, they do
nothing to give us a reason for living.
During classes, I speak to my students as follows.
"The reason I teach you about scientific research findings regarding
life after death and reincarnation in terms of a theory of values and as
a theory of meaning is because then you will be able to make this knowledge
a plus in your lives, enabling you to make a breakthrough in your set of
values, and thus finding the meaning of life. This knowledge will be a
real source of meaning for you. The meaning is not found in the knowledge
itself, but in how you use it and in what values are born from it. Each
person will find her own values; this is not something that I need to teach
you."
She correctly understood what I really meant: let this knowledge be your
source of meaning. At the moment she understood, she felt as if her eyes
had suddenly been opened. She correctly wrote down, "I discovered
the answer to my question, and realized that, "I am living for myself."
All of our joy and all of our grief are born from the life issues that
we have given ourselves to resolve. In death, we find the true meaning
of life. The answer to "life" is oneself."
By learning about "life after death" and "reincarnation,"
and putting this knowledge into practice in our lives, we can attain the
same "breakthrough in our set of values" that people experience
through near-death experiences and hypnotic regression.
One student wrote as follows.
Today's lecture was very interesting. I feel as if my own life view has
really changed, although probably not as much as someone who has experienced
hypnotic regression or a near-death experience. I am afraid of near-death
experiences and would hate to have one, but I wanted an opportunity to
change my perceptions of the value of life.
5.2. A MESSAGE FROM "THEORIES OF MEANING" page 121.
As the old proverb says, "Good deeds always come home." I really
feel now that my good deeds will come back to reward me while my bad deeds
will bring me retribution.
This student writes what many other people have told me, "I am afraid
of near death experiences and would hate to have one, but I wanted an opportunity
to change my perceptions of the value of life." It is true that we
must nearly die in order to have a near-death experience. It is also true
that you may not have the opportunity to experience hypnotic regression
or a reading, even when you might wish to. That is why the knowledge introduced
in this book is so important.
"Positive Thinking" Is A Source of Energy
In our confused society, many people are searching for something that will
spur them to change their way of living. Many people find that "spur"
in the knowledge introduced in this book.
One student wrote about its efficacy as follows.
Everything in life has a reason. When Professor Iida told us this, I had
various thoughts. It struck me that everything that has happened to me
until now and all the things that are happening now have real meaning.
I realized that I had been just doing things without really thinking until
now. The reason I am now able to think positively is because my set of
values changed due to today's lecture. I am really glad that my set of
values has changed. I feel as if my eyes have been opened.
Why do we find meaning when we realize that, "Everything in life has
a reason," and how does our consciousness of "life after death"
and "reincarnation" connect us to that "meaning of life?
One student wrote the following reply to the above question which I asked in class.
I am not religious, and do not believe in spirits, or life after death,
or reincarnation. Consequently, whenever I thought about "the self,"
I would always hit the wall of "death," and I could not get my
thoughts organized. To be truthful, I still only half believe what I heard
in class today. However, my thoughts about "death" have changed.
Thinking that there is a "life after death" makes me better able
to see myself clearly and make objective decisions.
Until now, whenever I thought of my life ending in the "darkness of
death," I would think, "I'm going to die anyway, and there will
be nothing left," or "What's the point in trying hard."
These thoughts prevented me from living a full life. However, the realization
that the destination of our lives is not the "darkness of death"
but is instead an eternity to the next step of our spiritual development
makes it possible for me to think
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seriously to myself, "How then should I live my present life?"
and "How should I relate to others?" I am now able to live my
life properly and frankly.
Although this student is still unable to believe in "life after death"
or "reincarnation, he explains quite honestly that, "Thinking
that there is a 'life after death' makes (him) better able to see (himself)
clearly and make objective decisions. He even writes that living his life
with an awareness of research findings on "life after death"
and "reincarnation" will make it possible for him to "live
(his) life properly and frankly."
This student eloquently expresses a truth that I appeal to you all to accept.
It is this. "Every one is free to believe what he wishes. It is perfectly
fine if you choose to disbelieve one-hundred percent in 'life after death'
and 'reincarnation.' However, please at least be aware of the research
findings and try to apply these findings logically to your lives as a source
of positive energy."
I received a similar letter from a man in middle-management.
Until now, I was not just indifferent to the concepts of "life after
death" and "reincarnation." Instead, I strongly denied these
ideas. However, after reading your article, I realize that accepting these
concepts in our lives enables us to change ourselves and find meaning in
our lives. I am going to start thinking about what my family's purpose
is in life, and try to live a life full of positive ideas.
P.S. I made copies and urged our company president and my subordinates
to read your article. I am going to tell the companies we do business with
about it too.
This man appears to have no interest in scientific discussions about whether
or not "life after death" and "reincarnation" exist.
He is more interested in the powerful results made possible by hypothesizing
that they exist.
In other words, if applying the knowledge assembled in this book has the
"result" of making his life more meaningful, then the "truth"
of whether or not there is "life after death" is not important
to him.
At the beginning of this book, I stated my premise:
"my interests lie not in "truth," but rather in "phenomena"
(that heighten the feeling that life is worthwhile.) My meaning is the
same as his.
I would like to quote Dr. Melvin Morse once more.
I have never interviewed anyone who had a near-death experience who told
me that they came back to make more money or to spend more time at their
jobs away from their families. Rarely do they tell me that they learned
they were not selfish enough or greedy enough. Instead they become convinced
that they need to be more loving and kind. They react to their experience
by living life to its fullest. They believe their lives have a purpose,
even if that purpose is obscure to them. Invariably it involves concepts
such as love of family or service to others. they seem to know that the
love they create while living will be reflected and radiated back to them
when they die.[151]
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Even if we have not actually had a near-death experience nor hypnotic regression,
when we listen to the experiences those who have, we will learn about the
"breakthrough" they experienced which changed their set of values;
we will be able to share in the "overflow" of the changes they
experienced.
If you are able to feel that this is a "rational choice" rather
than a "non-scientific choice," you will know that you have received
a message, sent with all his strength by the Guardian Spirit who protects
you.
There are some people who report that understanding "reincarnation"
healed not only their mind but also cured their bodies.
I did something that I very much regret when I was young, and have carried
the guilt with me for fifty years until today. I made the people around
me feel unhappy as well. After reading your article and understanding "reincarnation,"
I no longer feel so badly about what I did. As a result, the high blood
pressure that has bothered me for years went down so far that my family
was amazed. I smiled when I heard my wife telling the children on the telephone
that she felt weird because I had become such a different man. I want to
spend the years I have left full of gratitude and living each day to the
hilt in my own way. I want to do all I can to help other people.
Many physical ailments, such as blood pressure and internal diseases (not
injuries), have unconscious psychological worries as their cause. I have
received many letters like this one from many people, telling me that learning
about "life after death" and "reincarnation" put their
minds at rest and alleviated their physical ailments.
The knowledge that is organized and synthesized in this book can be more
powerful and effective than any medicine, if the person is adequately prepared
to apply this knowledge in his life.
5.3 THE GOD OF "MEANINGFUL LIFE"
(1) FREE TO BELIEVE; FREE NOT TO BELIEVE
Once we learn about "life after death" and "reincarnation"
and apply it to our lives, we reexamine our own lives and our goals in
life. We are able to accept that there is a huge meaning in our lives,
no matter what our lives are like. This awareness gives us the strongest
possible "source of life's meaning." It drives us to be an inexhaustible
"source of boundless love" for all the things, people and living
creatures who surround us.
Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross tells us as follows about the importance of love.
Most important of all, we must learn to love and be loved unconditionally.
Most of us have been raised as prostitutes. I will love you "if."
And this word "if" has ruined and destroyed more lives than anything
else on this planet earth.[153]
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When people reexamine the meaning of love and life, based upon the information
introduced in this book, most find that their value systems are fundamentally
shaken by the process. That the same experience happens to non-believers
and atheists as well, just goes to show that scientific research on "life
after death" and "reincarnation" has great meaning when
it is widely disseminated.
Naturally, if you dislike thinking about these scientific findings, it
is your free choice and your natural right to choose to "believe"
in materialism which tells us that "man is no more than ashes after
he dies."
For example, one man who was a materialist sent me the following opinion
about my book.
I myself do not believe in the existence of spirits or of a world after
death; however, I do think that such a world may exist, and I think it
could be possible it does exist. I may even look forward to hearing more
about that world in the future. What I am going to say about myself may
seem irrelevant and irresponsible. At present, I am interested in such
matters, but feel no need to verify whether or not they are true. There
may be times in a life when people strongly receive this hypothesis (for
that is what it is) about reincarnation. There must be a few people who
weep at this report or who feel that their eyes have been opened. For those
people, your report has a big meaning. Nowadays when everyone is worrying
about how devastated the human world has become, a article like yours could
provide a way to "correct the world." I don't really know. I
would like to give my slightly sarcastic viewpoint. Professor Iida is a
true researcher, and was aware of several topics where the article could
draw criticism, so he tried to deflect the criticism.
They are:
1. He says that these ideas do not try to force people to believe.
2. He says flatly that the ideas have nothing to do with religion, but
are pure science.
3. There are very dangerous elements in these concepts. Won't this turn
into a new religion, one from a scientist's perspective? I sense danger
when a concept causes people to change their way of living because of some
directive. Won't these concepts lead people to make light of this world?
Professor Iida brings up these points in his article only to refute them.
I feel his cool objectivity (although this may the impression he tries
to create), but isn't it equally important that the reader understand what
he says with the same cool objectivity?
I still do not believe; however, I cannot organize my thoughts and I have
a strange feeling.
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Well, that's enough. "At any rate, we all will know when we die."
At first I thought that this letter was scathing criticism of me, and I
grimaced as I read it. However, the more I read it the more I felt that
the writer evaluated my article highly, and this made me very happy.
It seems that this man is a bit shaken in his belief that "consciousness
dies when we die, and nothing is left but ashes." He absolutely refuses
to accept "life after death," but he honestly admits that he
has "a strange feeling." I am certain that, in contrast to his
slightly sarcastic tone, he has a pure and honest heart. And when he wrote,
"At any rate, we all will know when we die," I could detect in
his words the hidden suggestion that we may have consciousness after we
die. We can "understand" nothing after we die unless we have
consciousness. Since the writer seems to be a very rational person, he
would understand the implication of writing, "At any rate, we all
will know when we die," and, yet, he still bravely wrote those words,
giving his honest thoughts.
Of all the hundreds and hundreds of letters that I have received, the letter
from that materialistic man, is one of those that made me happiest. I am
sure that there are many people who read about the scientific knowledge
and are able to understand it, but who find it "hard to start believing
it right away."
Our world is healthy because people think like that. It would be unnatural
if rational people accepted new paradigms easily. It is a sign of a healthy
society when many value theories exist.
If all the Japanese easily started believing in "life after death,"
then I would sound a warning and tell them to slow down. When young people
invite me to parties and other events, I am always reticent about speaking
about the above subject. If I am asked a question, I often will say, "I
am a scientist, not a religious leader, and I cannot answer questions like
that." Instead, I tell people in their teens and twenties that there
is a lot of information, but that they should not believe anything too
easily. They hate it when I lecture to them like that.
Those of you who want to live only for yourselves will not want to know
or accept the knowledge in this book because it is too frightening, and
I'm sure you wish you had never read this troubling book.
However, there are many people in this world who have not read this book
and who believe that after death comes nothingness. There are many people
who manage to live their lives with strength, with energy, with honesty
and with love, making others happy, even thought they believe that there
is nothingness after death. This book is useless for such strong people.
If this world contained only strong people, I would never have bothered
to write down a book as foolish as this one.
(2) GRATITUDE FOR "A GOD IN ONE'S OWN IMAGE"
Yet, I am confident that a certain percentage of people will believe what
I have written in this book. In my experience, there are numerous people
who secretly need the knowledge collected in this book. Many people, who
absolutely refuse to believe in any religious concepts, are deeply impressed
by the objective findings of scientific
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researchers, whose reports are detached from any religious concept; many
times, I have seen such people open their hearts, and decide that they
will incorporate the scientific aspects of this knowledge into their lives
because it is useful.
That such people exist shows modern people like me the very great importance
of having "a God in one's own image." I myself do not deny the
significance of religions, and I am sure that a "religious mind"
is very important for human beings. Moreover, I believe that an individual
can possess a "religious mind" even without belonging to any
particular religion. A person with such a "religious mind" can
be said to be predisposed to the "universal laws verified by scientific
knowledge."
There may be people who give the same standing to the universal laws of
"life after death" and "reincarnation" that religious
people accord to their "gods." There are probably other people
who use the term "God or Gods" for the "Guiding Spirit"(Beings
of Light) or for the "most important Spirit," that this universal
law shows to exist.
Most likely, those people who are aware of this real "God" do
not commit any sins or wrongdoing, even when no one else is present. They
feel confident that God is always present, observing their behavior, even
if no other person is there. If we have more people like them in the world,
there would surely be a sharp drop in crimes and useless battles between
those whose eyes are blinded by their materialistic desires.
To tell you the truth, many people have written who share the same viewpoint
as mine. For example, I received the following letter from a company president.
I am in the XX business in XX City. I am XX years-old this year. Despite
my age, I am very interested in the issue of human death, perhaps because
I lost my father young to cancer. At a time like that, my friend shared
your article with me, and I read it two or three times, thinking that I
have found the answer.
I expect that as knowledge of your article spreads throughout the world
that we will become enlightened about all the issues that affect the fate
of mankind, both the large issues such as the pressing global environmental
problem, global strife, racial prejudice, problems with medical care, religious
warfare and economic problems as well as the more minor problems, such
as domestic problems, issues of bullying and so on.
It will take tremendous energy and time to spread these ideas to many people,
and especially to those satisfied people who lead our times. Even though
I am still groping my way, I am trying to spread your ideas to others.
There are also many people who fully believe and live by the knowledge
in this book, but who have not been able to confide in others.
The following letter is from a person in his/her early thirties.
Over a period of six months X years ago, I lost my uncle, father, sister
and another great uncle. I began then to search for the meaning of "life."
I read voraciously books on religion and philosophy, on zazen and tried
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out many things. In the course of so doing, I discovered that I had easily
accepted the idea of reincarnation. I was overjoyed when I discovered your
article. Until now I have held back from telling others that I lived my
life aware that "life is a place for spiritual disciplines and testing
so that we can develop" because I thought they would be shocked at
such an extreme idea. I hope that many people read your article, and want
to do my small part to help create a "network for meaningful life."
First of all, I want to share your article with my family, my friends and
my colleagues.
All of you who have felt embarrassed, from now on throw your shoulders
back proudly and tell the whole world, "In order to live this life
as meaningfully and as fully as possible, I believe in a life after death,
and I am studying about reincarnation," just as myself and other researchers
from every nation in the world have already taken the first step.
Research on "life after death" and "reincarnation"
is important because of the connection with "life," not because
of the connection with "death."
(3) IT'S NOT "PAINFUL HARD WORK," BUT "JOYOUS SELF-CULTIVATION
Finding Out Who You Are
I would like to share with you a powerful message from the "Guiding
Spirit (Being of Light," conveyed through a person who had a near-death
experience.
The spirit said that human beings must realize what kind of creatures they are.
Human beings are strong, powerful beings, bold creatures who participate
in the great adventure called being human, as they lead their lives on
the earth.[154]
There is a crucial purpose embedded in these words that I resolved to proclaim
to the world through this book.
We took on bodily form and were born into the physical world so that we
could achieve our end goal, which is to resolve the life issues that we
have planned for ourselves. However, this is not intended to be "painful
hard work." This point is so important that I will to rephrase it
in more concrete terms. We are meant to do "joyous self-cultivation"
during our time on this earth, not "painful hard work."
Generally speaking, the concepts of "karmic retribution" and
"transmigration of souls" convey a dark and forbidding image,
implying that "life as a place for painful hard work, done with the
grinding of teeth, as we cast aside all pleasure and desires."
However, scientific findings on "reincarnation" reveal that we
must live creatively and happily in our daily lives and in our lives as
a whole, although we should cast aside "greed."
If we view life as "painful hard work," we may become stagnant
and uncreative, and we might spend all our days in meditation, stoically
enduring everything and cutting off communication with others in order
to live in a world of our own. However, if we view life as "joyous
self-cultivation," then we can meet many people, love greatly,
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join our strength, and move forward to resolve the life issues which we
have set for ourselves, with the ability to enjoy our own hobbies and pleasures,
as long as we don't inconvenience others or kill living creatures to no
purpose.
To put it in other words, life is a process for growing through the creation
of value, and a place for finding one's identity. "To live as you
are" is the basic practice task given to us humans. We are not supposed
to renounce the hobbies and the pleasures that suit us. Instead it is fine
for us to enjoy these with all our heart, as long as they lead to creative
activity. The vital thing is our degree of "enjoyment," but we
must not get off track or cause harm to other people, or to living creatures
or to the earth.
Our job is to be grateful for being alive and to live creatively enjoying
each day to the fullest, while never causing trouble to others. The Spirits
from the next world naturally want us to "control greed" and
"resolve our life issues," but that is the extent of their demands;
they have also sent many messages, telling us, "Live cheerfully and
positively," "Live life to the fullest," "Live in your
own way," and have told us that, "Laughter helps the heart grow."
According to the Spirits, one of our "life goals" is to find
a good balance between "subduing excess desires" and "enjoying
life." If we are able to balance these two demands skillfully, then
we will be able to evaluate ourselves at the end of our lives as "having
lived a full and creative life."
It Is Still Not Too Late To Change
As I explained previously, life is not a "play-off system." Instead,
in life, "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again." When
a person realizes how small-minded he has been, he can start that very
moment to change himself, and start behaving in "an upright, loving
manner." Even a person who has never spared a thought for others can
start changing himself a little bit at a time. A person can train himself
to say, "It is no one's fault; it's because I'm so weak," when
he is confronted with hardship or failure.
If a person has acted in ways that hurt others very much until now, well
he can start trying by hurting them a bit less. If he tries to stop cold
turkey all at once, that would be too difficult. As he strives to "hurt
others a little less," then before he knows it, it will become second
nature, and he can try for the next level, "to hurt people even less."
Sooner or later, his negative behavior will be all but gone.
Some people may say, "It's in my nature to hurt others, no matter
how hard I try not to," (I myself fit into this type, I fear.) People
like this should change their approach a bit, and try to compensate by
creating more joy for others than they cause harm. If they hurt people
ten times, then they should aim at making people happy eleven times.
Then people will switch from saying, "He's a nasty guy," to saying,
"He can be nasty sometimes, but he's very nice too." Doesn't
it sound a lot warmer and more pleasant to hear people say, "He often
does unpleasant things, but he's a good guy," rather than to hear
people say, "He's not exactly a jerk, but he's not very nice either?"
Despite how I may sound, I am not a fine person, one who can arrogantly
tell others what to do. When I reflect upon my life up until now, I am
overcome with shame to think how I have bullied others and hurt them, caused
great troubles to others and
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behaved outrageously. I was really a pitiful, immature person, lacking
in compassion. After my present life is finished, I am sure I will writhe
and weep tears of bitter remorse when the Guiding Spirit shows me the panoramic
vision of my life.
I am the one who should have read this book first!
However, I am lucky because my life still lies before me. I am just another
poor human being, suffering as much as the next person. I am sure I will
do many things that I regret, and say "Oh, no. I shouldn't have done
that," or "I didn't mean for that to happen. To tell the truth,
I say those phrases many times every day.
Nevertheless, I have great hopes for my future. It is because I know I
can improve little by little. Even if I cannot eliminate regret over my
negative behavior all at once, I know that I can gradually lesson it bit
by bit, and improve myself. I have resolved to make up little by little
for the mistakes I have made up until now.
We Are All Brave Travelers
Naturally, it is important to reflect upon our pasts; however, if we constantly
dwell upon our mistakes, then we fall into a gloomy existence, and our
lives turn into nothing more than "hard work." At that point
we might as well turn our backs on this vulgar world and become hermits
on the mountains.
Now that we all know that one big reason that we were born on this earth
was "to study human relationships," you know that we must not
distance ourselves from the world, but must instead meet all our old soulmates
once again.. It is clear that meeting with our soulmates again is the way
that "we enjoy our self-cultivation." If we hold back because
we think human relationships are a lot of trouble, then we will make little
progress as spirits, and there is no point in our having come here to the
earth for self-cultivation.
As the Guiding Spirit tells us encouragingly, "You are a great, strong
and powerful existence," and "You are a brave spirit to participate
in the great adventure of living as a human being and trying to make your
life develop."We are not here "to painfully force ourselves to
do bitter hard work."We are here "to take the initiative and
enjoy ourselves as we cultivate ourselves and learn." That is why
subjects of hypnotic regression have said, "we are immortal. We are
beyond life and death, beyond space and beyond time." (Many Lives,
Many Masters, p. 173 or 186)
This star called the "earth" can be considered as "self
education center with a playground" that we, who are members of the
innumerable Spirits of space, have chosen to attend in order to experience
the "joy and self-cultivation which can only be realized when we have
a physical form." Here we work at trying to resolve issues which we
have chosen for ourselves, but we are allowed to have a wonderful time
playing in our free moments. Doing nothing but playing will not help our
spiritual growth; however, doing nothing but studying will not lead to
a rich and creative life.
We are souls filled with curiosity, aspiration and courage; we have taken
the initiative and asked to participate in "a world tour in order
to experience a human lifetime where we will try hard to achieve love and
creativity."
Shouldn't we be thrilled and excited to participate in this "self-cultivation, filled with joy?"
The End. page 130
page 131. POSTSCRIPT
This book aims at showing us a powerful "reason for living,"
by compiling and synthesizing scientific research results regarding "the
world after death" and "rebirth."
I have written voluminously in this book already; however, the scientific
data discussed in this book is only a small portion of the tremendous volume
of research on "the world after death" and "rebirth"
that exists. I fervently hope that interested readers will look at the
original documents and make their own evaluations. If you throw away all
your preconceived ideas and read with an open mind, you will be deeply
moved and strongly impressed by the profound meaning in the research results.
Much of what the scientists write make us question the real meaning of life.
For us, "death" is not at all frightening, but instead is a peaceful
moment which marks the conclusion of our spiritual discipline in this world
and our return home to the next world. When a loved one dies, it is not
at all an eternal parting, but is instead a brief period when we cannot
converse before we are reunited in the next world.
Moreover, the spirits of our family members and friends who have died before
us surround us in this world as we continue our spiritual disciplines.
They are always warmly speaking to us to protect us, and they always hear
us when we speak to them. Have you never felt as if someone is watching
you even when there was no one about? Have you never remembered suddenly
and for no particular reason someone who is dead? It is at just such moments
that the spirits are actually sending us their messages. Open your hearts
and ask, "Who are you?" "What are you trying to tell me?"
You will most probably see the face of a departed loved one or hear his
words. We are never alone even when we are all alone in the middle of the
wilderness.
We also learn how important are gratitude, forgiveness and love as we return
lifetime after lifetime to this world to perform spiritual disciplines.
Life is like a test book that we ourselves compiled before we were born.
Finding out whether or not our answers to the problems are right has to
wait until we have finished the test book.
When we have finished the test book called life, then and only then are
we able to measure by ourselves how much we have grown by comparing the
answer sheet that we had prepared to what we did in our life. At that point,
we draw up for ourselves a more difficult test book so that we can resolve
the problems we missed the first time. Then we are ready to take our test
book along as we make another visit to this world, our place of spiritual
testing.
The words of the scientists bring a long-awaited dawn to the hearts of
modern man who had lost the "meaning of life" and were sunk in
darkness.
Authoring this book is not an accomplishment that well help my career as
a scholar of management. What lies ahead for me is malicious criticism
and slander, as well as kindly advice from well-wishers. However, what
matters to me now is not my ranking as a scholar of management or calculations
of costs and benefits for myself. I am confident my own personal reputation
is far less important than sharing with many people the scientific knowledge
compiled and synthesized in this book.
Because I have attempted to give this book a "content that will give
people hope" and have tried to make the book "easy to understand,"
I have laid the book wide open
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to sharp criticism of tiny details. Probably some group will appear that
tries to tear down the value of this book by making personal attacks upon
me. Please, my readers, make your own judgments about how important this
book is to me.
Please give this book as a present with a grateful heart to those who are
important to you and to those you love. Please expand around yourself the
"network of life's meaning." After a while, the "networks
of life's meaning" started here and there by various individuals will
join together and strange phenomena will begin to occur.
However, please do not make any strenuous efforts to convince people who
tell you, "I do not need this." There is "time" for
everything. When the time comes and their hearts are ready, they will automatically
open their hearts, without needing your convincing. When that happens,
stretch out your hands and place this book near them. Leave it all to the
"spirits" protecting that person.
I pray with all my heart that this book will give even a small measure
of hope and strength to even one of the many people who are suffering.
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EPILOGUE - The World Will Be as One
You have now finished reading the content of this book. However, there
is just one more thing that I wish to convey to my readers. It is the connections
between the various concepts in this work, including religion, that one
must realize in order to understand this book.
The results of scientific research discussed in this book do not nullify
the beliefs of any particular religion, nor do they support the beliefs
of one particular religion. Rather, what the researchers write is a crystallization
and mix of Buddhist beliefs about karmic retribution, Christian concepts
of "love," as well as the beliefs of many other religions. One
can say that the central cores of the scientific research findings compiled
in this book are "identical to that of all religions."
In other words, the more that scientific research progresses, the clearer
it will become that "all religions can be combined into one"
and that "the world is one." All good-hearted believers hope
in their hearts that the arguments and useless fights that take place among
some of the religious bodies will cease and that they will work together
happily, acknowledging their differences.
As a scientific researcher, I would like to express my hope that the time
has come when both people who believe in a religion and those who do not
will respect each others' values and make their shared aim "peace
and happiness" as they move forward together in harmony and peace.
The more that scientific research progresses, the clearer it will be that
"the world is one." The time is coming when all the people living
on the earth will respect each others' values, strive together to attain
the goals of "peace and happiness, and begin living together in harmony.
I would like to end this book by pointing out that the spirits ordered
me to convey the urgent message in this book to people and so I rashly
published this book. (It has been a life-and-death gamble for me to publish
this book, and it brings me no benefits in terms of how the world measures
benefits.)
Finally, I would like the beloved spirit of John Lennon in the next world
to sing for us some words which perfectly convey my own emotions.
You may say I'm a dreamer,
but I'm not the only one.
I hope someday you'll join us,
and the world will be as one.
John Lennon, "Imagine"
page 134. Won't You Join the "Network of Life's Meaning?"
Won't You Join the "Network of Life's Meaning?"
The "network of life's meaning" refers to the shared feelings
held by those who have read this book, to their "emotional links."
It is not an organization nor a society.
There is no office and there is no leader; there are no membership applications
nor membership dues. There is no address where you must send something.
You can "join up" immediately at any time.
All you need to join the "network of life's meaning" is to agree
with the ideas advanced in this book and to decide to join the network.
Once you decide to join, the spirits who protect you will link you firmly
with an invisible cord to the other members.
The "network of life's meaning" is like the internet on your
PC. At that moment, you are linked heart to heart with all the readers
in the world who agree with this book.
No matter where you go, you will never be alone. Many of your comrades
are cheering you on from around the world. And you must always encourage
your many comrades around the world.
However, if you join the "network of life's meaning," there are
five conditions which you must strive to meet.
1. Try to live in your own way.
2. Take good care of your parents and your family and love all people,
animals and nature.
3. Have the courage to face hardship and turn your failures into valuable experiences.
4. Forgive and be magnanimous and never get angry no matter how much other
people misunderstand and slander you because you agree with this book.
5. Do not force your values on other people. If they say, "I'm not
interested," stop talking about this book,and wait for the day when
that person opens this book on his own.
If you are prepared to do the above, then link yourself quickly to all
your friends around the world in the heart-to-heart "network of life's
meaning." As time passes, your heart will fill with the warm wishes
sent to you by your comrades. Look around you soon to see if any of your
comrades are nearby. If you find a comrade, then your code phrase is "Linked!"
Let's try to verify where the network is.
You have now become one of the very important group holding up the future
of the world. Even at that moment, your comrades are steadily increasing
in number. And now, you should be able to hear in your heart the words
of the spirits protecting you, "Well done. You've resolved to climb
to a high level in your spiritual advancement!"
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[5] Personally I highly evaluate the courageous activities of Swedenburg,
Conan- Doyle, Edgar Casey and Shutiner, and do not consider their exemplary
actions to be influenced by religious impulses or vulgar curiosity. However,
I did not quote their old works because the recent scientific research
leads to the same conclusion as theirs, thus permitting me to stress their
greatness, as I wished to do. Just the mention of their names is enough
to make many people show strong denials and rejection.
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BIBLIOGRAPHY 137
[18] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
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[19] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
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[20] Mr. Katsumi Hirano describes this case precisely in his work, "Tanjo
no Shimpi o Saguru 16" (Literally, "Searching for the Secrets
of Birth – 16"), in the monthly journal Hai Genki, Tokyo: Sawayaka
Shuppansha (Publishers) v. 63, 1995.
[21] Refer to Saimin Ryoho Jittaiken (Literally: "Actual Examples
of Hypnotherapy,") by Mayumi Yamamoto, in the journal Power Space
v. 23, Tokyo: Sawayaka Shuppan (Publishers), 1995.
[22] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 168.)
[23] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Note 23-A refers to a discussion of Dr. Helen
Wambach's study on pages 67-68 of Dr. Whitton's book. Dr. Wambach's study
was initially published in Life Before Life, (Helen Wambach, New York:
Bantam Books, 1979.) Note 23-B refers to page 68 of Dr. Whitton's book,
where Dr.Wambach's work Life Before Life is again discussed.
[24] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
1992. (Pages 81-82.)
[25] "Are Holocaust Victims Returning?" by Rabbi Yonassan Gershom,
in Venture Inward, November/December 1987. (Both 25-A and 25-B are on page
18.)
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Press of Virginia, 1984.
[27] Children Who Remember Previous Lives, Ian Stevenson, Virginia: The
University Press of Virginia, 1987.
[28] Children Who Remember Previous Lives, Ian Stevenson, Virginia: The
University Press of Virginia, 1987.
[29] Children Who Remember Previous Lives, Ian Stevenson, Virginia: The
University Press of Virginia, 1987. (Page 233.)
[30] Claims of Reincarnation, Satwant Pasricha, Ph.D., Harmon Publishing
House, New Delhi, 1990. (Page 233.)
[31] Claims of Reincarnation, Satwant Pasricha, Ph.D., Harmon Publishing
House, New Delhi, 1990. (Page 233.)
[32] The Holotropic Mind, S. Grof, John Brockman Associates, 1992. (Page
133.) 138 BIBLIOGRAPHY
[33] The Holotropic Mind, S. Grof, John Brockman Associates, 1992. (Page 130.)
[34] The Holotropic Mind, S. Grof, John Brockman Associates, 1992. (Page 127.)
[35] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Pages 20-21.)
[36] Transformed by the Light, Melvin Morse, M.D., with Paul Perry, New
York: Villard Books, 1992. (Pages x-xi.)
[37] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (Page 13-14.)
[38] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (38-A is on page 28 and 38-B is on page 30.)
[39] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 30-31.)
[40] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 33.)
[41] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (Page 60.)
[42] Refer to "Tanjo no Shimpi o Saguru 16" (Literally, "Searching
for the Secrets of Birth – 16"), in the monthly journal Hai Genki,
Sawayaka Shuppansha (Publishers) v. 63, 1995.
[43] Shi no Taiken (Literally, "Experiences of Death") by Karl
Baker, Tokyo: Hozokan, 1992, pages 30-32.
[44] Parting Visions, Melvin Morse, M.D., with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (44-A is on pages 23-24 and 44-B is on page 24.)
[45] Parting Visions, Melvin Morse, M.D., with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (Page 190.)
[46] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (46-A is on page 14 and 46-B is on page 15.)
[47] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (Page 33.)
[48] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (Page 15.)
[49] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (This case is on pages 126-140.) BIBLIOGRAPHY
139
[50] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Pages 38-41.)
[51] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (51-A is on page 107; 51-B is on page 41.)
[52] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (52-A is from pages 90-98; 52B is on page 98.)
[53] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (53-A and 53-B are both on page 98.)
[54] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 40.)
[55] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 41.)
[56] Saved by the Light, Dannion Brinkley with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (Note 56-A is taken from pages 7-10; note 56-B is from page
10; note 56-C is from page 11; note 56-D is from page 17; and note 56-E
is from pages 19-20.)
[57] Saved by the Light, Dannion Brinkley with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (Note 57-A is from page 20; note 57-B is from pages 20-21.)
[58] Saved by the Light, Dannion Brinkley with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (Page 51-52.)
[59] Transformed by the Light, Melvin Morse, M.D., with Paul Perry, New
York: Villard Books, 1992. (Page xii.)
[60] Embraced by the Light, Betty J. Eadie, New York: Bantum Books, 1994.
(Page 113.)
[61] Parting Visions, Melvin Morse, M.D., with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (Note 61-A is from pages 103-104; note 61-B is from page 104.)
[62] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 44.)
[63] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 45.)
[64] Saved by the Light, Dannion Brinkley with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (Page 15.)
[65] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 46.)
[66] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 46.)
140 BIBLIOGRAPHY
[67] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 190-191.)
[68] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 51.)
[69] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (All of quotations from the book in this section
are taken from pages 75 through 79.)
[70] Mr. Katsumi Hirano describes this case precisely in his work, "Tanjo
no Shimpi o Saguru 16" (Literally, "Searching for the Secrets
of Birth – 16"), in the monthly journal Hai Genki, Sawayaka Shuppansha
(Publishers) v. 63, 1995. In his book, however, Mr. Iida is adding his
own view, referring to the report on patients.
[71] Refer to Raluhu to Dorain – Aru Jinzo Ishokusha no Taiko Saimin ni
Yoru Kakosei, (Literally, "Raruha and Dorain – Past Lives of a Kidney
Transplant Patient, Revealed During Hypnotherapy"), Tokyo:1996. This
is an unpublished work which is being distributed by the writer himself.
[72] Refer to Raluhu to Dorain – Aru Jinzo Ishokusha no Taiko Saimin ni
Yoru Kakosei (Literally, "Raruha and Dorain – Past Lives of a Kidney
Transplant Patient, Revealed During Hypnotherapy"), Tokyo:1996. This
is an unpublished work which is being distributed by the writer himself.
[73] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Pages 80-81.)
[74] Many Lives, Many Masters, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon &Schuster,
1988. (Page 85.)
[75] Many Lives, Many Masters, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon &Schuster,
1988. (Page 217.)
[76] Many Lives, Many Masters, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon &Schuster,
1988. (Page 112.)
[77] Embraced by the Light, Betty J. Eadie, New York: Bantum Books, 1994.
(Pages 95-96.)
[78] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 79.)
[79] Embraced by the Light, Betty J. Eadie, New York: Bantum Books, 1994.
(Page 92.)
[80] Who Were You Before You Were You? Garrett Oppenheim, Ph.D., New York: Carlton Press, Inc., 1990. (Page 128.)
BIBLIOGRAPHY 141
[81] Who Were You Before You Were You? Garrett Oppenheim, Ph.D., New York:
Carlton Press, Inc., 1990. (The quotes in this section from Who Were You
Before You Were You? are from pages 129-130.)
[82] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
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[83] Children Who Remember Previous Lives, Ian Stevenson, Virginia: The
University Press of Virginia, 1987.
[84] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
1992. (Page 91.)
[85] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
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[86] Many Lives, Many Masters, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon &Schuster,
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[87] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
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[88] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
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[89] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L.Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon&Schuster,
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[90] The Holotropic Mind, S. Grof, John Brockman Associates, 1992. (Page 131.)
[91] The Art of Loving, E. Fromm, New York: Haprer & Brothers, 1956.
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[93] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
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[94] Claims of Reincarnation, Satwant Pasricha, Ph.D., Harmon Publishing
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[95] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
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page 56.)
[96] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
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142 BIBLIOGRAPHY
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journal Hai Genki, Sawayaka Shuppansha (Publishers) v. 63, 1995.
[99] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
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[100] Many Lives, Many Masters, Brian L. Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon &
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[101] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
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[102] Many Lives, Many Masters, Brian L. Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon &
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[103] Reunions, Raymond A. Moody, Jr., M.D. with Paul Perry, New York:
Villard Books, 1993. (Page xix-xx.)
[104] Reunions, Raymond A. Moody, Jr., M.D. with Paul Perry, New York:
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[105] Reunions, Raymond A. Moody, Jr., M.D. with Paul Perry, New York:
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[106] Reunions, Raymond A. Moody, Jr., M.D. with Paul Perry, New York:
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[107] Reunions, Raymond A. Moody, Jr., M.D. with Paul Perry, New York:
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[108] Reunions, Raymond A. Moody, Jr., M.D. with Paul Perry, New York:
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[109] Reunions, Raymond A. Moody, Jr., M.D. with Paul Perry, New York:
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[110] We Don't Die, Joel Martin and Patricia Romanowski, New York: G.P.
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[112] Shisha wa Kataru (Literally, "The Dead Speak"), by Hiroshi
Itokawa. Tokyo: Kodansha (Publishers), 1992. (Pages 39-40).
[113] Shisha wa Kataru (Literally, "The Dead Speak"), by Hiroshi
Itokawa. Tokyo: Kodansha (Publishers), 1992. (Pages 74-85).
BIBLIOGRAPHY 143
[114] Shisha wa Kataru (Literally, "The Dead Speak"), by Hiroshi
Itokawa. Tokyo: Kodansha (Publishers), 1992. (Pages 92-94).
[115] Shisha wa Kataru (Literally, "The Dead Speak"), by Hiroshi
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[116] Shisha wa Kataru (Literally, "The Dead Speak"), by Hiroshi
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[117] Shisha wa Kataru (Literally, "The Dead Speak"), by Hiroshi
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[118] Shisha wa Kataru (Literally, "The Dead Speak"), by Hiroshi
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[119] Shisha wa Kataru (Literally, "The Dead Speak"), by Hiroshi
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[120] Kagaku to Hikagaku no Aida ("Literally, "Between Science
and Non-Science"), by Ikuro Anzai, Kyoto: Kamogawa Shuppan (Publishers),
1995. (Pages 62-63 and page 20.)
[121] Shinu Toki Ni Miru Kokei (Literally, "The Vision We See At Death"),
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[122] Is There Life After Death?, Professor Robert Kastenbaum, London:
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[123] Footnote 123A is refers to Is There Life After Death? by Professor
Robert Kastenbaum (London: Prion, 1995.) In this book, Professor Kastenbaum
alternatively argues the advocate's view and the skeptic's view of paranormal
phenomena. footnote 123-B refers to On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross,
Berkeley, California: Celestial Arts, 1991. (Page 14.)
[124] Many Lives, Many Masters, Brian L. Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon &
Schuster, 1988. (Page 11.)
[125] Uchu Ni Wa Ishi Ga Aru, by Kunitomo Sakurai, Japan: Crest Sensho,
1995. (Page 200)
[126] Beyond Death, Robert Almeder, Ph.D., Springfield, Illinois: Charles
C Thomas - Publisher, 1982. (Page vii.)
[127] Rinshi Taiken no Sekai (Literally, "The World of Near-Death
Experiences"), by Masahiko Nakamura, Tokyo: Futami Shobo (Publisher),
1991. (Note 127-A is from page 235; note 127-B is from page 309.)
[128] Kagaku to Hikagaku no Aida (Literally, "Between Science and
Non-Science"), by Ikuro Anzai, Kyoto: Kamogawa Shuppan (Publishers),
1995. (Page 10.)
144 BIBLIOGRAPHY
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by Gary Doore, Ph.D., New York: G.P. PUTNAM'S SONS, 1990. Footnote 129-C
is on page 278 of the same work.
[130] Ikigai to wa Nani Ka (Literally, "What is the Meaning of Life?),"
by Tsukasa Kobayashi, Tokyo: NHK Books, 1989. (Pages 27-28.)
[131] Jiko Jitsugen no Shinri, (Literally, "Truths in Self-Realization"),
by Yoshikazu Ueda, Tokyo: Seishin Shobo (Publishers), 1976. (Pages 63-64.
[132] Full Circle, B. Harris and L.C. Bascom, The Adele Leonie Agency, 1990.
[133] Recollections of Death, Michael B. Sabom, M.D., F.A.C.C., New York:
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[134] Results of this survey are quoted on page 123 of The Psychology of
Happiness, Michael Argyle, New York: Routledge, 1987.
[135] Results of this survey are quoted on page 197 of The Psychology of
Happiness, Michael Argyle, New York: Routledge, 1987.
[136] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 207.)
[137] Parting Visions, Melvin Morse, M.D., with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (Pages 165-166.)
[138] Recollections of Death, Michael B. Sabom, M.D., F.A.C.C., New York:
Harper and Row, 1982. (Einstein is quoted on page 186 of Recollections
of Death. The quotation is from The Human Side, Albert Einstein, Helen
Dukas and Banesh Hoffmann, eds. Princeton: Princeton University Press,
1979, page 33.)
[139] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (Pages 56-58.)
[140] Recollections of Death, Michael B. Sabom, M.D., F.A.C.C., New York:
Harper and Row, 1982. (Page 186.)
[141] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (Page 79.)
[142] Children Who Remember Previous Lives, Ian Stevenson, Virginia: The
University Press of Virginia, 1987. (Pages 85-88.)
[143] Through Time Into Healing, Brian L. Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon
& Schuster, 1992. (Page 152.)
[144] Recollections of Death, Michael B. Sabom, M.D., F.A.C.C., New York:
Harper and Row, 1982. (Page 126.)
BIBLIOGRAPHY 145
[145] Recollections of Death, Michael B. Sabom, M.D., F.A.C.C., New York:
Harper and Row, 1982. (Page 129.)
[146] Many Lives, Many Masters, Brian L. Weiss, M.D., New York: Simon &
Schuster, 1988. (Page 140.)
[147] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988. (Page 138.)
[148] Life Between Life, Joel L. Whitton, M.D., Ph.D. and Joe Fisher, New
York: Warner Books, 1988.
[149] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (Page 82.)
[150] The Light Beyond, Raymond A. Moody, Jr., M.D., New York: Bantum,
1989. (Page 41.)
[151] Parting Visions, Melvin Morse, M.D., with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994. (Page 172.)
[152] Refer to Raluhu to Dorain – Aru Jinzo Ishokusha no Taiko Saimin ni
Yoru Kakosei, (Literally, "Raruha and Dorain – Past Lives of a Kidney
Transplant Patient, Revealed During Hypnotherapy"), Tokyo:1996. This
is an unpublished work which is being distributed by the writer himself.
Page 234.
[153] On Life After Death, Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, Berkeley, California:
Celestial Arts, 1991. (Page 63-64.)
[154] Saved by the Light, Dannion Brinkley with Paul Perry, New York: Villard
Books, 1994.
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